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writes:Advice needed on how to deal with being left in the dark. I was seeing someone, it wasn't really going anywhere serious but I liked him .Our last conversation wasn't great- by text - and ended with a question from me. And no answer from him. Being a woman i need answers but have accepted that I will not get them.How do I move on from this and that feeling of being left without an ending?
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (17 July 2014):
 You are looking for answers so you can figure out IF you did something wrong. Don;t waste time with that.
If you NEED to know why, CALL him. ASK him. He might STILL not give you what you want from him, but at least you tried.
Having a relationship based on texting is not sustainable. Maybe... that is why he stopped replying? Because it went no where. He might have felt that he "let you down" gently that way.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2014): Thanks for your answer.I feel like I would lose face now if i called him as I was so annoyed at him I told him never to call me again. And as you said I am better off without him anyway.I didn't realise we were breaking up by text, it started as a normal conversation.. he just stopped the conversation by not answering my text so that was that. I just feel very up in the air and am finding it very difficult to move on without knowing what happened.
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reader, Euphoric29  +, writes (17 July 2014):
Dear OP,
You have two options:
1) call him and remind him that you want an answer
or
2) realize that you're better off without him, because his communication skills are really bad
Also, I would recommend that in the future, you talk on the phone or face-to-face when there is a difficult topic. Texts can be too easily misunderstood. And when it comes to break ups, it's a complete no-go to use texts.
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