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Archived questions from: 20 September, 2005 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

We're taking time apart and now she wants to meet up again. Is she going to drop a bomb?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6373 days ago

20 September 2005 (M)

- Hi, Please, help! My girlfriend and I are on a break. It's been 8 weeks, but this is OK since I did the same a few years ago. I know she loves me, but she said at last conversation "I'm afraid if we get back together it'll be great and something will screw it up." She h... (185 words)

My girlfriend asked for a break so she can become "the perfect woman for me"...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7032 days ago

20 September 2005 (?) - I've been with my girlfriend for 3 yrs and we both are 17. We got engaged and everything seemed like picture perfect but things got worse now. She came to me saying we need to take time apart because she wants to better herself for me become the perfect woman for me. I love... (143 words)

I'm almost overwhelmed by all the compliments and attention, but I'm worried about getting "physical"...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7031 days ago

20 September 2005 (F) - Hey I'm a 16 yr old girl, and have a friend "Tim" who is also 16yrs old. When I started a new school, he was on my course. We met when we went on a trip with the school and he was helping me rockclimb. Ever since, he has picked on me senseless, and he asked for my mobile and ... (191 words)

With the amount of time we spend together, shouldn't my guy seem a bit more... interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7032 days ago

20 September 2005 (F) - I met a man 4 years ago. Nothing happened at the time. I ran into him about 2 months ago and we have been spending some time together. We've done dinner, dancing and both like to gamble once in awhile. I am 41 years old and he is 51, going on 52 in a couple of days. I ... (197 words)

I'm apparently not "the one" my boyfriend is looking for, but he wants me to stick around anyway...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 7004 days ago

20 September 2005 (F) - I have been seeing my boyfriend for 3 months. We met on the internet and hit it off straight away. We have loads in common and everything is fantastic. We both agree on this! But after 4 dates he told me I wasn't 'the one'. We carried on seeing each other and are having a... (146 words)

I never know what to say. How do I learn to make friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7032 days ago

20 September 2005 (F)

- Hi Im due to start university next year,..my problem is that I have never had any true close friends. Does anybody have any advice on how to make friends?? I am not particularly shy or annoying and therefore had trouble talking to people, it is just I never know what to say... (59 words)

No intimacy from my boyfriend in over a year. And he won't discuss it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7031 days ago

20 September 2005 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years. He is 16 years older than I am. I love him dearly but im really depressed about our relationship. He has never slept with me and hasn't kissed me in over a year. He says he is happy the way things are. Obviously I am not. I don't know ... (88 words)

Can get sex easily, but I'd like a proper relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7030 days ago

20 September 2005 (F) - I am an attractive 53 year old woman who is finding it impossible to meet someone who will commit to them. I have no trouble attracting men, but they only ever want sex. As that's not what I'm about I very rarely see them again. What is it about me that men don't want to be in ... (62 words)

My partner has never contributed toward food or expenses and he got huffy when I suggested it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7030 days ago

20 September 2005 (F) - I have been in a relationship with my brother's roommate for nearly two years. We are both 40 years old. My brother has taken this extremely badly but won't explain why. He won't speak to or associate with me anymore but acts normally with my partner. Because of this hostile ... (159 words)

Out of the blue, my husband announced that he doesn't think he loves me any more!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7030 days ago

20 September 2005 (F) - I've been married to my gorgeous husband 3 years, we have a 15 month old baby. Four weeks ago he announced he is no longer happy in the marriage, he has said we have nothing in common, we are drifting apart, our sex life is poor and he doesn't think he loves me anymore. I wa... (97 words)

I'm ready for a relationship, but she wavers and says she just wants "a friend"...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7030 days ago

20 September 2005 (M) - I was seeing this girl Jane. She recently split with her Ex and we got together ( we originally met over net ) Anyway it was a somewhat rocky ride for 4 weeks because she was acting funny and stuff. I confronted her a number of times and basically all she said is she needs ti... (437 words)

Beer with his buddies is more important than time with me... Am I selfish to want to start over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7031 days ago

20 September 2005 (F) - I have been with my husband for about 10 years (8 married). I have a 16 yr old from before we met. I love him and we have never cheated on one another. I am not interested in any other man and he is not interested in another woman. I am however very sad and am thinking of ... (536 words)

My best girlfriend and her guilt-tripping has come between me and my man...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7016 days ago

20 September 2005 (F) - HI there, please can someone help - I'm going crazy here. I wrote a while ago explaining that I moved to the US to be with a man who dumped me because I basically ignored what he wanted and moved into his house with no leaving date (we had agreed two months - it was all my id... (694 words)

Great guy... not-so-great sex! What about me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7032 days ago

20 September 2005 (F) - Hi...I have been with the same guy for a while now...a little over three years. I love him and want to marry him someday. We have talked about a future together and kids...the whole deal. My problem is in the bedroom. I have never met a guy who could please me. I have only ... (168 words)

What can I do to make our 3 1/2 year anniversary special?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7030 days ago

20 September 2005 (F) - Hey everyone, I have been in a very loving relationship for almost 3 1/2 years now...and that is where my question comes up. My 3 1/2 year anniversary is coming up and I really need help as to what I should do to show my boyfriend how much I can and appreciate him. The problem ... (86 words)

Does the reduced interest in sex, plus the dating-website profile equal "cheating"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7030 days ago

20 September 2005 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 4 years and we had a great sex life for the first two. As with any relationship the sex tailed off but he is always 'up for it' whereas I am often stressed and tired from work. He had been having trouble accessing his emails so I went ... (239 words)

The breaking-up with me was bad enough... but the sick lie made it worse!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7030 days ago

20 September 2005 (M) - G'day Several months ago my then girlfriend told me her younger brother was dying from recently diagnosed terminal brain cancer. Over the next four weeks i was unable to see her as he was being treated, but spoke to her and her family weekly on the phone. Then one week i h... (309 words)

Still hanging on to a thread of hope the my ex-girlfriend will come back to me...

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

20 September 2005 (M) - I've asked questions on here before. The answers have been very helpful, but I'm sure you are all aware, things change. I told my ex girlfriend (who dumped me for someone else) that we couldn't be friends. At the time I said that to her, we were getting on really really we... (383 words)

I can't get over her past with her ex. I feel like her second choice!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6876 days ago

20 September 2005 (M) - Girlfriend's Past and present I have been with my girlfriend for nearly a year now and I love her more then anything. She is amazing and she loves me so much. The problem is I can't get over her past. I know this is standard. A lot of guys have this problem. She has been wit... (835 words)

I had to move quite a distance away, but I still think of her as the girl I want in my life...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7032 days ago

20 September 2005 (M) - I am an Asian male in my mid twenties. On one of my jobs, I had to live for almost one year out of my home. During that period, I was with a girl. We used to go out most of the time, but not as a couple. After more than a couple of months like this, I could tell what she ha... (189 words)

I feel like I'm nothing more than a slave to my boyfriend in prison!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7032 days ago

20 September 2005 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend now for 2 years. He has spent most of our time with each other in jail though, and the thing is, when he is at home we are great together. I couldn't have been happier but the way he is now is changing the way I feel about him. He is so selfish; he ... (244 words)

She chose another man over me... Should I wait and see if she breaks up with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7032 days ago

20 September 2005 (M) - Hi I'm 24 and suffering. 4 years ago I met a girl on the net and we bacame very good friends in real life. Then one day I realised I loved her. But the day I wanted to tell her she tell me she found someone and said would date him. It was quite a hard blow. I begged her to give ... (364 words)

My husband rubs himself... and rubs... and frankly, it turns me off!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7032 days ago

20 September 2005 (F) - My husband is always rubbing himself. When he watches TV, he slowly rubs one foot over the other, and back and forth. It drives me crazy. He also rubs his thighs, and sometimes his arms. He also sticks his hand inside his shirt, and hangs his hand above the button, while he ... (95 words)

My guy is gone into the military, and he's just not a phone person so we never talk!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6528 days ago

20 September 2005 (F) - I have been talking to/dating this guy for about 4 months. I found out early on that he had just graduated from the same college that I still attend and was going into the military. I did not expect to get as close to him as I am now, but unfortunately we did. Everything was... (172 words)

My partner was supposed to be working in New York, not chatting up other girls!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7032 days ago

20 September 2005 (F) - I had been with my boyfriend for seven and a half years, since 17. We had been saving for a house but still lived with our parents. I always believed he loved me. We hadn't been getting on over the last year as well as normal, he didn't seem to make as much of an effort, ... (306 words)