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writes:I had 2 very 'close friends' or I guess I thought they were my friends, in high school. Both of them and 2 older women jumped me and stole my money on my way home from work one night. I wasn't able to press charges because they couldn't 'prove' they did it. A few weeks after this incident I met a guy and starting dating him. This went on for several months until I found out this was just a 'prank' from both the guy and the 2 girls. My main concern was I had lost my virginity to this man and he also had 2 naked pictures that I sent him. I was told he sent these pictures to several other men within the school but I'm not sure on that. All 3 of them continued to make my life hell my last few months of school before graduation. I honestly don't understand why they did this to me. I have always hated these people who did this to me and have not seemed to ge over it. I wish they would be punished some how for their actions. I've always wanted to get them back for it but I know that's not how I want to treat people. I've been done with school for several months now but I can't seem to get over what they did to me. My question is how do I get over this?
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reader, StatueGal76 +, writes (6 October 2015):
 It happens because you let it. Early on you show Your character as a mark. Quit being a sucka for those and wise up
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reader, BrownWolf  +, writes (2 October 2015):
Your first mistake is to HATE. NEVER HATE !!! Anger is a seed...it is watered by resentment, disrespect, jealousy, insecurities, and so on. When that seed grows into a tree of hate, it is much harder to cut it out of your life. Hate will just consume you, and it will destroy every other relationship you have.
So...you are done with school, and therefore done with people like that. Now you have a front seat view of the kind of people out there. This will make you more aware of people as such, and help you to stay away from them.
Bad things happen for good reasons.
They will be punished I can tell you that for sure. Life does not forget, and it always repays evil with evil, and good with good.
However, NEVER wish for someone to be punished...you may end up be the one that gets their punishment instead. If you hold hate in your heart for others, that is what comes back to you.
Now...move on with your life and find your own happiness. The past is the past, and you cannot change it...but you plan for a better future, with the right people in your life.
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