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writes:Hi,Please, help! My girlfriend and I are on a break. It's been 8 weeks, but this is OK since I did the same a few years ago. I know she loves me, but she said at last conversation "I'm afraid if we get back together it'll be great and something will screw it up." She hasn't been in touch. She's been finding her own self and friends that know her say she would've ended it by now if she didn't care. So, I get an e-mail from hern asking me if I'd like to get dinner next week, specifically on a Monday. She said,"I thought it would be nice to catch up and see how both our lives are going". So my question, ladies especially, is, please, any indication what she's up to? I just want to be prepared. She knows I love her. Is this honestly innocent, since she wants to go to on of our favorite places...or is she going to drop the bomb? She is not one to do things lightly...help please!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2007): she probaly just wants to make sure your still there for her and wants to make sure that your doing okay. She won't drop a bomb and there would be nothing to worry about. It's just like break time is over with you guys now. Time to start up your relationship again. Start where you left off is wut shes probaly trying to do.
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reader, missdee +, writes (21 September 2005):
Your girlfriend is sending mixed signals no wonder you don't know what's up. You said in your last conversation with her, that she told you "I'm afraid if we get back together it'll be great and something will screw it up."
Along with the fact she hasn't been in touch with you during this break from your relationship.
Then she contacts you and wants to see you on a Monday. Why then why not the weekend? She tells you she just wants to catch up and see how both of your lives are going.
Then dinner at a favorite place.
I'm really sorry but, sounds to me like she is setting up to drop the bomb. The no contact I would say is because she is interested in somebody else. The favorite place is probably because she is gonna give you the "stay friend speech" and she wants it on Monday because she has plans on the weekend.
I can believe she still loves you but probably feels she is not in love with you.. Really hope I am wrong and she just wants to come back home. Lots of Luck, you sound like a great guy.
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reader, LEXI8580 +, writes (21 September 2005):
shes obviously been thinking about you to invite you out, i say just go with the flow, dont get your hopes up, but enjoy each others company, catch up. See if there is still a spark and go from there! Goodluck chick!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2005): I think what she is up to is trying to see you and catch up on your lives. If she didn't miss you, she would not have sent the invitation. Take her at her word, until she proves dishonest. Then confront her about that. NO relationship can exist without trust by both parties. Start now.
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