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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I met a guy at work earlier this year and whenever he came in to the office we would talk and flirt. Finally after two months he asked me out. I gave him my # and it took him over a week to text me. We arranged to go out that weekend. It was fun and he kissed me at the end of the date. I waited for him to text me first because I didn't want to seem too pushy. He would text me a couple times a week. Hes busy so sometimes he wouldn't reply to me until the next day. I got tired of waiting for him to ask me out again so after a week and a half I asked him out for drinks. Again it went well and he walked me to my car and kissed me...a lot. We even texted that night talking about next time. He still wasn't texting me often and last weekend I invited him to join me and some friends at a bar. I waited all day for a response and when he finally did he just asked what time. He didn't show up that night or text. I sent him a text with a pic saying he was missing the fun. It took him two days to respond and all he said was "that was a lot of shots" and I responded the next day saying "yeah it was fun. Oh BTW...its nice to hear from you. I was about ready to write you off. :)" And I haven't heard from him since. Is it OK to text him and just say hi? If he responds then I'll know he's just busy and if not then I'll assume he is no longer interested and move on.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (13 April 2014):
 I think at this point I would just stop texting him. You've asked him out after the last kissing session and the only thing he noticed was that there were a lot of shots…. I would let him make the next move. If it doesn't happen then it doesn't happen, he's just not interested. You gave it a good try and did your best to connect with him.
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