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writes: hello i just wanted a mans opinion, if a man decides to have nothing to do with you if they get you pregnant do they ever think about there child at all or do they have no feelings towards it at all Reply to this Question
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reader, lisa_01  +, writes (24 May 2006):
 I always ask myself that question aswell, because im 19 going on 20 and well my real dad left my mother when he found out she was pregnant with me, almost 20 years on and he has made no attempt to even have anything to do with me, it really hurts inside knowning he just does not even care or want to take responsability for his actions, it really makes me wonder what kind of man he must be to do that.
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reader, Wild Thaing  +, writes (23 May 2006):
 We're not all the same, so it is dangerous to generalize. For example, I believe in taking responsibility for the choices I make. If I create another life, then I feel responsibile for that child regardless of my feelings towards the mother. But that is me, and other men may not give this child a second thought. Hope this helps.
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reader, Lostandalone  +, writes (22 May 2006):
 No it isn't easy. I know first hand that the woman makes it more difficult to be with your child if you are not with her, in some instances. A lot of women feel like they can say and do anything and think a man wants to be around that crap. Thats just one case but there could be any number of significant reasons that a man could possibly not want to visit that child not that he forgets. And its not always the man's fault for his reasoning. Look at yourself and think what could YOU have possibly done to make him feel like this or act this way and when you have cleared yourself then look at his dirty dealings. Good Luck.
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reader, joanna44 +, writes (22 May 2006):
joanna44 is verified as being by the original poster of the question i am hiding nothing.i am in this situation and i just wanted a mans view.is it easy to forget about a child you have.
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reader, Wild Thaing +, writes (22 May 2006):
I am not sure where you are going with this question; it sounds like you are fishing for answers to validate your beliefs on this issue. What intrigues me about your post is that it is hiding something.
Why do you want to know the answer to this question?
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reader, Lostandalone +, writes (22 May 2006):
Of course they think about the child and you for that matter. There could be a number of things going on so to give you an honest opinion wouldn't be quite honest. But yes if they know for a fact it is their child to answer your question.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2006): Hmm, I'm only guessing but I would say they would think about their child pretty much all the time!
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reader, Dazzerg  +, writes (22 May 2006):
 Well to be honest I wouldnt think much of a man like that. It is possible they are scared and are running away and still do care about the child and even you but that doesnt excuse them leaveing you.
I would hope they have feelings but its hard to tell. Take care.
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