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writes: I have small breasts nd I hate them. I mean, they're healthy, and that's cool, but despite my feminine body still at 23 people say I look like a 10 year old boy. I don't. I have a defined waist, wide hips, a curvy butt, thick legs... I've never seen a 10 year old boy who looks like that. Anyway, people always say that there are guys out there who prefer small boobs. Um, where? I think they're a myth 'cause I haven't met any! They are all about big boobs, even my ex made a point about expressing his "preference" and I couldn't get upset because it was "just preference" and that I had to "lighten up". Then the media makes me feel worthless, I remember my sister was watching Joan Rivers one day and they were going on and on a bout Christina Hendricks' and Kat Dennings' breasts. Why don't they ever go ond and on about how pretty a celebrity's small breasts are? For example, there are many small busted celebs, but you never hear people say "her small breasts are what makes her beautiful", it's always more like "she's beautiful despite her small breasts, because she has a lot to make up for them". But why do we have to have something to "make up for" our small chests?It just hurts... a guy on another forum told me something like "some boobs are more valuable thn others the same way Stephen Hawking's brain is more valuable than mine, and Usain Bolt's legs are more valuable than Hawking's". But how? Boobs are there to produce milk, and both small and big can do that, it's not like brains or legs, it's such an off comparison. So what makes big boobs more valuable? Will I always be inferior to busty women in terms of attractiveness and worth? Will all men be settling for me physically, like my ex? 'Cause honestly I've never met a guy my age who prefers smaller cups to giant ones, they just settle.
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reader, deirdre  +, writes (19 August 2012):
I dont know why men are like this but I used to get the same comments too, maybe you should try giving them a personal remark in return for what they say to you. it sounds as though you look good already from your description
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reader, Dr.LanceMerryweather  +, writes (19 August 2012):
 Well Miss, I live in China and I have to say that I LOVE the Chinese female look, I think some of the most beautiful looking women in the world are here, all around me!
Of course, Chinese women tend to be very small-breasted and I LOVE their small tits and slim bodies - this from a committed 'tit man'!
Yea, I love big tits, but now, over the last ten years, I've finally learned to appreciate quality over quantity!
Just my 2p worth.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2012): Hi well wanted to tell you big boobs are not as valuable as you think. Speaking as a big breasted woman I would rather get an operation. I hate shopping because I have be careful of what kind of shirt it is or better buy a bigger shirt to fit my breasts. They are a hassle. Yeah some guys love big breasts but I know many that won't even bother with a woman like me because I have big breasts. So I say this to say love your body regardless of what others think. Someone will love it.
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reader, sick and tired  +, writes (19 August 2012):
I have a 36 DD and I am thin. When I was your age, I was so embarrassed to have big boobs because of the comments and stares. I am very fit so luckily I have become more confident through the years. But, they are far from perfect. I have big nipples, and they are not as perky as a smaller breasted women's. But I would never have surgery to lift the, because this is what I have been given and I am making the best of it. Lastly,I have only had one true love , it is not like you have big boobs and a better love life. I have had many problems with guys to. Lastly, if a flatter girl wears a top she looks classy, , if I have the same top on it looks more hoochy. Best of luck!
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reader, grymsoul +, writes (19 August 2012):
 Believe me, there. That doesn't care how big or small your breasts are. There are guys out there who prefer a different body part besides big breasts. I am one of them. When it comes to me, breasts are among the last things I notice. My favorite body parts are thighs and butt.
Those are the things that drive me wild. Breasts have never had a huge sexual impact on me. I have turned down women despite them having large breasts. Some people prefer bigger breasts, some prefer bigger butts, some prefer longer hair, some prefer a bigger penis and some prefer bigger muscles. It's all about preference.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (19 August 2012):
 I used to work at a strip club - as a bartender - but it was a totally interesting study of sexual attraction. One of the interesting things I observed was that the girls with the smaller chests nearly always got much more attention. They were perkier and real. They routinely got the most attention.
In ordinary life, a smaller rack also has the advantage of looking amazing in ALL KINDS of clothing. You guys look good in every style of dress and top! You can do a plunging neckline and not look hoochie! Oh, how I envy you! Bigger breasts sag, lose their elasticity, get intense veins... small boobs stay looking amazing forever!
I suppose in some biological was, bigger breasts suggest more fertility... but we're not neanderthals anymore and really, guys like every body type.
Christina Hendricks and Kat Dennings are pretty unusual. Most big celebrities have small racks - why? Because again, they look better in most clothes and stay livelier for longer! I suspect Joan Rivers talks about those two because it's so very unusual in Hollywood to see an enormous rack that's not super fake and attached to a plastic Frankenstein hot mess. I could name a thousand and seven small chested celebs... off the top of my head, Kate Hudson, Jennifer Anniston, Lady Gaga, Miley Cyrus, Courtney Cox, Jennifer Garner, the Olson twins, Cameron Diaz, Hillary Swank, Keira Knightley, Claire Danes, Julia Stiles, Mila Kunis, Gwyneth Paltrow, Kate Bosworth, Alessandra Ambrosia, Katie Holmes, Victoria Beckham... I could go on. But I'll stop there.
Smaller is definitely superior. I'll bet you're looking forward to getting some answers from guys - but I just wanted to throw in my two cents!
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reader, Stayc63088 +, writes (19 August 2012):
 I've dated a guy who did prefer small breasts to big ones he only ever dated girls with a smaller, thinner build. The man I'm married to know is more of an ass man anyway but had a bad experience with an ex with big boobs that sagged and were disgusting so he prefers smaller ones as well. Though he also always dated thin women. Lucky for me since I'm a small girl. I've known lots of guys who like breasts sure but are more into a nice ass. It's pretty rude of your ex to make those comments then to just say, it's preference so get over it... Right like if you made any mention of his penis being negative then told him its just preference he would be fine.... Please. I'll admit I don't like having small boobs either sometimes. I feel media acts like you aren't a woman unless you have large breasts. But short of breast surgery all I can do is accept my body, just as you do. You will meet a guy that loves your body though so don't worry about that too much. Everybody has different body types they are into.
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