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writes:We haven’t seen eachother in 3 months. She’s busy redoing her second year of nursing. Anyway, last week she booked our flights to Spain in January, which is something I’m really excited about, but I just miss her so, so much. I feel fine most days, but there are moments when I can’t help but feel sad. I love her, but I haven’t told her yet - but there isn’t much need because I know she does. She’s not verbally expressive, she’s also quite shy, but I can just tell through her actions. Anyway, like I said, sometimes I feel down because it’s been so long. There isn’t really a question I want to ask, I’m just here to rant and get this off my chest, because I’m incapable of opening up to my friends, even the closest ones. I just can’t wait to see her... it almost feels like the first date again. Im nervous, I’m very excited, ....
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2018): When my niece was in nursing school she did the same thing.Nursing school is hard..She is serious about it and really needs to study.You will be going on vacation soon.Use that vacation to make up for lost time.Do not pressure her at all school is hard enough.Even though nursing school is hard it will soon be over.Then both of you can reap the rewards.Be patient and loving.
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reader, no nonsense Aidan  +, writes (3 December 2018):
Are you sure she knows how you feel? Even if she’s busy, you can text or call each other from time to time. You can find quick and simple ways to show each other that you’re thinking of each other.
I actually think both of you are holding back a bit. You need to be clear with her how you feel about her, and tell her how much you enjoy spending time with her. There might not be much she can do to change the situation but I think she is holding back a bit and I’m not sure why. Just don’t assume it’s as obvious as you think that she knows how much you love her. Sometimes people need to hear it.
I wish you all the very best.
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reader, Aunty Susie  +, writes (2 December 2018):
 This is a great place to get things off your chest. Your girlfriend is probably feeling the same as you are. Your could send her love letters (I suppose text messages/messenger), so the excitement will build for her between now and January. This will fill the times when you're feeling a bit sad, as well as letting her know how you feel. It's been a long time, but time not wasted for her as she is creating her future. Ensure you let her know how proud of her you are.
Take care xx
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