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writes: I have been with my girlfriend for 5 months now. About 2 months ago, I really upset her. She told me about her previous sexual experience and it freaked me out and I reacted really badly to it and said some really hurtful things. She was mad at me for a week, and then decided she'd give me another chance.She's been kinda off with me lately, and last night she told me why. She can't forgive me for the things I said to her back then, even though she knows that I love her and care about her and that what I said back then isn't how I really feel about her. She said every time she sees me or talks to me she feels really angry and can't stop thinking about what I said and how I made her feel.She said that she thinks it's really stupid, and she doesn't want to feel that way. She said that she thought it was because we're in a long distance relationship and we don't see each other a lot, but she doesn't think that now after last night.I said that maybe spending some time together might help, and that if she wants to forgive me, then she probably will eventually, and that it will just take time, but she doesn't seem so sure.I know this isn't really a question anyone can answer, but I guess I just want opinions. Is there hope for us? Or am I chasing Amy?
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reader, Dazzerg  +, writes (22 May 2006):
 Yes there is hope but she has to be willing to give it time and you have to recognise there is a chance that you are indeed chasing amy. Obviously the problem is not that you make her feel unloved or dont show you affection. You also have to accept that reaslistically there is little you can do part from continue to show your affection in little ways.
Focus on doing fun things together and things that relax you both and you can enjoy together. Take care. Hope that helps.
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reader, auntie claire +, writes (22 May 2006):
 dear reader, you said it yourself mate if she wants to forgive you she will in time nothing ever happens over night. i would love to say to you everything will be fine and she'll come around but thats only a question she can answer and i hope that it does turn out fine i see you have seen the error of your ways and feel sorry about it but remember to try and not to push things along or you'll just push her away but on the other hand don't step too far back from it or she'll start to think you don't care
i wish you luck with this i hope it turns out ok
all the best xxx
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