What do you think is the definition of Love?
Q. I was told this, do you believe this is love or the starting point of it. “mmmm I don’t know what the definition of love is, but it's a feeling that you get for someone. Sometimes you don’t really notice it is there. Like when the person you l...
A. 5 February 2006: Depends. Some put everything into their love for their children. Some for their partner in life. Some even prefer their pet dog or cat. I don't agree with the sentiment that there is no greater love than that for a child. If you really want to ... (read in full...)
The photos on her camera were pretty devastating. I left and haven't spoken to her in 3 days. Am I overreacting?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been in a serious relationship for 2 1/2 years now. I am going to be 30 and she is 23. We have all along talked about marriage, kids, our age difference, etc. It never really mattered. I was really careful in the 1st year ...
A. 5 February 2006: Turn your back and go. Not because of the pictures but because you are doing everything to earn a living and she has yet to grow up. Find yourself a woman with the mental capacity of more than a gnat! You deserve better.... (read in full...)
My fiance has a drinking problem, and he keeps changing his mind about getting married!
Q. I live with a man who has a drink problem and we are set to get married. I love him dearly but every few weeks he tell me that he does not want to get married and that he is moving out. This is normally after he has had a few drinks. I really d...
A. 5 February 2006: Love him AND leave him... (read in full...)
My little girl's father picks his ex over me, every time! Is it time to end things?
Q. I'm 22 and I have a baby. I've been the the father for about a year and a half, but only knew him for a couple months before I got pregnant. He's still obsessed with his ex (who sends him naked pics of herself). She does everything she can to ruin ...
A. 5 February 2006: Don't be scared to leave because he's the father of your child. He is hardly reliable is he? Just because he has a biological input into the birth of your child doesn't mean he can ruin the rest of your life. Leave him and get happiness for ... (read in full...)
Does my ex want me back?
Q. Dear Cupid, I broke up with my girlfriend just over 3 weeks ago. Basically we haven't been on speaking terms till last Friday night. We spoke on the phone and we really did click. It felt like the old days again. However I invited her to a party ...
A. 5 February 2006: What have you done to her to make her feel so unsure? Yes she likes you, but she has serious misgivings. OPnly time will tell if you are compatable. For the moment, keep trying.... (read in full...)
If we fight, we have to split up, but then my GF says she wants to be together forever. I'm confused!
Q. Short and simple. Me and my girlfriend have been fighting a lot lately. We talked it over. She says she loves me but if we get into another big fight like this, then we are going to have to split up until we are ready to get back together. Then she ...
A. 5 February 2006: Can't do better than fairy angel, except I would also say, men can be silly too.... (read in full...)
My family and friends are totally against our love! I don't want to have to choose...
Q. In October, I started cheating on my husband with this Mexican guy, Charlie. My husband and I had been having a lot of problems, and at first Charlie was just a little fling to keep my mind off things. But I ended up falling crazily in love with ...
A. 5 February 2006: You have answered your own question - you will not leave him. You are old enough to know your own mind, and I am surprised that your family and friends are so shallow that their love and friendship is based on who you live with.
Although the situ... (read in full...)
I think my husband is seeing her behind my back, even though he says he's not!
Q. Hi, I have been married for 12 long years and been with this man that I love with all of my heart for a total of 15 years all together. He began talking to a 22 year old girl that happens to be married and has a kid, that lives right across from ...
A. 5 February 2006: You know deep down that the danger signs are there. You have to clear the air and know once and for all what is going on. If he won't say anything then tell him you will speak to the girl. That should shake him out of his ego.... (read in full...)
I want her to leave her "really horrible" boyfriend for me, because he's just using her...
Q. I'm a girl and my best friend is a girl. She is bi-sexual but is in a relationship with some really horrible boy. Me and my other friends all know that he is just using her. She really likes me and has recently in the past has flirted with me a few ...
A. 5 February 2006: I wonder how young you both are? What makes you think either one of you are bi-sexual? Many youngsters have crushes on their same sex friends, I would take a guess that this is the case here. Let your friend go, she is enjoying this chap whether ... (read in full...)
She's my best friend but she can be so unreasonable and unreliable
Q. My best friend is really unreliable. She's told me loads of lies, made up a boyfriend, and said she'd snogged him, but she's never snogged anyone. When we had a new girl, my best friend totally ditched me for her. Then the new girl left and my best ...
A. 5 February 2006: Ditch this one. Believe me, the best friend is the one who sticks around when you are on top of the world. This one will only make you more and more unhappy.... (read in full...)
My Dad reckons that guys only go for girls with big boobs no matter how pretty... Is it true?!
Q. ok, I'm 15 and I am just wondering, what is it that attracts most guys to a girl in the first place? I know the whole thing about how everyone likes something different etc etc, but my stepdad says 90% of teen guys want someone with big boobs no ...
A. 5 February 2006: I thought men like your step-dad had died out with the dinosaurs. What a shame your mother married such buffoon. In fact I think your step-dad is just jealous of those young lads who will no doubt soon be wanting to take you out Put him where he ... (read in full...)
What are the signs that a guy wants to break up with you?
Q. What are some signs that a guy wants to break up with you? (What if he is scared to?) ...
A. 3 February 2006: We can all be afraid of facing the truth. That is what may be called being scared to end a relationship. Unless you are threatening someone, blackmailing them or forcing them to stay with you, the only fear would be from emotional fall-out. If ... (read in full...)
He stared at the 2 buxom girls and later admitted he loves big breasts! I am very upset..what should I do?
Q. i have been with my partner for a year now every thing was good we trusted eash other very much, one night we went out and 2 girls were there with big boobs and very low tops he spent all night staring at them, when asked about it he denied it. a ...
A. 3 February 2006: Oh come on. You are a woman. You have a brain. Just let him know how you just ADORE tall men with big biceps. Or if he has them, how you ADORE short skinny blokes with no hair. Whatever he has, ADORE the opposite.... (read in full...)
My wife and I need to end our obssessions with each other's pasts! How do we do this?
Q. My wife and I are obsessed with our sexual pasts. I have answered questions that have her very sick with thoughts of me with other woman. I only give her the information because she asks and wants to know details at times. (she says it make her cope ...
A. 3 February 2006: First off, convince your wife that you are no Lothario nor Adonis. Unless you are Brad Pitt or George Clooney you really are just a very ordinary chap who had a few flings. I can only think there is something in your behaviour that is making her ... (read in full...)
My wife and I need to end our obssessions with each other's pasts! How do we do this?
Q. My wife and I are obsessed with our sexual pasts. I have answered questions that have her very sick with thoughts of me with other woman. I only give her the information because she asks and wants to know details at times. (she says it make her cope ...
A. 3 February 2006: First off, convince your wife that you are no Lothario nor Adonis. Unless you are Brad Pitt or George Clooney you really are just a very ordinary chap who had a few flings. I can only think there is something in your behaviour that is making her ... (read in full...)
How do I get over a guy when he's constantly around me? I need some good advice.
Q. Is it really possible for a guy to be truly in love and yet want to end a relationship? Or does his decision to end the relationship invariably mean that he just doesn't care about her enough? My ex isn't a liar - he won't say something that i...
A. 3 February 2006: You already know the answer. Deep down, you know. You know you need to get away, ditch him and find someone who will love and cherish you.
Go out there and grab life, take it by the throat and enjoy yourself. Dump the failure, get yourself... (read in full...)
We're "too old" to hold hands, he doesn't help clean, he doesn't cook. It's like living with a lodger!
Q. I am in a long term relationship of almost 11 years, I love the guy very much, more than I can actually put into words. When we first met, the relationship was really great, over the last couple of years, he just won't do anything. He works ni...
A. 29 January 2006: So what makes you say you love him? You have been together for 11 years - now he doesn't hold hands. Are you both just a habit for each other?
This guy just doesn't appreciate you. Try some feminine wiles. Cook an awful meal, stick to the same... (read in full...)
My sister won't leave off about my friendship with a man. We're all adults and I think she's obsessing!
Q. I am after some advice about my sister’s behaviour (she is 28) which I find unacceptable. A male friend (from childhood) and I have recently got back in contact after around 12 years. I am early 30’s and he is early 20’s. We are good friends, ...
A. 29 January 2006: Oh dear, sibling rivalry is an ugly thing. Your poor sister is obviously very jealous of your new relationship. Whatever the nature of your relationship with your guy, it is no business of your sister. There is nothing sordid in having sex with ... (read in full...)
What should I do with my life? Something sensible, something I'm good at? Or something I love?
Q. I realise this ain't a normal relationship question..etc.. but I need help. I am so confused. I am transtioning into Sixthform in August and am confused of what to do with my life. I did want to be a games designer, but found out it wasn't for me...
A. 29 January 2006: You may only be young once, but you need to earn your living and enjoy yourself at your work.
To thine own self be true, don't try and prove anything to others. Consider if you have the talent and more importantly the drive to take up acting a... (read in full...)
We're still just friends-but I want more from him! Do I tell him what I'm feeling?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have a problem figuring out this guy. I can't figure him out at all! When we first met we clicked so quickly. Slowly we started going out together as friends doing various things together. I could not help myself waiting for him ...
A. 29 January 2006: I wonder how old you are? Maybe he isn't interested in anything more. He could also be gay. If you want more, then go for someone with more spirit and who really appreciates a real woman.... (read in full...)
We're still just friends-but I want more from him! Do I tell him what I'm feeling?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have a problem figuring out this guy. I can't figure him out at all! When we first met we clicked so quickly. Slowly we started going out together as friends doing various things together. I could not help myself waiting for him ...
A. 29 January 2006: I wonder how old you are? Maybe he isn't interested in anything more. He could also be gay. If you want more, then go for someone with more spirit and who really appreciates a real woman.... (read in full...)
It's too late to go out with my sister's best friend. Is there anything I can do?
Q. Hi. I really like my sister's best friend and she would have gone out with me had she know I liked her, and now she has a boy friend. What do I do? Thanks...
A. 29 January 2006: All is fair in love and war, so ask her out. Make sure you like her enough though as it might be a case of what you cannot have makes it more attractive. She'll make up her own mind.... (read in full...)
Am I cheating? Can I stop this without anyone getting hurt?
Q. This is a twister... My girlfriend and I broke up sort of, and we never spoke for approx three weeks. In those three weeks a friend of my cousin's stayed at my house. This friend is my age. In this time we got to know each other etc and she was ...
A. 29 January 2006: Why feel guilty? Behave just like every other creep - lie!... (read in full...)
We dated for a couple of months, but he asked someone ELSE to the prom!
Q. Dear Cupid, I like this boy and we were dating for a month or two. He had said that he had feelings for me. He then, instead of asking me, asked another girl to the prom. I felt like it didn't even matter to him that he hurt me. I was mad, but...
A. 29 January 2006: With reference to the reply beneath the time has long past when you need to tell him anything. He treated you badly, very very badly. Do not under any circumstances tell him how you feel. He wasn't interested in you enough to ask you to the ... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant with my divorced, older-man's baby. Now I've seen him in town with his ex-wife...
Q. I have been secretly seeing someone that is 10 years older than me. We have been together for almost 9 months now. He has been married and has a child. He told me that I was his only one. He said that him and his wife were divorced and I should feel ...
A. 29 January 2006: Tell this guy about your pregnancy but I would confront him first with the 'toehr woman'. It might be innocent.
If it isn't, screw him for every penny you can get and don't get pregnant again. Simple!... (read in full...)
Should I try to flirt with my teacher to get him interested in me?
Q. Well I'm having a problem right now. I like my teacher. He's 23 yrs old and I'm only 15. The thing is that I wanna have something with him but I understand it's gonna be hard because he has a girlfriend and he's engaged. Every time I see him I just ...
A. 29 January 2006: Oh come on. This guy is engaged to be married so what would he really want with a fifteen year old youth.
Get out a bit and learn about life. Get your own boyfriend and most of all, grow up.... (read in full...)
Haven't told her how I feel, and now she and her boyfriend are about to have sex. Anything I can do?
Q. Hey, I really really like this chick and I haven't really gathered the courage to tell her how I feel. I think she feels the same way. I found out recently she and her new boyfriend are going to have sex! Should I just let my feelings slip away or ...
A. 29 January 2006: Am I alone is finding your claim that the 'chick' and her boyfriend are 'going to have sex'? What happened? did they advertise it in a paper? Hired an airplane and flew a banner announcing the fact? Put a notice on the college noticeboard?
... (read in full...)
I left my wife and kids...and now they won't talk to me! How do I sort this out?
Q. I am leaving a very unhappy marriage after many years which was very unemotional. I moved out of the family home a few months ago, but have not had the kids staying at my house. I spend all weekend and many nights at the old martial home. I am try...
A. 29 January 2006: Hi,
Your message is a little confused. Do you stay a few nights and the weekends with your wife and children?
With any kind of grief, time is a healer. You need time to let your wife calm down although it may be a very long time before your... (read in full...)
I have a month to get over my ex, before I have to see him with his new girlfriend!
Q. I need some tips on to get over an ex fast! I'm still madly in love with the guy I was with at uni. I haven't even seen him for about 6 months but have loved him and only him for almost 3 years and part of me still hopes that later on in life (wh...
A. 26 December 2005: It may not seem like it now but you will be fully in control by the time you see your ex. Totally ignore him and his girlfriend, after all, he may well be trying to gauge your feelings. Good luck... (read in full...)
She 180's on me when one other guy friend is around-I'm trying to figure!
Q. Hi...great girl I'm after at her work (bar-restaurant) suddenly quits the play with me after another guy showed up. Immediate the distancing began- and on a dime. It was very strange because our back and forth is usually a whole lot of s...
A. 26 December 2005: If she wanted to play, she would whether this guy was around or not. Face it, she isn't interested. Get someone else who knows more about chemistry.... (read in full...)
Slept with my boss at a Xmas do. I'm not sorry, but I think he might be...
Q. Hi merry xmas! Here's another question you have probo heard before. Basically I'm 21, had my works xmas do and slept with one of my bosses. There was pure chemistry there. He's a lot lot older than me but now I'm really worried about going back...
A. 26 December 2005: We all do things we regret - a lot of guys like this are rubbish. You made a mistake, live with it and totally ignore him in future. Above all, blame yourself for nothing!... (read in full...)
Am I hypervigilant about the behaviours of my new boyfriend?
Q. Hi--I was just wondering if there was a way one could tell whether you were taking things too seriously or not? Sometimes I get offended by things my bf does and I tell him so and I'm not sure if I make too big a deal out of it but sometimes he ...
A. 26 December 2005: If your Dr Jeykell turns into Mr Hyde, then start to worry. Until then, enjoy your times with him and forget the ex.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's mum is trying to destroy our relationship!
Q. My boyfriend and I are really close, but he is older then me. His mom dislikes me and tries to mess with our relationship constantly. He is really sweet and I have no doubt he loves me, and I love him back, but his mom leaves threatning voicemails ...
A. 26 December 2005: Why feel you have to do something? If this guy is older than you and knows what his mother is doing, why isn't he doing something about her?
Unless he does something about her harrassing you, then ditch him as he proves himself to be Mummy's ... (read in full...)
My husband's porn addiction is out of control...
Q. After being maried for only two years, I recently found that my husband is addicted to porn. He will sneak and watch it when I am gone, while he is watching his mother's house and the list goes on. He constantly says he has no money but when I go ...
A. 26 December 2005: You could spend your whole life being reasonable to this guy. Either get him to see a counsellor or get yourself someone who wants real women and not paper girlies.... (read in full...)
He seems perfect and our ages aren't an issue to us. Should they be?
Q. I am 15 and my boyfriend is 21. We started going out and we really didn't ask the whole age question. We got really close and that's when I asked him how old he was. We had sex but I told him I would rather wait because it is safer. He respects that ...
A. 26 December 2005: Just how long have you two been going out? Get some experience of life before you commit yourself to any one person.
I think you are fooling yourself that this guy is now a changed person. Only time can tell you if it is OK.... (read in full...)
There's this one woman... I can't talk to her because I'm so nervous, so how can I get around to kissing her?
Q. There is this women I like. She's a friend of one of my co-workers, and well, we have gotten off to a good start, and usually I'm very comfortable around people and can carry a conversation with a man or woman, but around her I get nervous and it ...
A. 26 December 2005: DON'T kiss her until you go on the date. Tell her firstly you are a bit tongue-tied, then ask her out. One thing at a time.... (read in full...)
What signs are there in that you can spot to see if a person fancies you or not?
Q. Hi I am wondering if someone could help me here, and if they can i'd be very thankful. There's this girl i know, i like her alot, she knows how i feel for her through a friend, we've never talked about it and i'm not really comfortable with...
A. 24 December 2005: Faint heart never won fair lady and all that. Get a grip man! Ask her out!... (read in full...)
What signs are there in that you can spot to see if a person fancies you or not?
Q. Hi I am wondering if someone could help me here, and if they can i'd be very thankful. There's this girl i know, i like her alot, she knows how i feel for her through a friend, we've never talked about it and i'm not really comfortable with...
A. 24 December 2005: Faint heart never won fair lady and all that. Get a grip man! Ask her out!... (read in full...)
What signs are there in that you can spot to see if a person fancies you or not?
Q. Hi I am wondering if someone could help me here, and if they can i'd be very thankful. There's this girl i know, i like her alot, she knows how i feel for her through a friend, we've never talked about it and i'm not really comfortable with...
A. 24 December 2005: Faint heart never won fair lady and all that. Get a grip man! Ask her out!... (read in full...)
What signs are there in that you can spot to see if a person fancies you or not?
Q. Hi I am wondering if someone could help me here, and if they can i'd be very thankful. There's this girl i know, i like her alot, she knows how i feel for her through a friend, we've never talked about it and i'm not really comfortable with...
A. 24 December 2005: Faint heart never won fair lady and all that. Get a grip man! Ask her out!... (read in full...)
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