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writes: I have been talking to/dating this guy for about 4 months. I found out early on that he had just graduated from the same college that I still attend and was going into the military. I did not expect to get as close to him as I am now, but unfortunately we did. Everything was all fine and great while he was here but now that he's gone, we rarely communicate. The problem is not that he can't communicate (b/c he went in as an officer), the problem is that he will not communicate. He just tells me it's because that's how he is and he doesn't like talking on the phone. (I also knew that from the beginning)But by him being so far we cannot see each other either. So what should I do? I really like him and he's not like this in person. I just cannot get him to conversate to keep the relationship going. Is there anything I can do/try?
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reader, hannahuk +, writes (6 February 2007):
im sure if he was that bothered in u,then he would call u an text u,but his makin up a pathetic excuse,get rid a him.tell him he iva makes an effort or ull move on.
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reader, wwww.datinghaven.com +, writes (20 September 2005):
End it, most people from millitary play away (they are females in there too or some abuse prisoners..im sure he int liek that tho).
When you join the millitary you live another life. Its not just going somewhere... it can be very hard being home sick etc. so you create a new life and go back to your old one when you get to go home, but some never go home thats what they have to face hence why creating a new life.
Date someone else! How can you trust someone that doesnt communicate with you?
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