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*rixxybelle
writes:Okay so I need some advice. I'm 20, female and always thought I was straight. But lately I've become kinda confused because there's this female singer, and well, I'm really attracted to her. I'm confused big time. I've never had a boyfriend but I've always liked guys and this has never happened before. She dresses with a boyish style and has short hair but I'm just kinda thinking about her in a sexual way. I've never been attracted to another girl before. So my question is, what does this mean?? Any advice is appreciated ^_^
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reader, Altonen +, writes (2 May 2014):
A person's sexuality can change at any point in their life. Sometimes you go from straight to bisexual or gay. Sometimes you go from gay to straight. It happens. It can happen any time in your life and I guess it's pretty confusing.In what way are you attracted to her? Sexually or romantically? Or even both? That's a key factor in decided how bisexual you might be.So yeah... I guess you're sexuality is changing. You don't need to try and label it yet. There is also a chance that this person is just an 'exception'. It's possible to still be straight but only be attracted to one person of the same sex. To figure out if she's just an exception or if you're bisexual, try kissing a girl. If not that, try imagining kissing someone else who's a girl. If you like it, then you're probably bisexual. If you don't like it, then this person might be your exception.Hope I was able to help!
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (2 May 2014):
 It means you're normal! All of us go through several what if fantasy stages in our lives. If you act on ALL of those stages you'll go nuts though so just enjoy the ride. Life can be soo friggin beautiful if you just slowly enjoy each and every stage. Fear not you will evolve into a rose no matter what you have hesitations over now. Grow slow and think about how special each moment is and isn't it cool that we can feel these things.Malama Pono(that's Hawaiian for 'take care')
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