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writes: at the beginning of march, i ended it with my ex after he got really un-communicative with me after his best mate (girl) split with her fella. a few days after he was with her. She was eight months pregnanat at the time, as we were together 7 months, this pretty much screwd with my head. i then started seeing a really nice guy, hes great, older than the previous, can drive, has his own business, the list goes on. i do really like him, but i miss my ex. he was my first, and its really getting to me. to make matters worse, the current dude says he loves me, and is getting very serious. i tried to hint at slowing down, but he took it wrong, so i had to retrace myself. how do i get him to slow down? i do want to be with the current guy, i'm just so confused. please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2006): Just because your ex was your first, it does not mean you have to spend the rest of your life with him. Dating was meant for people to see if they were ready to make the relationship a commitment... if people just dove right into marrage imagine the chaos. Stop hanging on your ex, it obviously ended for a reason, and this new guy seems to really like you.
If you want your new guy to slow down, tell him, don't be afraid... he should respect your wishes if he truely cares for you. Communication is key to any good relationship.
Good Luck Hun! :)
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