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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I like thos co-worker who is 18...but is somehow a bit mature professionally...but as to relationships..i don't get him... He showed interest and i backed off...afraid because i was never in a relationship and he is so young and tells about me to others at worky. We hardly talk, only looks... but he acts like it's only me interested in him and he is not...i'm thinking he just likes my attention...he shows off around me...I wanted to ask him out...but i feel like i«m too old...on the other hand we are in this situation for the past almost 4 months so...if he said no that would solve a lot of thingsi guess... I know I messed up...and I may seem uninterested...but it is just that i'm too shy .... should i ask him out even if he tells others?I feel so uncomfortable in my skin...I don't know...I just think that if it was just me and him without the others he would act differently and me too...I do mistakes at work others laugh and so does he...he's a bit influential... what do you think...I care for him I do, i just want him to be happy.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (19 August 2012):
 I think he if he is more influenced by other people instead of being himself then no he is not mature, there is nothing about this post that makes me see why you think he is mature because to me he sounds like a typical immature teenager, I honestly think you would be wasting your time with him and you are best just ignoring him.
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