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*aramel1990
writes:HI Ying Yang I would really appreciate if you could help me with this mess. Where do I even begin to cut a long story short.Well I've been with my boyfriend for 8 years he means the world to me I truly love him don't think he even knows how much I even do. We have been through so much as a couple I mean so much but happy we passed all that . I've recently moved 6 hours away from home to be with him so we could start our future together . Recently all we do is argue and I don't think he realises just ow much I've sacrificed pretty much evreything just to be with him. We always arguing over anything and evreything and it's really fustrating cause nothings gets resolved I feel like I'm the one who always trys to resolve evreything and this is to situations in the past as well .He only seems to have a lot to say when I start a conversation about us just feels a bit one sided or am I over reacting ? I love him so much but I also want to be happy and I'm defentley not just dont want to make the wrong decision. Help plz :(
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reader, petina1 +, writes (10 June 2014):
 It takes time to really get to know someone. Talking with respect even if it's something you don't like to hear can help. Total honesty on matters that are unresolved and finding mutual ways to sort them out May work. Is there a problem with finances. That's usually a sore point in a relationship. Are you upset because you are missing friends and family? A solution for example could be to go and visit them. The main thing is try to talk about what the issues are and find a way to deal with them together. My father in law once said you get on a lot better if you are singing from the same hymn sheet. A few years down the line in my rocky relationship I know exactly what he meant now. He was right and even though we don't agree on a lot of things even now after40 yrs together we find a happy medium by talking to each other and respecting each other's opinium. Hope some of this helps
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reader, NORA B  +, writes (6 June 2014):
When you are in-love and love someone as much as you have stated you want everything to be prefect immediately.Focus this does Not happen.It takes time and a lot of time to get used to each other 24/7 a lot of understanding and give and take on both sides.Time and love will sort this out. Best Wishes NORA B.
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