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writes:Modnote(1): Please advise the age difference between you and the guy you are interested in.Modnote (2)The boy's father is the girl's great Uncle.The boy's uncle is the grandfather of the girl.Her great grandparents are also the boy's grandparents. (hope that helps.) ............ ....................Alright, this might sound a little bit weird. So please don't weird out on me.I know this amazing guy. He's a sweetheart, he's smart, funny, blah blah blah. And we really seemed to click until we found out he's sort of my uncle. Weird, I know.His dad is my grandpa's youngest brother, which makes him my mother's cousin and my first cousing once removed. Actually, it's not that complicated but I'm pretty sure we're not THAT related.My question is, would it be that wrong for us to try and see if we can work? I've never felt so strongly about someone and if it's wrong then I need to get this out of my head asap.P.S: if it isn't weird, should I just kiss him and get it over with? I mean, UST is killing me.
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reader, Ilha  +, writes (18 February 2013):
Dear OP,
1. Please do confide with any relatives if you cannot confide with your mum whether it is feasible for you to have a relationship with a person who is somewhat related to you
2. If there is no taboo to have a relationship with him, and looking at your ages, I see why not. Go ahead as I assume both of you are still single and available. No harm in giving it a shot.
Good luck!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSorry, I forgot about the details. I'm nineteen and he's twenty. I am not saying he's the love of my life, but if life's so short, is it worth a try?
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reader, Ilha +, writes (17 February 2013):
Dear OP,
1. A family tree would actually help to see how close or distant you two are related.
2. The age difference between the two of you is also important before any advice or suggestion could be given. This is important so that any advice and suggestions given would be appropriate.
3. Talk to your mum about him and listen to her advice, I am sure she is the best person to tell you what to do.
Please do provide more information. Thank you.
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