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Archived questions from: December, 2018 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

Should I ask an 18 year old out or is she too young for me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2187 days ago

31 December 2018 (F) - I’m a single mum with a toddler and after over two years of being single i decided last week to put myself back out there. I’m bisexual and while on a dating site I started talking to a girl who I like. My problem is that I’m nervous about getting ...

He wont have sex with me and prefers porn.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2180 days ago

31 December 2018 (F) - We have had a rough relationship. 2 years+. Hes cheated, and always put me in competition. Now we have a baby and he loves him so much, but he cheated on me when i was pregnant. Its been an abusive relationship ever since the 5th month. He ...

I've met a nice guy but my cheating daddy wants me back

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2188 days ago

30 December 2018 (F) - Please help me I am in such a dilemma a few months ago me and my baby daddy split up due to a lot of issues in which one of them was him cheating I am not sure if it was physical but I know for sure girls were calling him and texting him and he was ...

Should I take note of our horoscopes? The Chinese one says we are incompatible!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2188 days ago

30 December 2018 (F) - This probably seems silly but I have been reading Chinese horoscopes and compatability with my boyfriend and they say we are not suited. It says his soul mate Chinese animal was a horse and his ex wife was one, yet my animal is the least compatible ...

My new job demands much more of my time! Any advice?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2191 days ago

28 December 2018 (F) - Three weeks ago I started a job in my career path that I’ve been praying for for a long time now. Great location for me, benefits, union, pay is good, the whole nine yards. I feel so overwhelming blessed for me and my family. The only downside to ...

My step children's mother is creating problems

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2189 days ago

27 December 2018 (F) - Dear Aunts and Uncles I need some advice please. Not sure where to go from here. I have 2 beautiful step children. They have just got back from a once in a lifetime holiday with their Mum. We didn’t know about this holiday at all as the...

Does he still like me? Am I over thinking?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2192 days ago

27 December 2018 (F) - I ve been seeing this lad for a couple of months. We spend hours talking and he always asks about my life. On nights out he will.stay with me all night in the club rather than his friends. When people ask us what we are sometimes he says I m his mrs ...

How can I ask my family to back off from my pregnant girlfriend?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2191 days ago

27 December 2018 (M) - I’ve been dating my gf for 6 months. My family met her for the first time over the holidays and they weren’t very welcoming. When we met she had just found out she was pregnant. She also has a two year daughter. She left her ex because he was chea...

My abusive father has turned the family against us. Does anyone have any words of support/similar stories?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2188 days ago

27 December 2018 (F) - Hi, Im just seeking stories of others if anyone has gone through something similar. It would be comforting to hear, as I know there is little to be done about my current family situation. Last year I decided to cut contact with my father due to hi...

Male friend wants to discuss sexual fantasies ....he has a girlfriend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2191 days ago

25 December 2018 (F) - No, I am not looking to make him my boyfriend Just want to know if its normal for men with girlfriends to want to talk to their female friends about their sexual fantasies? he even asked if i had a boyfriend and when i asked why he said because...

Boyfriend lied about moving overseas to keep sleeping with me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2193 days ago

25 December 2018 (F) - My Boyfriend and I broke up I'm very depressed this Christmas we had been together for a year with a 2 month breakup in between because he refused to tell anyone about me... He claims to be private I took him back because I don't believe he was ...

Is collateral damage a side effect of online dating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2197 days ago

23 December 2018 (M) - I’ve been trying online dating for a little while with the goal of eventually finding a committed relationship. I haven’t actually met anyone in person (yet) but I have chatted with a fair number of people. Most of those conversations fissled out ...

He wants to spend the rest of his life with me but without marriage.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2193 days ago

22 December 2018 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year. We have a child together. We are both divorced. We both have children from the marriages. We are in a serous relationship. He has talked about us getting a home together. He has said more than ...

I love him but since his massive weight gain don't find him attractive enough for sex

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2195 days ago

21 December 2018 (F) - Hi, okay so I really hope I don’t come across as been an absolute bitch here but I could really use some help!! So. My partner has put on a lot of weight. A good 4/5 stone! He was around 12 stone when we met. He’s 6ft3 so was really slim, I’ve alw...

The gossip has taken all the good that I do and turned me into nothing.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2138 days ago

21 December 2018 (F) - Hey Cupids, My questions are about moving on after divorce/separation. I met my beautiful lover earlier this year when he was in an unhappy marriage. We started seeing each other but feelings were serious enough that he left his wife after 7 wee...

Is it possible to be a semi-reclusive artist and still contribute something of value to the local town? Please share similar experiences!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2181 days ago

21 December 2018 (F) - Has anyone here got any experience of settling in a new country where you don't speak the language and are not sure how to fit in? I am thinking of buying a 2nd home - which I will spend about 6 months of the year in. I know that sounds extravaga...

Has anybody else ever missed out on time and then got past it and been able to get on afterwards without too much regret?.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2202 days ago

17 December 2018 (M) - Confidence has never been my forte in life and it is holds me back in so many things. In my early 20's I had even lower levels of confidence and has stuck with me since. I am now 30 and have missed out so many opertunitys in life.. ASKIN women out, ...

Should I hold on to Alice? Break it off? And what about my wild partying?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2203 days ago

17 December 2018 (M) - I've been in a committed relationship for all of my adult life (7 years). But alas, she moved away (far away) and left me single. I've decided to move on. Lately, I've been seeing a girl I met online. Lets call her Alice. We have shocking amount ...

Why did he still help his supposedly awful ex despite whatever she did to him? Is he lying to me about his feelings for her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2200 days ago

17 December 2018 (F) - Hi, i hope i can get some advice here to move on in my life. I have been with my boyfriend coming up two years, we get on well and i feel we are compatible. but there is a problem. My boyfriend went to America when he was 19 years old, stayed with...

I met a cute guy at a job interview, when can I make a move on him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2203 days ago

17 December 2018 (F) - I had a interview and I was given a tour of the place and met this VERY VERY VERY CUTE GUY who told me about the area he works in etc.. which is the area i would be in if i get the job... well he came out the back area, with such confidence as he ...

When he is sober he's nice, when he is drunk its a big downfall.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2200 days ago

16 December 2018 (F) - Hi, I'm kinda dating one man few months, but I'm quite worried about him, because many times we go out, he drinks. While I'm having one beer or glass of wine, he has few and often some hard liquors too..he gets pretty drunk often to the level th...

I've met a lovely man but my ex wants to pick up where we left off.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2204 days ago

16 December 2018 (F) - right now im feeling meh . everything but my love life is going great. I got into online dating and have met a fantastic man we get on so well apart from odd times he acts like a 5 year old espesh around his 8 yr old nephew. He really acts like a ...

Is this co-worker friendly or testing out to be more flirty?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2203 days ago

14 December 2018 (F) - At work there is a guy about my age who recently when around me or talking to me seems to want to touch my arm (shoulder area). He is a lovely guy to chat too but it dawned on me that no-one else seems to do it/not seen him do it to others). The ...

What is my sis in law suggesting here? That I'm a loser??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2204 days ago

13 December 2018 (F) - Was this fb post directed at me? and my “ettiquette” in talking with my sis in law and 11 yr old neice when I see them over new year? They live 2 hours from me in a small town. Im driving to see them in early Jan, sometime when its ok for ...

This guy has a girlfriend, should I forget about him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2206 days ago

13 December 2018 (F) - Hello, I know a guy for almost three months now, who I thought I was getting along with well and gave him my number because we work together. He's the only person I talk to, really. I told him I was finishing school, he mentioned he's finishing s...

I wonder if forgiveness is the key to moving forward

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2207 days ago

12 December 2018 (F) - I, like many grew up with a toxic family. My parents where not there and pretty much abandoned me. I have struggled alot of my life due to this but also the last few years I have done alot of work and had therapy on this. This has made things easier ...

I'm being used by a totally useless boyfriend and I feel trapped

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2207 days ago

12 December 2018 (F) - When me and my guy first got together about 8 months ago, he had his own vehicle, his own place to live with a roommate, a good paying job, and was easy to get along with. After about 5 months i agreed to let him move in with me but things went ...

How can I approach faith and dating ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2207 days ago

11 December 2018 (F) - I realize my question is towards faith and love but I wanted to come here since I got fantastic advice during my abusive relationships. I have been in what I would say emotionally neglectful combative home - my youth was always comparative to what ...

Am I being unrealistic. Is it too late to change my thinking?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2209 days ago

11 December 2018 (F) - I really hope that men in particular won’t take this question. Personally because obviously it’s not aimed at anyone and I realise that there must be good men in the world but I want to ask if any women have experienced similar to me and how they ...

The neurosurgeon I have met online says he wants a dominant woman.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2210 days ago

10 December 2018 (F) - Hello everyone. I’m 41 and just strarted looking to online dating 4 years after divorce. I started chatting with this incredibly smart and handsome guy. He is 47 and a neurosurgeon. Never been married and no kids. We both have the same religion and ...

His ex was HOT ... is he settling for me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2208 days ago

9 December 2018 (F) - My bf and I have been dating a little over a year. This insecurity of mine is due to one particular ex coming up several times in our convos. Always comes up about how guys swooned over his ex because she was hot. My bf says I'm the best he has ...

I'm keeping it light and my options open, does this make me a bad person?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2209 days ago

9 December 2018 (F) - Hi, so I’m a single mum, I’ve been on my own for about 7 years now, I haven’t dated in a few years as I just couldn’t be bothered anymore. But recently on a Facebook group I’ve met two men, I like them both, and they are both aware of each other, ...

I showed interest in a shy guy, now he wont leave me alone.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2209 days ago

9 December 2018 (F) - I've been acquaintances/friends with a guy from work for about 9 months, we weren't really close but had a lot in common and chatted when we saw each other. He's in his thirties and openly admitted once to not being good with women. Anyway we were ...

Does my FWB want a relationship or is this just a power play?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2210 days ago

9 December 2018 (F) - I know this site is filled with people wanting their fwb/ fuck buddy to be something more but mine has started telling me I need to open up to him more and trying to get me to admit I have a crush on him. Is this him trying to have a relation...

Loves first kiss ..........

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2157 days ago

9 December 2018 (M) - How can I kiss a girl who is taller than me without looking silly. I imagine we will be standing since it will be the first kiss. ...

My younger boyfriend just asked me to marry him

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2211 days ago

9 December 2018 (F) - I'm 31 years old woman divorced with 2 kids one of whom have a a disability. I've stayed away from relationships all together because my life is not easy and I have my priorities. Lately, a younger man started to show interest in me, he is 5 ...

My boyfriend is generous with his mum and friends, but miserly with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2211 days ago

9 December 2018 (F) - I have been in a relationship for 6 years, we are put in outer late 20's. My boyfriend does not like to spend money on me but I find journals of all the expenses he pays for his mom, including a car he just bought her. He does not help me clean an...

New boyfriend gets upset because I wont let him move in.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2211 days ago

6 December 2018 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for 11 months now. Previously married for 5 years. Our relationship has been rocky to say the least but we have come to a crossroads suddenly. He lives with his mom and they are getting evicted. He isn’t working at ...

Is this relationship even worth working towards if she is so secretive about her past?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2215 days ago

3 December 2018 (M) - In July I met a girl at work, she had just moved to my very small hometown a few weeks before we met. She is 23 and has a 1 year daughter. We quickly became friends and I started crushing on her at the same time. She very quite but lots of fun once ...

I love him and want to stay with him, so why can't I let go of these fears that my marriage wont last?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2215 days ago

3 December 2018 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. He's 23, I'm 25. I'm the first girlfriend he's ever had, he's my fourth relationship. Everything with us is pretty much perfect. I've never had a relationship this comfortable before. It seems like ...

Is it possible we "love" each other?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2215 days ago

2 December 2018 (M) - Hi. I've been married since 1995,and we get along fine, but I met this lady "B" at work in 2004. Without meaning to, we became very close even though she was engaged to someone I knew. Nothing actually happened because she was my boss, but everyone ...

I work as a cam girl but don't want my boyfriend watching other cam girls

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2215 days ago

1 December 2018 (F) - I work as a cam girl on a website. This is actually my second job to make extra cash. My boyfriend was aware of this before we started dating. Few days back he thought that since I was working as a cam girl it made it ok for him to join one of t...

I haven't seen my girlfriend in 3 months

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2214 days ago

1 December 2018 (M) - We haven’t seen eachother in 3 months. She’s busy redoing her second year of nursing. Anyway, last week she booked our flights to Spain in January, which is something I’m really excited about, but I just miss her so, so much. I feel fine mos...

I had an affair with my boss

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2205 days ago

1 December 2018 (F) - I had an affair with my boss. We are both married. It was clearly an emotional affair for five years and then we crossed the line. I know it was wrong and there’s different reasons on both sides why we went down this path - not an excuse though. His ...

Child abuse has left me unable to connect with others

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2217 days ago

1 December 2018 (F) - I've always had problems showing affection, all i have inside me is hatred and anger. I've suffered from abuse since i was a child, and it have affected me till this day. I still live with my parents, I'm a great student but i just can't stand my...