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female
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30-35,
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writes:I ve been seeing this lad for a couple of months. We spend hours talking and he always asks about my life. On nights out he will.stay with me all night in the club rather than his friends. When people ask us what we are sometimes he says I m his mrs other times he will say sort of Mrs. I asked him what he is after and he said he would see where it goes but he said i don t really speak to him in the week so he thought I didn t want more. He said he has told his mum and dad about me too and said to me you think I m just goin to get rid of u don t you, I m notAnyway he messaged in the week. then last weekend in the club he said that it s his works Christmas party so he had to stay with his mates all night, so asked me to come and find him later. He was actually with his friends all night (no girls). So it s fine. Then 2 of his mates I hadn t met before came up to me and told me he does like me and is into me. So I messaged him this week and we spoke a bit and then he sent me.a pic of him and his friend sayin hi to me and asked how I was. I replied saying good u? And then he didn t reply to this... So now I m wondering why would he not reply if he likes me? I know he was at a football match that day so could this be why? Not sure if I m over analysing or if he could lose interest? Thank you x
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2018): You're not 16 anymore. Why don't you two conduct this connection (or whatever it is) you have like two adults?
Warning about club-hookups! They aren't usually serious; and you're often nothing much more than the flavor of the month. If you're attractive, you'll be treated like a trophy to show-off; but not much else will happen along the lines of serious dating. Aren't you tired of being his "club-chick?"
Ask him when he's going to take you on a romantic-date outside the club setting? Let him know that you would really like to spend some one-on-one time together.
If a guy really likes you, he will want to spend some alone-time in a classy quiet romantic-setting; where you can both get to know each other better. He'll take you to dinner, a concert, a movie, or a cool event. He won't just tell people about you, he will introduce you in-person!
You're both pushing 30, and should carry-on with more maturity. If you really like him, make this guy take you seriously!
Enough with the cell-phone courtship already!
Text messaging and contact strictly over social media is no way to conduct a romance! Why won't he define what it is you have going-on? I think it's because he's not interested in anything serious with you.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (28 December 2018):
 Maybe spend time during the week? Like go on a date? For dinner or whatnot and not just meet up on nights out.
You don't really know him, he doesn't know you that well and you can not build or maintain a relationship over text.
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