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writes:Hiya I need all the possible help needed and as soon as possible please!!So I like this boy and he likes me back but were not going out as we don't want to ruin our friendship. But I want more I am thinking of asking him out tomorrow but then something happened today...One of my best mates (lets say lucy) said to me a while ago that my other best mate (let's say beth) and my crush are the Perfect match. Today in school I saw them together and they looked like they were flirting!! So I don't know what to do as beth says she doesn't like him but they have that thing!! So now I don't know what to do and who to tell so please please help me and soon!!!
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (23 June 2014):
 You move on, what would you be waiting for.
He said he does not want a Gf atm, it may be a way to let you down easy ,without hurting your feelings ( probable ) - or it might be the absolute truth, he likes being single and flirting with all the girls.
But boys his age are fickle, if in 6 months or 12 he decides he is ready to date... you have no guarantee it would be you, probably it would be the first girl who catches his eye and his fancy right there and then, in the moment. It makes sense,if you think about it. YOU are willing to wait for him because you have a big crush on him, but he does not have romantic feelings for you, so the moment he decides to give up his singlehhod, it could be for you ....or for anybody else.
I think that at your age 13-15 , it's really too early to start playing faithful Penelope to his Ulyssses. And based on such shaky premises, too.
Actually , it would be best if you did not even try to date at such a young age, and focus just on school and having fun with friends, but if you just can't do without a Bf,... BE HERE NOW. See if there is someone who likes you and appreciate you right here , right now, and do not start ( at least yet ) buying the mystique of " hard won, hard fought love "... that's bullshit , you do not have a marriage to save, a family to protect, .. romance ( let's not call it love yet ) should be fun, easy, breezy and enjoyable , why do you want to complicate your life needlessly ?
So , don't wait around that he gives you the honour of his attention or the charity of a kiss- move on ! plenty of fish in the sea.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2014): Thank you both I ended up asking him it and took your advice he turned me down as he said he didn't want a gf at moment but I dunno if I wait or not or move on! I still think that she likes him but I dunno if he likes her we will see what happens! Thank you for ur advice it really helped! :)
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reader, petina1 +, writes (13 June 2014):
 Sometimes when you confide in your friends that you like someone. They actually go for it. If you want something so badly then don't be a lame duck just grab it while you can. If it doesn't work out, look around . There's always another challenge for you, go get it girl!
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reader, SarahLovesPizza  +, writes (6 June 2014):
In my veiw, friendship comes before dating. just hang on. maybe they'll date awhile, then maybe he'll take a fancy to you! or, just move along. look for other guys! he may be cute, but there ARE other guys out there
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