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writes: This question is mainly for any guys that lost their virginity to someone they were in a committed relationship with and preferably in love? I'm just curious, regardless of how long it's been, or the circumstances of the break-up, do you still think about your ex? I've heard stories of the "first love" being the deepest, and that men always have a special place in their heart for "the first" person they were intimate with. Just wondering if any of the above rings true?Even if you've moved on, I'd like to hear your thoughts / experiences? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2015): I meant if the relationship was a loving, two way one... Not one sided.
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reader, Garbo +, writes (4 October 2015):
"First love" is a myth because you can only love the woman that loves you back so if the first one never loved you back you get over it and love the one that loves you. Losing virginity, to most guys, is meaningless because they look at it as the first they were with able to perform because it is mostly about getting the woman to love it while trying to cum, for the first time, without the hand. Will I be able to and how does it feel? Is what's on the mind. Personally, my "first" is something I regret I've ever met and have ever known and I am happy that I have no clue about her anymore.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (4 October 2015):
I can always recall EVERY girl who ever showed any interest in me... AND, especially, those who put out for me.....
As for my "deepest" love.... it's for the girl who I'm with now.....
Does this help?
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