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writes: HeyI'm a 16 yr old girl, and have a friend "Tim" who is also 16yrs old.When I started a new school, he was on my course. We met when we went on a trip with the school and he was helping me rockclimb.Ever since, he has picked on me senseless, and he asked for my mobile and msn addy and he won't leave me alone.He's always complementing me, saying how he loves my eyes etc. He is always looking at me in class, and as we hang out in the same group.He hints an awful lot like talking about kissing etc.I think he does like me, but I'm a bit scared about how all these signals are blearing up at me.I also afraid of my first kiss and getting physical. My last boyfriend dumped me because I wouldn't have sex with him and I was swept off my feet in july, with a boy who I am in love with, and it kills me to see him in school every day. What should I d?o
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reader, missdee +, writes (21 September 2005):
I think this guy likes you but you need to make sure it is not for the same reason your ex liked you.
If he really cares about how you feel talk to him and tell him you need him to slow down. He may be used to other types of girls that like boys that act like that. If you are not interested in him then tell him you only want to be friends with him before it goes any further in his mind anyway.
Don't let anyone rush you into sex or anything else. You take your time. You have the rest of your life for that. If the guy respects you then he won't mind waiting. If he breaks up with you like your ex he wasn't worth having to begin with. Sex is all he wanted from you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2005): Talk to your new admirer, and tell him you are not ready for romance yet, in your life. Tell him you appreciate his attention, but it will be awhile before you are ready to go out with him, or anyone else. Tell him that you will call him when you are ready. That way, you back him down gently, and don't close any doors until you are ready to open them. Take your time enjoying being 16. It goes by so fast, and you only get to enjoy it one time. Best of wishes.
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