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Archived questions from: October, 2015 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

Why can't people just accept not everyone wants children?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3311 days ago

28 October 2015 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 2 years and have no children because we chose not to have any- we are both very happy with our lives and children are not for us. My cousin who got married 8 months after us has just revealed she is ...

Physician's assistant - any suggestions on how to handle the gruelling demands of this work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3314 days ago

28 October 2015 (F) - Hey all! I'm quite confused about making career choices and really need some advice. I want to become a Physician Assistant with a focus in Psychology. It took me some time to figure it out but that's where I'd like to go. I enjoy helping pe...

I am afraid I will never be my own man if I stay at this job

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3316 days ago

27 October 2015 (M) - So here I'm finished with college , single , and thinking of leaving my job. It all started after she left me (and yes i get how stupid this is) she was with me for so long I "changed" because of her and now she's gone; my parents and closest ...

Should I stay in a job that makes me ill, or resign?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3304 days ago

25 October 2015 (F) - Should I stay at my current job despite it making me ill, or should I resign and apply for other jobs? I work at a small organization, and I am working 80%, and I have a colleague who works 40%. I earn way too little in comparison with ...

I do not want to be hurt again by my first love. Any words of wisdom, please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3317 days ago

25 October 2015 (F) - I have not long met up again with my first love. It was passionate buthe ended up really hurting me. We separated for over 20yrs and I have a grown family. We linked again a few months ago and the chemistry was still there. A few months later be...

Which issue could derail us? Our age difference? His drinking? Or his use of drugs?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3319 days ago

24 October 2015 (F) - Please help me. I really do not know what to do here and I am desperate for advice. My bf and I have been together for 2 yrs now. We live together. My bf is now 27. Before we got together we discussed at great length the age difference an...

I surprised him by doing the housework but he reduced me to tears. Is this guy worth being with?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3315 days ago

23 October 2015 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 8 months. Last night I went over to his house but got there an hour before he did. The house was a mess with dishes and dirty laundry everywhere so I thought as a surprise before he comes home I would clean. (as a ...

How do black people find positivity in a world that seems to hate them?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3296 days ago

23 October 2015 (M) - I'm black and every week I come across a video or article that commentators summarize as "black people are savage, Africans are worthless and the worst thing on the planet". I want to know how other black people find positivity in a world that hates ...

I can't decide on college but I can't put it off for ever!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3000 days ago

18 October 2015 (F) - I'm having a really difficult time figuring out what I want to go to college for. I took a year off after high school to relax and figure it out but still have no idea what I want to do. The main reason I find it difficult is because of the b...

Opened up to him about my vulnerabilities about having sex and now he says he might leave me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3325 days ago

17 October 2015 (F) - Hi! I have been here before but it was now some time ago. I met a very nice man about 2 years ago and things went fine for quite some time but then I started not wanting to have sex, even feeling very bad about having it. This had happened in ...

I want to feel whole, and satisfied and fulfilled.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3326 days ago

17 October 2015 (F) - Hello all, I am a 28 year old working female. I am single and haven't seen anyone for a while. There are many reasons for this so let me explain. 1) I was dating a guy.. for about a year. I was deeply in love with him... Even though ...

In this situation can I be added to the lease or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3327 days ago

17 October 2015 (F) - My bf and I want to move in together. He is 26 and I'm 22. He has a job and I am in college, and looking for jobs. He lives an hr away from me, so I would be moving to his area. I will be finding a job once we live there, since I will be closer and ...

Why do we need to compare breast sizes? And what breasts do men want?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3326 days ago

17 October 2015 (F) - I often see posts on here from women with smaller breasts who feel that they wished they had larger breasts. Whilst I believe all Women should be encouraged to feel good about their bodies I often feel disheartened by the responses that put down lar...

Do all men stare at other women? Is it natural?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3327 days ago

16 October 2015 (F) - Hi I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years we are happy we live together and never argue there's just one problem his interest in other women I know all men look but he stares for ages I have told him many times how this upsets me but he ...

His ex had big boobs. I have tiny boobs. What chance is there that I can overcome my insecurities over this?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3324 days ago

16 October 2015 (F) - I just don't know how to feel? My BF and I have an on an off again relationship when we first started I wasn't ready to settle down, yet even though at that time he deserved it. He was so sweet and 100% everything I wanted in a man but I was mu...

It sounds to me as if he's attracted to me emotionally, but more attracted to his ex physically. What do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3328 days ago

16 October 2015 (F) - Why did he tell me he always looked for porn of women who looked like his ex yet when I asked him if he ever did that with me whilst we are apart ( LDR) he said he did only once . It makes me feel very unattractive to him when we can't be together ...

Do I risk looking rude if I refuse to hug in future? Or do I have to fit in and do something I feel uncomfortable doing?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3326 days ago

16 October 2015 (F) - Hi all, I come from an Asian country, where hugging is not common. I will be moving to Europe next year for my studies, and perhaps work there. I've lived there for half a year before. During that period of time, I met many people and they ...

What should I do in this terribly strange work situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3329 days ago

15 October 2015 (F) - I am currently doing a 12 month apprenticeship in Business Admin at a company in the city centre. The company only just started at the beginning of this year, so they are new to the industry this is why I thought having the opportunity would be a ...

There's a connection but how do I keep this this dynamic on a track towards a successful business relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3329 days ago

15 October 2015 (F) - I met this guy last winter. It was clear that we both had an instant connection to each other, but we were both in the middle of failed marriages, so we did not pursue anything. Instead, we started collaborating on work related projects. (Each of ...

Is this sexual harassment? The actions of my new boss make me feel uncomfortable.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3327 days ago

13 October 2015 (F) - I have just started working in a new role and have found my boss's behaviour odd. He has asked me whether I am serious with boyfriend, if the relationship is flexible and can be moved around for work, how old my boyfriend is, if my boyfrien...

How do I walk away from my vicious boyfriend and stop myself from communicating with him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3330 days ago

13 October 2015 (F) - I've asked a few questions on here lately because I'm in kind of a messed up relationship but today I know I have to walk away from it. Two years ago I was raped and my boyfriend was totally unsupportive. After he brought me home from the police ...

Is there any way around his refusal to sign these documents? It's stopping me from travelling with her.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3330 days ago

13 October 2015 (F) - Is there any way around getting my daughter a passport when her father is refusing to sign for it or let me borrow any of the legal documents needed. He isn't apart of her life and never has been but when she was born, he came to the hospital...

Is my husband remorseful for what he did?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3329 days ago

12 October 2015 (F) - My husband had an affair 3 yrs ago, it's been a very difficult recovery process for me since- I offered forgiveness and he lied and continued communication with her for 3 months after discovery-told many other lies and till this day hasn't given me ...

What's the best way out of this situation? I feel like my kind husband doesn't deserve this.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3332 days ago

11 October 2015 (F) - Ok so before I go into my problem I want to start by saying that it's all my fault, I've been selfish and now deeply regretting my decision. I'm a terrible person and I need to know the best way out of my situation. I grew up living in a tiny 2 bed...

He discredits all I do do for him. Tells his family when we argue. Yet he's pressuring for marriage? What's his problem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3332 days ago

11 October 2015 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for a year. We do not live together- about 30 mins apart. Neither of us have been married nor have children. Just wanting some advice and opinions. It really bothers me how I help him out a lot and i don't feel lik...

I want to be a stay at home mother, but also earn an income from home. What are my options for work I could do from home?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3332 days ago

11 October 2015 (F) - I am 19 years old and I have recently decided that I would like to be a stay at home mum when I am older. However being realist I know that I am going to need to have my own source of income. Do you have any suggestion for jobs which I would be a...

I had a crush on her now I get annoyed if she looks at me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3333 days ago

11 October 2015 (M) - Hello, First and foremost, thank you for the responses in advance. There is this girl at my gym that's been coming there for some time now. We caught each other's attention, sometimes we would just start looking at each other at the sam...

I'm not having much luck making friends

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3332 days ago

10 October 2015 (F) - I'm someone who has always felt very lonely. I know that must sound pathetic coming from a young female. My parents divorced when I was very young, and I'm an only child. I only have one grandparent left (my grandmother) but she lives very far a...

His substance abuse is making me think of ending the relationship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3334 days ago

9 October 2015 (F) - I'm 21 year old female that's been in an on/off relationship with my high school sweetheart for 6 years. He loves me and he is gentle soul that had all the best intentions and I too love him. I have many issues however, with the type of Man he is. ...

Which job do you take/keep?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3335 days ago

9 October 2015 (F) - You have two options...Option 1 or Option 2? Option 1: Low pay most of the time you are happy there and the work environment is comfortable with AC (not hard and out like "in the trenches" kind of work). It's in retail at the local pharmacy ...

Have you helped your adult children financially, like pay for their wedding rings

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3333 days ago

7 October 2015 (F) - After the fact and the wedding, my significant other told me that he helped his son pay for his daughter-in-law's engagement ring to the tune of $800.00. It was suppose to be secret and only between him and his son. My significant other is d...

Do I listen to my gut? I want a committed relationship. Am I over-reacting?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3337 days ago

7 October 2015 (F) - I have been on and off with this guy for a few years, I went through his phone (I know I shouldn't be doing that!!) and found out he had a girl stay over at his place recently.. lets just say he lives in a studio. I confronted him and he told me ...

My mother still wants her adult children to accompany her on ''family'' vacations. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3337 days ago

7 October 2015 (F) - Is it normal to go on family vacations every year? My mom has forced my brother and I to go on vacations every year, almost twice a year since we were young. Over the years my Brother has protested against Travelling with the family. On my part, ...

Question for men: is it really difficult to leave your wife if you've been having an affair? Or am I right - is he just offering me excuses?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3328 days ago

5 October 2015 (F) - I have done the unthinkable for the last 8 years of my life. Please don't hammer me. I have been dating married man. No kids. He's much older than me and at first I was just having fun but it turned into love. He's taken me on many trips an...

I'm feeling confused about my LDR with my ex-boyfriend who is also a long term friend.What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3338 days ago

5 October 2015 (F) - We both had crushes on each other in middle school, and formed a friendship. We attended different high schools, but always kept track of each other through mutual friends. In our late 20’s we dated and had an intimate relationship. He was not ...

Is a man's "first love" really the deepest?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3340 days ago

4 October 2015 (F) - This question is mainly for any guys that lost their virginity to someone they were in a committed relationship with and preferably in love? I'm just curious, regardless of how long it's been, or the circumstances of the break-up, do you still think ...

I think my boyfriend is bi, should he have told me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3341 days ago

4 October 2015 (F) - Somebody told me that they think that my boyfriend is bi and i found from a face book profile saying that he was in to woman and men and now my sister said that he should have told me is she right....

What can I say to my long term partner who has given me Gonorrhea?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3340 days ago

3 October 2015 (F) - My long standing partner has given me gonorhhea as far as im aware and i can suspect where it came from! It makes me sad rather than angry and i realise he has been directing a lot of anger towards me lately. I dont want to see him now anyway becau...

I feel like I never get respect -- what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3342 days ago

2 October 2015 (F) - This is more of a rant rather than a question but I could use some much needed advice. I'm a young woman and I consider myself laid back and quiet, but I'm nice. For some reason a lot of people in my life and in the past I feel have taken ad...

How do I get past this terrible treatment?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3338 days ago

2 October 2015 (F) - I had 2 very 'close friends' or I guess I thought they were my friends, in high school. Both of them and 2 older women jumped me and stole my money on my way home from work one night. I wasn't able to press charges because they couldn't 'prove' they ...

Found out that my b/f has done drugs

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3343 days ago

1 October 2015 (F) - Recently I found out my boyfriend did drugs (ecstasy) before he met me. We have been together for a year and we plan to get married in two years. He told me he did it 7 times over a span of 2 years, of which 4 times was with his ex. The most recent ...