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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Every time my man acts like my ex, I get flashbacks to that awful relationship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7037 days ago

9 September 2005 (F) - My man and I are expecting a baby in October. I really love him, but the problem is.....I don't trust him. I was in a very bad previous relationship / marriage. My ex cheated on me for 2 years without me knowing. He would do things like leave at night and not come home until ... (152 words)

So, we're friends, but how do I know if she likes me in the same way?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

9 September 2005 (M)

- I'm a 16 year old male in year 11 at school. There's a really good looking girl who I think I'm good friends with and I really like her. She's really talkative to me and laughs at some of the jokes and stuff, but how do I know if she likes me in the same way? I really want to ... (102 words)

I'm terrified by the idea of getting close to women!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7042 days ago

9 September 2005 (M) - Dear Cupid, I have problems with women. I am scared of them, or for that matter, scared of at least going close to them. It happened to me quite a few times that I felt terrified in the presence of a woman, a woman of authority for example, at work. I have never been ab... (331 words)

He obsessed with me, but I don't feel the same about him anymore!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7042 days ago

9 September 2005 (F) - Hey I'm 23, F, and I have been with my bf for 2 years now and he's become very obsessed with me. My picture's everywhere, won't leave me alone. I have had enough. I don't feel the same for him but I don't know how to break up with him because I'm scared he will kill himself. ... (60 words)

Am I normal? Just not that fussed about a girlfriend...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6931 days ago

9 September 2005 (M)

- Hey! Great site by the way. I am a 27 year old fella. I have had long-term girlfriends, short term girlfriends and everything else in between. I split from my last bird over a year ago. Problem is this: I don't feel the *need* to have a girlfriend. I'm pretty happy just to ... (86 words)

He didn't return my calls. He spent Monday with his ex. Are we finished?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7040 days ago

9 September 2005 (F) - Should I leave my boyfriend? On Friday last week, my boyfriend promised that we would spend some time together as we have both been busy. On Saturday he turns up and tells me that he can't stay as he has promised his dad that he will help him out with a job on Sunday, so he ca... (246 words)

Is it fair that he dumped me for sleeping with someone 9 years ago?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7039 days ago

9 September 2005 (F) - My Boyfriend of three years has dumped me. The reason he cited is that I slept with his best friend 9 years ago and he can't cope with that fact. He says I don't understand the male ego. I think that this is deeply unreasonable, what do you think?... (52 words)

My wife wants to "do" me with a strapon... Surely to God this isn't natural?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 3690 days ago

9 September 2005 (M) - me and my wife have a good sex life but she wants to try anal on me with toys then a strapon we like to try new things but her doing it to me doesnt seem natural. if we do try anyone got any advice on best strapon(small plz) best lube and best positions to do it in. thank you.... (60 words)

My boyfriend says I have to let him have sex online or he'll go out and cheat in the flesh!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6536 days ago

9 September 2005 (F) - Is Cybersex cheating? My boyfriend (of 4 years) is part of some adult match maker sites and often talks dirty or indulges in cybersex with users of the site. He'd left open some of his messages on the computer that I saw and was not very happy with. He has advertised bo... (188 words)

Dating a friend just doesn't feel right!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7043 days ago

9 September 2005 (F) - The guy I am with right now used to be one of my closest guy friends and then I decided to give a relationship a try. But now I am having second thoughts. He's always around me and hanging on me all the time. Also, when he holds on to me I get the feeling like "you're my ... (75 words)

Interested in trying swinging, but apprehensive about how it might affect our relationship!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6998 days ago

9 September 2005 (M) - My wife recently declared an interest in trying sex with another girl. It got me interested me as the girl in question is sexy and apparently available and I would shag her without any problems. The girl also suggested that her husband joined in. My wife and I have never do... (217 words)

She wasn't able to handle a relationship with school and work. OK, but how long do I wait for her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7043 days ago

9 September 2005 (M) - My girlfriend who I've been going out with for about half a year just dumped me. She says it's just because right now her schedule between school and work is just too overloaded and that she doesn't have time for a serious relationship. She also says that she still likes me but ... (109 words)

I discovered that my boyfriend is a cross-dresser. Now he lies to me about it!

This question has 39 answers - newest was posted 3633 days ago

9 September 2005 (F) - Hi, I’m really confused at the moment and was hoping someone could help me out. I’m in a relationship and have been for about 1 year and 2 months. It was great to start off with but now things are a little shaky. He has two kids (just turned 2 and 4) and even though he ha... (435 words)

He doesn't trust me and I've never done anything to break his trust!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3059 days ago

9 September 2005 (F) - My boyfriend doesn't trust me, I have done nothing to break his trust. So I don't understand why he has such distrust towards me. We can talk about anything else but nothing about his trust in me. He also holds double standards, if he doesn't want me to do something I have ... (90 words)

I caught my 10-year-old daughter masturbating!

This question has 140 answers - newest was posted 6132 days ago

9 September 2005 (F) - I hope you can help me with this because i just dont know what to do! I have a 10 year old daughter who is very happy- go lucky and has lots of friends. Last week i walked into her bedroom to find her straddling her bedcorner and thrusting. I told her to stop right away. Why is ... (72 words)