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Archived questions from: August, 2014 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

Forever single?. How do I learn to be more comfortable with girls? How or when or where can I touch a girl?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3771 days ago

31 August 2014 (M) - How do I touch girls? I have been forever single. In order for me to have a girlfriend she needs to see that other girls are comfortable round me. The problem is I fear them all so much that I can't remember the last time ( if it even exists ) tha...

How do I handle my best friend who is convinced that I had sex with her husband when this is not true?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3746 days ago

31 August 2014 (F) - My best friend of 35 yrs has accused me and her husband of having affair. We never had a misunderstanding not once .her husband texted me about 3:45 am one morning asking me to listen to him. He and my bestfriend had been arguing so he wanted me...

How do I attract faithful and available men interested in dating? Not interested in married men

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3760 days ago

31 August 2014 (F) - Modnote added: The writer may mean celibate rather than abstinent? ................................................ Hi. I am asking advice on how to attract good faithful men. I am not going to any bars or nothing like that. Yet, only married men...

Husband is in jail in another country and I'm tempted by others

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3772 days ago

31 August 2014 (F) - Hi it's been 2 years already since I wrote all my lovelife here, from fling to boyfriend to marriage to break up, I'm still here again and again asking for help aunts. And so I decided to fight my husband and protect our marriage as much as I can ...

First-date tips?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3767 days ago

31 August 2014 (M) - Hey guys, I have a quick question. So I got chatting to a girl on Friday night that I've seen around town a few times, I was pretty drunk but everything seemed to go well, ended up kissing a few times and ended up with her number. Been ...

Should I just brave it and try to approach girls. What are some good tips to connect with girls?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3771 days ago

30 August 2014 (M) - I am 15, tall, muscular, well featured, and intelligent. I never curse or swear and I would never insult anyone. I respect all girls but especially like brown haired, cute, and shy girls. I homeschool so therefore I don't socialise much but when...

Should I cut all ties with my toxic abusive family?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3772 days ago

30 August 2014 (F) - My family are toxic. My mother is mentally unstable who abused me when I was a young child. My father is cold and distant towards me and has never praised me or gone out of his way to do anything for me. I have 2 sisters. One is self obsessed and ...

It was nearly 8 years ago. We broke up due to his cheating. So why does he still have a hold over me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3772 days ago

30 August 2014 (F) - My ex cheated on repeatedly and when I found out it broke my heart. We were in our late teens and it seemed like I would never get over it, as it does at that age. Time moved on and so did I, and after a year or so I felt ready to start meeting ...

Feeling guilty about walking away from my drug addict guy. Was I wrong to take some distance?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3771 days ago

30 August 2014 (F) - Hi everyone I have been in a relationship for a few months with a guy who is a drug addict. He uses coke, meth, heroin, etc. We recently spoke about his drug addiction and I told him that I will be there to support his recovery. He just has to ...

Should I believe him? My heart is saying I'm not ready to give up on us

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3771 days ago

30 August 2014 (F) - My world is in bits. My heart has been ripped out of my chest and my whole body aches. I can't believe I'm here writing this. I found out Thursday my childhood sweetheart (5 years together) and the man I love to pieces has been cheating. He h...

Is my lack of sexual experience the reason I have so many doubts about my Gf's virginity? Was she really a virgin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3772 days ago

30 August 2014 (M) - I am love a very cute girl and she also, our relationship going on from last 2 year. our relationship going with love,emotions, some time fight, sadness but it is true great love having between us. one day we had decided that more close to ea...

Feeling lonely because of having no one to talk to

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3772 days ago

29 August 2014 (M) - i feel so lonely. i am a 22 year old boys. i have always been an introvert guy and i doesnt go out that much but go out as often i can. often times i feel very lonely and i cry because of having no one with me. my parents are not that supportive ...

Can you really teach yourself to sing?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3774 days ago

29 August 2014 (F) - How an earth is this possible.... My sister is 20 and I've known since we were little she can't sing, she usually signs around the house and it's not bad but she's not great either. Well she's been at uni for the past 8 months and has been teachin...

I love her, but I hate the toll I've taken on her

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3774 days ago

28 August 2014 (M) - On New Year's Eve of last year I started dating an amazing girl, Kate. I was totally in love with her, she's amazing, sweet and incredibly hot. Less then two months later I was in a serious car accident that left me in induced coma for 8 weeks. ...

Everyone says, 'Do what you love' but I don't know what career I would love

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3775 days ago

28 August 2014 (F) - I'm 19 and have currently finished my final year in college. I applied to go to University however over the summer I have been thinking a lot about my career and I'm not 100% sure Journalism is what I want to do with my life. After thinking...

I haven't been able to stop thinking about her. Do I love her or is it just a crush?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3772 days ago

28 August 2014 (M) - I haven't been able to stop thinking about her since the day I first saw her. She is beautiful but so are many of the tens of thousands of girls on campus. Even though I was shy to even talk to her at first I got to know her and she is extremel...

High school Homecoming: I need advice, which girl might be the best choice to ask?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3774 days ago

28 August 2014 (M) - Hey people of DC, Forge is back again... with more high school "fun." Ready to help? The issue is Homecoming. By far the biggest school event I've been to. The dance, pep rally, football game, you know, eventful stuff. I have time on this, than...

Was this a platonic response or is there more to it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3775 days ago

28 August 2014 (F) - I am friends with a man through an acquaintance of mine and most of our conversations have been work related (although glances and smiles between us have indicated otherwise and there might be an unspoken attraction). The other day I confirmed my ...

How do we bring our relationship out in the open without people thinking we're having an affair?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3775 days ago

28 August 2014 (F) - 8 months ago I met a guy named Derrick, he is a police officer and I was doing some volunteer work, we ended up working on a few projects together. He was engaged and I was In a long term relationship. We were hanging out three or four nights a ...

How do express my feelings about this LDR? Should I cut him some slack? His actions don't express romantic intentions to me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3775 days ago

27 August 2014 (F) - I am in a LDR of two months with a guy in UK. We talk everyday and he professes his love for meeting a woman like me everyday. He wants to be with me and marry me. I am feeling the same as well but I do have to questions compatibility or maybe I'm ...

Is it just wedding nerves or am I having second thought's about marrying my fiancé?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3776 days ago

27 August 2014 (F) - I'm not sure if it's just wedding nerves or if I'm having second thought's about marrying my fiancée. It's two months away and the more and more closer it gets, the more I seem to be confused. I love my fiancée, he is the one I want to spend ...

Should I just get my first kiss over with?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3771 days ago

27 August 2014 (F) - I haven't had my first kiss yet, and it is something I have been waiting for desperately. I am not currently in a relationship. Sometimes my friends and I go out and are having a good time and I just want to get it over with. But, other times ...

I'm in love with my boy friend but get off to lesbian porn??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3776 days ago

27 August 2014 (?) - i have had a boyfriend for 2 and a half years no and i am deeply in love with him, i had never masturbated before but today i had a sudden erg so i went for it and found myself masturbating thinking about girls i then did it again but this time to ...

I feel threatened by his beauty standards.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3776 days ago

27 August 2014 (F) - I have major body image issues. I get extremely insecure about everything. I'm a perfectionist, and my body (of course) isn't perfect. As in, it's not up to either the female ideal (fashion models) nor the male ideal (strippers, porn stars). My b...

Ex was on the verge of cheating and blames me for his indiscretion!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3771 days ago

26 August 2014 (F) - Hi Aunties and Uncles, I was in a relationship with a man for almost 2 years. I recently broke it off with him because he was texting another women. Nothing horribly inappropriate, but eventually he admitted he was attracted to her and started ...

If I stay with him, I feel like my soul will die. If I leave, I'll leave with the clothes on my back and my child, with nowhere to turn...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3776 days ago

25 August 2014 (F) - So I need some advice/help... I'm 24 and a mother to a beautiful 7 year old daughter. I have also been in what I have discovered to be a very toxic relationship for 5 years. To sum it up, we have both hurt each other for no reason but too...

Help cliquey work colleagues, yes it's not unusual but It hurts!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3778 days ago

25 August 2014 (F) - last night I worked a night shift with 2 younger girls from the uk, they are good friends in and out of work , which isfine but they made no effort to include me in any conversation, I know we are there to work and they are friends, but..no matter ...

Coping with being unattractive to men

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3774 days ago

25 August 2014 (F) - How does a woman accept that she is not attractive to most men , when there are so many women around who are attractive to most men . It seems that realistically maybe 1 percent of men if that would be attracted to me when we are out yet my several ...

Jealousy is ruining my life!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3778 days ago

24 August 2014 (F) - For as far back as I can remember, I have been a VERY jealous person. I was jealous of friends, girls in my class, and one day in primary school, my friends mum actually said to me that I was a very jealous little girl because I got so pissed off ...

I'm reaching the age where I can't have children and I have none of my own. How do I cope?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3777 days ago

24 August 2014 (F) - I am 42 (will be 43 next April) and childless. My marriage failed 3 years ago as my ex husband was abusive - I deliberately did not have children with him because of it but held out way too long for things to change (10 years). Anyway - I met a ...

He proposed, but every weekend is taken up with his children ... what if I want a child too?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3778 days ago

24 August 2014 (F) - Hi. My bofriend proposed 2 months ago. As he has 2 kids with ex, he spent Saturdays taking them out somewher, dropped them back at their mom's because she doesn't like them sleeping out and on Sunday took them to visit their grandmother from about ...

Invisible me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3779 days ago

23 August 2014 (M) - hi everyone I don't think I am ready for taking responsibilities and making my life committed to her. That's why I don't wanna date.Focusing on my career instead.but I don't know I feel so lonely nowadays. I feel like I am gonna die alone. A...

My family and friends dislike my boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3781 days ago

22 August 2014 (F) - It seems like everyone wants me to end things with my boyfriend, and that only I can see how amazing he is to me. I feel like I'm losing everyone, family and friends, over this. Please help me! So some background on the situation. I knew my boyfri...

My mother won't allow me to marry a younger man

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3772 days ago

22 August 2014 (F) - I am a 19 year old girl, been in a 1yr relationship with my boyfriend without sex cos I'm scared of losing my virginity yet! I love him but the truth is I am 6 months older than him. He wishes to marry me but my mum says she'll not allow me marry...

My boyfriend appears to have lost interest in me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3781 days ago

22 August 2014 (F) - I am in a dilemma right now. It took almost 2 years for me and my bf to begin our relationship. Everything was so perfect in the beginning and as time passed, problems started to pop up. I knew in my heart that every relationship will have to stand ...

I don't want to move on as she is all I know, she's my first love! How do I go about this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3781 days ago

21 August 2014 (M) - Hi I had been with my girlfriend for nearly 9.5 years.. We got together when we were 18. We were both madly in love with each other and confided in each other. I was her best friend and lover all in one and she was everything to me. Our ti...

Something just hasn't clicked in my life and I'm perpetually in a rut. Has anybody felt this low and how did they bounce back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3781 days ago

19 August 2014 (M) - Right this is a issue I have had for years and it wont go away. I feel life is pointless and void and really feel like I have no chance of a future, I have no hobbies as nothing greatly interests me or I loose interest in it. I do try to have energy ...

Could this dream mean something? Or is this just due to stress due to splitting up with my long term partner?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3784 days ago

19 August 2014 (F) - I am 22 years old, I have been in a troubled relationship for six years and we also have a son. We have a very rocky relationship and have no finally split up which I think is for the best. Over the years I haven't been the best person, for some ...

Ten best ways for a woman to be given her walking papers.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3769 days ago

19 August 2014 (F) - Yeah I know : ultimately love is a mystery, not an exact science. There's always an element of sheer luck, of serendipity, of magic in it. Some times you do everything right, by the book, you are the perfect gf / wife / lover .. and you still get ...

Social priorities are just garbage now! Why have people become so messed up?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3781 days ago

19 August 2014 (M) - Hello aunts and uncles, forge here. I have realised that in society today, things between men and women are getting very ridiculous, and I want to know why. These are some points I think are good, and I'm sure someone out there will agree. This is ...

I don't know if we should stay together or move on with our lives

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3784 days ago

19 August 2014 (F) - So I'm not really good at relationships or this whole love thing. I've been dating this guy a year and 6 months. And we live together. Our relationship is very difficult because we never can agree on most things. Everything else is good we have the ...

Why do people have issues with adoption?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3784 days ago

18 August 2014 (F) - I grew up in a household that was very strict and very religious. When my school taught sex-ed, they separated the boys from the girls in grades 6-12. Now, that makes sense because when you're young, puberty is scary and embarrassing and you're more ...

Is everyone guilty of victim blaming in some way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3783 days ago

18 August 2014 (F) - I know this is controversial, but I've been discussing it with my boyfriend and some female friends that I have. It's hard to get insight from guys I know because they just "leave it alone". I would LOVE to get insight from social workers or police, ...

I love my boyfriend but feel like something is missing. Is this normal after the honeymoon phase has passed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3785 days ago

18 August 2014 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for a little more than a year now. We've had one disagreement but it was very civil, we got over it, and it wasn't what I would consider a "fight" Long story short, I feel like I love him very dearly and could easily...

A guy I work with doesn't get nervous when he talks to me. Does that mean he isn't as attracted to me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3785 days ago

18 August 2014 (F) - Ok there's this guy I work with a few years older to myself, who is also single, who I get the impression may be attracted to me. He is only at my work place twice a month - he works at another store. He always tries to talk to me and I feel he ...

Why is my married coworker so hot and cold with me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3772 days ago

18 August 2014 (F) - After 8 months, I finally returned to the place I used to work. The last time I was there, I became good friends with a man, let's call him Mike. Mike pretty much taught me everything I knew when I first started the job. He is about 10 years older ...

Why did he only call me "cute," and how do I stay safe on my next date if we're alone at his place?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3782 days ago

17 August 2014 (F) - [Mod note: two questions from the same asker and concerning the same date have been combined] Went on a lovely, but brief date with a 23 yr old guy at the mall. It was my first date ever, and according to me (and my lack of experience), it went mos...

My boyfriend isn't bothered by the difference in our body sizes, but as a bigger girl I feel awkward about it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3785 days ago

17 August 2014 (F) - Hello, I am a 30 year old virgin and have recently started dating an older man who is 34 and I suspect he is also a virgin. My main worry is that I am a UK size 22 and he is very very skinny and only a couple of inches taller then me. The whole ...

I haven't had a real relationship since leaving my abusive ex-husband, and after learning I have genital herpes I'm wondering if I should ever try for one at all

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3786 days ago

16 August 2014 (F) - Two and a half years ago I left an almost decade long relationship/marriage to a morbidly jealous psychologically abusive man - he always accused me of cheating, but I never did. I stayed too long, and left at the last minute, before he could suck ...

Why do I feel alone amidst my group of friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3787 days ago

16 August 2014 (M) - Hi guys I got a group of friends in my college that i spend a significant amount of time for. These guys i am hanging out with refers to each other as "bros", but somehow, i... feel quite distant from them. I don't know why i feel this way. I am g...