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Archived questions from: February, 2013 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

Does I'm sorry no longer have any meaning?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

28 February 2013 (F) - Am I the only one who thinks that sorry has no meaning anymore? When my ex said he was sorry for leading me on, I just thought it's just a word, it doesn't mean anything to me... I find people say the word sorry too easily these days, that they ...

Our culture favors sons over daughters, I need advice on how to deal with this unfair situation!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4289 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - I'm a 22 years old woman and raised by precious and happy family ever. My parent is the greatest parent for me and I have two younger brothers. My brothers are lovely and we have some weird habit toward my 2nd brother, we like to kiss him everyday ...

He went to visit his ex and is not back yet. Should I wait or move on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4290 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - My man found out he has a 14 yr old daughter just recently. He went to visit her on 2/12/13 and hasn't returned yet. I know her mother wants to be with him again. His daughter is having problems in school. My question is should i move on or wa...

Now guys at work see me in a different light. How could my own brother embarass me at work about things I told him in private about my private life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4289 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid,my brother and I are employed at the same place we have private conversations between each other at home about our relationships with different people in our lives so that's cool. However he then went to work and told one of the cowo...

What are the options to deal with our rude confrontational neighbors? They stir up trouble and it's wearing me down.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4290 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - Hello, I'm really confused about my neighbour. I just can't work her out! For the last 18 months the person living next to me has made my life quite difficult. We have got to a point that we have resolved some issues but I am really wary of her!...

This seems unfair to me. Is this how things work in the restaurant business? Is my Supervisor Biased? And what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4290 days ago

26 February 2013 (M) - I have been working at a restaurant for about 3 months now. I'm still considered a "trainee" because I haven't passed the written exam. Therefore I only receive a maximum of 10% of total gratuity per shift. If there is more than one "trainee...

Ladies: Why do so many of you criticize other ladies?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4290 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - I have a few questions for the women. Before I ask them, though, I just wanted to say I know not ALL women are like this. I've noticed quite a lot are, though. First question: Why do you think that if you don't have big boobs, or you have fat in ...

My world is crumbling around me. Are there any strategies that could help me deal with all this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4291 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - I have a problem. Basically the world is crumbling beneath my feet. I have studies at Uni to finish, I'm in my last week of my internship and everything is going to hell. I really need some advice or at least a listening ear. This is my situation...

My girl friend prefers to sit on the couch and eat. Will not clean unless I am beside her cleaning too. She's lazy and not a team player. What can I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4291 days ago

25 February 2013 (M) - Hi, so I am 21 years old. I've been with my girlfriend for about a year now. Let me first say that she is a great girl. She sweet, funny, loyal, worships the ground I walk on and would follow me anywhere. And so would I. But the problem I'm ha...

Is my hot young fitness instructor attracted to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4292 days ago

24 February 2013 (F) - Hello Cupids. I am a single girl and I have been going to exercise class for a few months at my gym. The instructor is a hot young guy around my age. He is single, too. I have gotten to know him a little during this time but we have kept things...

Need advice on being a wife of a minister

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4291 days ago

24 February 2013 (F) - I know this is going to sound like a stupid question but I married a minister and hes not real into his ministry as of yet. Its not as settled as he would like but I need help. Ive always hated secrets and hate that he has to keep things from me ...

My abusive ex is still controlling my life today.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4291 days ago

24 February 2013 (F) - I was dating this guy a month back, we broke up because my so called 'best friend' was a lying cow and took advantage of his paranoia to break us up then tried to get in there herself. But that's another story. The important thing here is that my ...

Has anyone suppressed their feelings when it comes to loving someone they're dating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4291 days ago

24 February 2013 (F) - Has anyone suppressed their feelings when it comes to loving someone they're dating? If so.. Did it work? What was the outcome?...

Received advice before, but still feeling bad . . .

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4292 days ago

24 February 2013 (M) - I have posted a couple of questions on this site and I received a lot of good answers that built me up. However, I am still in the same place I was when I started posting because for every kind answer I received here there were others on the ...

How can I tell if a girl with a boyfriend also likes me? NO intention of making a move as she has a Bf.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4292 days ago

24 February 2013 (M) - When I first met this girl over a year ago, I asked her out but she told me she has a boyfriend. She was really nice about it though and said we could hang out and be friends. I was ok with that because I just wanted to get to know her. Over th...

How can I progress this? And, how do I ask the younger brother out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4292 days ago

24 February 2013 (F) - Hi Everyone. I am stuck. Properly stuck. My story is this. Two brothers. When I met the elder, he liked me and wanted to date me, but I decided he wasn't the guy for me. We set up a bit of a flirtation but only that. He has a girlf...

Buying a place with or without boyfriend and how much should I contribute?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4293 days ago

23 February 2013 (F) - I have always wanted my own place but back then I had no money, kept switching jobs etc so that's why at 28 years old I am still living with my parents. Right now I have money but I am now waiting for my boyfriend to find a job in the city(he ...

How do I tell my soulmate that I can't be with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4292 days ago

23 February 2013 (M) - There is really only one question that I have, how do I tell the woman I love, the woman I feel is my soulmate, that I cannot be with her?...

BF said "I love you" for the first time after I gave him oral sex - did he mean it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4290 days ago

23 February 2013 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for five months - he is 30 and I'm 29. We are moving in together in a couple of weeks which seems fast but we both want to and think its the right thing to happen and we get get along really well, sex life is great and ...

Confused cousin: she's giving me mixed signals.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4293 days ago

23 February 2013 (M) - My cousin makes me feel alot confused as she is giving me mixed signals. These range from prolonged eye contact when talking ( 3mins), preening, side glances when I'm not aware and etc. She even friend requested me on facebook and well that's a ...

I feel lost in this new place and miss my Bf. My Mom's new Bf tells me what to do all the time. If I returned home I'd have new problems. What to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4286 days ago

23 February 2013 (F) - Hi everyone, just feeling a little lost and could use some help. About 6 weeks ago I decided to move interstate, as my mum lives up here and I wanted to try something new. I got myself a full-time job, and borrowed $5000 off my mum to buy a car....

I really want a baby. I'm trying IVF. But have personal troubles with my new man, who is critical of me. Is it a cultural thing? What to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4294 days ago

22 February 2013 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for three months, getting on really well. We both currently live in Thailand, working together and spending all our time together. Up until now it's been great. Feel very relaxed around each other and open about everythi...

Am I the fall back girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4293 days ago

22 February 2013 (F) - hello aunts and uncles, please bear with me as this is a long story.. I'm not sure where to begin with this, basically 7 years I ago I started talking to someone via an Internet site, at the time we had both come out of bad relationships bu...

My LDR wants sexy pictures from me. But I have put on weight. I've tried sending him fake pictures.What can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4293 days ago

22 February 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a long time now. He is in the marines in one state, while I am in another state. We've hung out a lot before he left, and I was pretty thin then. I have Gained some weight since ive last seen him. He asks...

Do I move on to a great job? Or to a guy I love, but who isn't right for me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4293 days ago

22 February 2013 (F) - Hi all! I have a dilemma guys, Basically I have the option of moving down south of my country to a really good job or I have the opportunity to move up north of my country to an ok job but the guy I like lives there. That guy and I dated f...

Would you pay? It was a change she required prior to the holiday. But then she expected to pay for part of her additional cost.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4294 days ago

21 February 2013 (F) - Would you pay? I went on a trip with someone who I knew from work for quite a bit, but can't call her a friend. We bought air fare separately but hotel she booked. We had different flights and I arrived later to find out that hotel now costs twic...

My Girlfriend Wants to Sleep With a Guy at Work, What to Do?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4294 days ago

21 February 2013 (M) - Me and my girlfriend got together young - she was 17 at the time and we have been together 9 years and I'm more in love with her now than i have ever been. A few months ago i started to get the feeling that she was thinking about being wit...

Has he Lost Interest in me After Only Two Months?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4294 days ago

21 February 2013 (F) - Hi everyone (: My boyfriend and I are dating since two months and a half, I know it's not a long time, but it has been a lot since I had a "serious" relarionship. I am not the kind of girl that wants her boyfriend to call her every time, or text her...

Why Did She Lose so Much Weight in Such a Short Time?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4295 days ago

21 February 2013 (M) - Is this really something that can happen? My girlfriend has had the hardest week with a project that she was given by her company, i've never seen her that stressed before! But what was interesting is we live together and not once did I see her ea...

How do I Pursue Her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4294 days ago

21 February 2013 (M) - hi readers little background : I am international student ,22 , studying outside the UK. I like a girl X and took her number. I met her first time on 15th February and met her thrice in person. Did touch her a bit and made my little moves. ...

Can you redo projects when you are in university?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4295 days ago

21 February 2013 (F) - I know this a relationship website, but does anybody know if at university you can re-do your projects? I am on a course which doesn't do exams, so luckily enough I just do a lot of practical projects over the course of the year. The thing is, this ...

My fiancee sometimes doesn't know his limits on drinking. Not sure when to interfere.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4295 days ago

21 February 2013 (F) - My fiancé and I have been together for 6 years. His drinking has been an issue in the past but not for the last year or so. He's not an alcoholic but when he does indulge he becomes irate very easily. He went out for drinks with his male coworkers ...

When should I call it a day with relationships?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4295 days ago

20 February 2013 (F) - When should I call it a day with relationships? I'm 26 and have never been able to stay in a relationship for more than a couple of months. I get bored easily, I'm a loner and don't like being tied down. I keep thinking it will be different with any...

My drama with dating an actor

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3972 days ago

20 February 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid, My story is long but I'm really suffering.. I will start at the very beginning. In high school I had a crush on a boy Named Dakota. And I never got crushes. I had one boyfriend before this, But we broke up because I had fallen o...

Being bullied at work over Facebook?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4295 days ago

20 February 2013 (M) - I'm 24 and work in IT; mainly on the distribution and delivery side for a small firm. I occasionally do the website for them; I'm a gofer at the firm (someone who does a bit of this, bit of that, no regular role, but is a proper employee). Howeve...

My daughter is being bullied because of how I dress her

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4294 days ago

20 February 2013 (F) - Ok this is a little hard to explain and may seem a bit silly to some of you but please bare with me. I have a 12 year old daughter who has been in secondry school since september last year. Since she has been there, understandably she has develope...

Is marriage worth it? Should I give up on the idea of being married at my age?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

19 February 2013 (F) - I just wondered, to those of you who are on here who are married, is it worth it? I'm approaching 40 and had loads of boyfriends but never yet met someone I seriously wanted to marry. I really loved some of them but knew it wasn't right in some wa...

My birthday's coming up and I have no money. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

19 February 2013 (?) - My birthdays coming up, On Friday the 22nd and I don't know what to do since I have no money and I don't have a baby sitter for my 6 month old daughter. Any ideas on what should I do? I just wNt to have a good time. Hopefully someone surprises me ...

Cousin always asking me about spankings I give women.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4294 days ago

19 February 2013 (M) - My cousins know that I go with women that like spankings and what not. Whenever they visit or when I visit them, they always ask about the ladies. However, one of my female cousins often asks me questions regarding the spankings. Pret...

I want to be reborn again and save my life. Do I have to leave my boyfriend then?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4298 days ago

18 February 2013 (F) - okay Help please!! hi everyone, i am a girl and i am 21. I wan't to change my life i wan't to be born again so what are the do's and dont's. i am in a relationship with a guy i love. so do i leave him after being saved or what????...

Was I wrong to finally snap and publicly humiliate and insult someone who had been talking trash about me for over a year?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4297 days ago

18 February 2013 (F) - Hi. I am looking for advice on whether I did the right thing or not. My boyfriend has this girl friend, who I have only met a handful of times, who has a lot of animosity toward me. I had always been really nice to her the times I ran into her. When ...

Why don't people like to share their feelings?? are they normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4298 days ago

18 February 2013 (F) - i am getting a little crazy after spending few years with my bf who thinks it's a bad thing to tell the world what you feel, who you are... etc... it makes me think i'm wrong to tell friends about what's going on in our relationship, like when i'm ...

Should a man pay support if the ex wife is working?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4298 days ago

17 February 2013 (F) - Hi everybody.... If Somebody aware of this answer my question. my relative age 30, married to a woman and got divorced with 2 year daughter. child is with her mother. she had put case to provide some amount monthly. but she is working.... no...

Would it be that wrong for us to try and see if he and I can work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4299 days ago

17 February 2013 (F) - Modnote(1): Please advise the age difference between you and the guy you are interested in. Modnote (2) The boy's father is the girl's great Uncle. The boy's uncle is the grandfather of the girl. Her great grandparents are also the boy's grandparen...

Please remember to be kind when you give advice on the site!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4299 days ago

17 February 2013 (F) - I have been on this site for years,I sometimes come in as a person who needs advise or sometimes to give one..but recently I have been noticing quite a change in the attitude of some agony aunts,down right mean and cruel,I think you need to remember ...

Single mom finds it hard to date again.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4299 days ago

17 February 2013 (F) - I'm scared I will never meet anyone. Not in a hurry, currently getting out of an abusive marriage. However, I'm scared that I will never meet anyone now. I'm 31, I have a child, and I work out of my home. I've never left my child with a sitte...

I have body image issues and want to know how to build confidence.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4299 days ago

16 February 2013 (F) - My confidence is really low right now, because of the way I look. I'm pear shaped... which means I have small boobs, and a big lower body, including matronly hips, a big ass and thick thighs. I know some men supposedly don't mind these things ...

How can I incorporate a heart shaped candle into gifts for my man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4300 days ago

16 February 2013 (F) - My boyfriend´s birthday and our anniversary are coming up next week. Because of time and money issues, we decided to celebrate his birthday, our anniversary and also valentines the same day. I´m here to ask for advice on the gifts, I have al...

Co-worker does not speak after sex

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4298 days ago

16 February 2013 (F) - Ok so, this guy started working with my company about six months ago. Very cute I'm very attracted to him and he is also younger then I am, I'm 38 and he is 26. We would see each other but not talk, Im shy I'm not sure if he is the same way. One ...

What makes for a successful relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4299 days ago

16 February 2013 (M) - What are the attributes you look in a relationship that it will work. What make relationships successful and what things to look as traits that make it worthy and long lasting?? I am hurt and being cheated upon so I need help to find the ri...