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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My boyfriend loves the attention from other women! Will he every stop the games?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

8 September 2005 (F) - I am really hoping I can get some advice from a few different people here. My partner and I have been together for 8 months now. We love each other very much and have a great relationship overall. We live together and plan on moving closer to mine and his family and buying a ... (963 words)

How can I be friends again with my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7040 days ago

8 September 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid, I need some advice. I want to be friends again with my ex because we had such good times together and I didn't want our relationship to end on bad terms but it did. I want to make things right again but I don't know how. Could you help? xxxx... (55 words)

How do I know if I'm in love with someone?

This question has 58 answers - newest was posted 4857 days ago

8 September 2005 (F) - I have a huge dilemma. I am 16 years old. How do you know if you are in love with someone? And what do you do if you have a crush on someone a lot older than you? Please help me! ... (41 words)

My husband won't stand up and say NO to anyone...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6166 days ago

8 September 2005 (F) - I have been married for 8 years and have had it with the fact my husband don't have a backbone. He can't say NO to anyone except ME. He lets his friend use him and when I get fed up and mad and tell him he better tell them or I will, he still won't. Even though I have told the ... (179 words)

My wife wants a baby... Will a pregnancy calm down her anger?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7044 days ago

8 September 2005 (M) - Dear Cupid - I remarried 4 yrs ago. My new wife and I decided to move to a new country and set up a business a year ago based on a business plan that we did together. It has suceeded through hard work and we are beginning to see the benefits (new car, huge TV, general ... (365 words)

When I was interested, he had a girlfriend. Now I just want to be friends and he "hates" me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7044 days ago

8 September 2005 (F) - I'm a 15 year old girl and I was best friends with a boy for about a year. We were really close. He helped me with my relationship worries and I helped him with his. I began to get feelings for him around Christmas but he had a girlfriend. I then was told by a good friend o... (256 words)

Should I write and apologise to my ex about the bad way I handled our break-up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7043 days ago

8 September 2005 (F) - I found some old letters in my stack of books and in them was one from "Jake". We dated 8 years ago when I was 18 for about 3-4 months. He was amazing to me, maybe the nicest bfriend I ever had. We were never intimate with one another, although close. I had been hurt very ... (258 words)

What is the difference between a "serious girlfriend" and a fiancee?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7044 days ago

8 September 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 10 months. 2 months ago, he ask me to marry him, and we became engaged. For a couple of reasons, he decided and I now agree, that we aren't ready for that "next step". Therefore, we have taken a step back and cancelled the ... (140 words)

I've never had an orgasm with my partner!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7044 days ago

8 September 2005 (F) - I am in a very happy relationship of 2 years and have just given birth to our 1st child. My partner and I are best friends and couldn't be happier. The thing is I've never had an orgasm. He's the only person I have ever slept with. He has had other sexual partners and said tha... (184 words)

I love him and he loves me, so why won't he show any affection to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7043 days ago

8 September 2005 (F) - Okay my boyfriend and I have been talking about getting engaged and what not. I love him with all I have. I have never been so in love with anything or anyone. But here is my problem...I feel that he sees me as more of a friend and not a girlfriend. We do everything together, ... (142 words)

I started to go down on him and he said "Don't bother"...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 7037 days ago

8 September 2005 (F) - I just started dating this guy. We fooled around for the first time the other night and when I went down to return the favor he told me not to bother because he's only gotten off twice like that with his ex-girlfriend. I hesitated to ask if he's gotten off during sex. Is that ... (73 words)

My trust issues are exacerbated by my husband's behaviour toward me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7044 days ago

8 September 2005 (F) - After just having read one of your question and answers I am impressed with the responses. I have a similar problem with trust/insecurity issues only I am in my late forties. I didn't feel loved as a child and every man I know or have known, with the exception of my father, ... (412 words)

My girlfriend's sexual abuse still haunts her when we start getting intimate...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

8 September 2005 (M) - Sorry to bother, but I am starting to wonder what I can do to better please my girlfriend. We are both 18 and have been going out for 6 months, but only started having sex recently. She was abused as a child, and the feelings still haunt her. Just recently she has started ... (136 words)

We're expecting a baby in December, but my man disrespects me and says f*ck you!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7044 days ago

8 September 2005 (F) - I am in a nice relationship and we are expecting a baby in December - we are great friends and things are fine mostly. However there have been a few occassions that he swears at me - saying F You and disrespecting etc, when I explain that this is not acceptable and he should ... (115 words)

I'm perfectly happy with my own company and no relationships. Am I strange?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7042 days ago

8 September 2005 (M) - Dear Cupid, I am an adult guy and quite enjoy being in company of my own. Actually, the times in solitude are some of the most relaxing times for me. I have been like this for ages. But now that I am becoming free and can earn my own bread, I don't really think like being... (186 words)

Help - have problems controlling my sexual desires in public!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7044 days ago

8 September 2005 (M) - Dear Cupid, I have problems controlling my sexual desires in public. I sometimes get an erection even when i am talking to a girl at work place. I look out for opportunities to flirt at work and try to build some sort of connection like what you generally do with your gf. An... (195 words)

Before I had friends and my own life, I was needy around him. Now I'm settled, how can I get him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7044 days ago

8 September 2005 (F) - I hope someone can help. I recently moved from england to the US. I love to travel and wanted a change of scene but also wanted to be with an American man I had met 18 months before. He had agreed to me coming to stay with him for a while to see what happened. However, we could... (235 words)

Why is another girl's g-string in my boyfriend's bed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7044 days ago

8 September 2005 (F) - I recently got back with my ex after a couple of years. I have only stayed at his house twice, but both times when I woke up in the morning (and he was in the shower) there was a g-string in his bed where he had been sleeping!! Now I do know that in a couple of months he is go... (133 words)

Those long, blonde hairs around the house aren't mine... so whose are they?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7044 days ago

8 September 2005 (F) - I have been in a relationship with a great guy for just over 9 months. He is often out working around the city we live in. We hardly ever have sex although I have pretty much adjusted to that. However recently I have found several long blond hairs around the house and they do ... (178 words)

Why would he rather spend time with his female friends than with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7044 days ago

8 September 2005 (F) - How can you really tell if someone is in to you? How can you tell if they are holding back or keeping distance because of them and not you? For example....The guy that I have been seeing now for a couple of months is great. We talk every day, sometimes multiple times a day, ... (118 words)

I'm terrible at oral sex, but I want to get better at it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6791 days ago

8 September 2005 (F) - I can't seem to get comfortable with giving oral sex to my partner. Actually it has happened with the only two sexual partners I've been with. I can't seem to pleasure them. I'm uncomfortable because I'm inexperienced and when I do try, I'm horrible, and they go soft in a ... (77 words)

Can I win back the husband who's fallen in love with another woman?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4991 days ago

8 September 2005 (F) - I have been with my husband for 6 years and we have generally had a happy marriage. Last night he told me he doesn't love me anymore and is in love with one of our mutual friends. He has agreed to try some counselling but says he can't continue our marriage if he doesn't love ... (83 words)

My fiance won't stand up to his family, who treat me terribly!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7044 days ago

8 September 2005 (F) - I recently got engaged to the man I have been seeing for the last year and a half. I thought things would be wonderful but I soon found myself diappointed. His family has never liked me from the get go. They are European and since I am not, they think I have "bad blood"... (296 words)