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writes:No, I am not looking to make him my boyfriendJust want to know if its normal for men with girlfriends to want to talk to their female friends about their sexual fantasies?he even asked if i had a boyfriend and when i asked why he said because "you seem like the type to wait".he seemed really eager to hear my fantasies and promised to tell me his Just wondering if he is out for bad or what
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (29 December 2018):
 If this guy was really a friend he would already know if you had a boyfriend. My friends did.
What you're describing is a just man you talk to and I can tell you he is not looking for platonic female friends.
Block and delete. No good can come of this.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (27 December 2018):
 Yeah, shut him down asap. He doesn't NEED to hear your fantasies NOR do you need to hear his.
It sounds like he is hoping he can find some leverage. Now if he was a close single male friend whom you had ALL kind of conversations with.. maybe it wouldn't be weird. But for someone who HAS a GF and doesn't know you all that well, it's just him going "fishing". It's NONE of his business.
Like N91 said, NIP it in the bud by telling him it's NONE of his business and he should be sharing those fantasies with his GF, not you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2018): Wow, such a giveaway move from a player! He didn't even try to hide it!
How many other girls does he ask this question to? Lots! Duh. Throw the hook out and see who bites. He's an asshole OP. Imagine your bf asking other girls about their sexual fantasies. Would that hurt you? Yes? Then safely assume it would hurt his gf. He's bored, immature, selfish, insecure, thoughtless etc. Not a catch for ANY girl!!! Feel sorry for his poor GF!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2018): Yes, he is out for something bad and no, he is not your friend. Friends do not discuss their sexual fantasies.
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reader, Youcannotbeserious  +, writes (27 December 2018):
 Perhaps you should contact his girlfriend and ask her how SHE feels about this?
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reader, N91 +, writes (27 December 2018):
 Of course it’s not normal.
He’s in a relationship. He shouldn’t be discussing anything of a sexual nature with another person as it’s highly inappropriate and disrespectful to his partner.
Nip this in the bud immediately and remind him of his relationship status.
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