I don't want to tell my boyfriend how insecure I feel ....

A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I have a lovely boyfriend who i had been with for about 14 months, he hasnt done one thing to make me not trust him apart from on thing i seen a text on his phone about having video sex with a sex and cos i was so upset i couldnt remember the date and he started crying when he seen how upset i was reassuring me so much it was from before me! So i had to believe him. We have amazing relationship apart from that.To be honest i could'my ask for anyone better. This is my own worries which i do already no. I am just so frighted and scared he will cheat onme. My first boyfriend abused me when i was very young, my second cheated on me for year with someone else and then got married and i was very very hurt by both of them and i feel it has really scarred me! Whenever my boyfriend out, hes on holiday now and im sick with worry that he will do something its would kill me inside. Hes no i worry and try's to resure me i suppose. Hes very good looking and ino he gets attention and before me he was player hooking up with every thing. Im js so worried hes talking to girls or doing anything and it is driving me mad! I love him i want to marry him, have his kids. But this feeling i just cant get rid of that he will do something or he is. I cant be hurt again! I js need to go, i dont really tell him how really insecure i am i dont want him to think i am phyco but inside i really am struggling! I just dont know what to do? I love him and i dnt want to sub consciously push him away

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