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writes: i have been with my partner for a year now every thing was good we trusted eash other very much, one night we went out and 2 girls were there with big boobs and very low tops he spent all night staring at them, when asked about it he denied it. a few days later he admitted it also telling me he thought about getting his hands on them and found them attractive and was slightly turned on, he has also looked at other girls telling me they are fit. he says he loves me and doesnt want any one else but how can he do this to me and really love. i now dont trust him and dont believe any thing he says what should i do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2007): Have you considred going back to that place to find those those/other buxom girls and may be asking them to join the two of you. We, men love big boobs, no secret! I've been with upto 3 girls and it's FUN! You'll enjoy it too, believe me!
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reader, mystify +, writes (25 March 2006):
 you dont have to put up with that!, not all men do it , i know men that dont, he is not respecting you .
not to mention how uncomfortable he is probably making the other women feel!
i personnally would instantly dump anyone who would stand next to me and make a fool out of me in such a blatent way!
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reader, Rhia +, writes (25 March 2006):
There are a few things you could do but the choices are up to you. 1. get a boob job 2. tell him that he's making you upset 3. dump him
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2006): He's not worth it. All the guys in my past who have loved me droped the temptation. If he truely loves you his temptation of other girls should last just a moment! 2 of my exes couldn't even get off with me on my mind. Also, What I've done to a guy who was like that, was look at other guys when I'm with him so he knows how it feels or talk about other guys and say how they're so sweet!
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reader, Danielle934 +, writes (10 February 2006):
 If he really loves you then he would consider your feelings and not stare at other women. Although some guys dont know when they are staring, so I suggest next time you notice him staring to remind him right then that what he is doing is hurting you, and if he continues then, you can either leave him, or you can make him jealous. Even if you dont particularly have an eye for another guy, then pretend to be compleatly aroused by the next good looking guy you see. I gaurantee you he will get jealous as long as you pretend not to notice that he notices you are looking... most guys are very jealous, they just cant help it!
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reader, Bev Conolly  +, writes (4 February 2006):
 Well, I don't advocate playing games with people. For a start, it's underhanded and a very indirect way of making a point, but more importantly, many people are too stupid to know that a game is being played. Any man who'd be so thunderingly moronic as to tell you that he's "turned on" by looking at other girls' boobs is close to being too stupid to understand a mind-game. So don't bother with that.
If this guy is worth staying with -- think about all his good traits, then balance that with the things you don't like -- then simply point out his boorish manners when he does things like this. Do it in good grace, with a sense of humour. Cut him some slack but give him a chance to smarten up.
"Hey, sweetie. Can I get you a mop for that puddle of drool?"
"Hello? I'm over here, not talking to you from that girl's boob tube."
Et cetera.
He already knows that you don't like it; if you point out the recurrent breaches to him when they occur, he can learn not to be so overt about it (remember that guys don't stop looking... they just like to look), so he doesn't offend you quite so often.
If he doesn't appear to care about whether you mind or not, and continues with the ogling, well that's a different kettle of fish. In that case, I'd let him know he can ogle away, since you're going to be somewhere else.
Take care!
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reader, shania  +, writes (3 February 2006):
 While its ok to look,he is showing you no respect for you by oggling other women with his tongue hanging out of his mouth.Of course its human nature to look at the opposite sex but he is just rubbing your nose in it....for a start he didnt have to tell you that he wanted to touch them and that he was turned on by them...thats just being cruel.I think you should give him the taste of his own medicine and start drooling over other fellas or dump the stupid bloke.Personally i would be completly turned off by his cheap remarks and maybe think whether you want to stay with a insensitive man such as him?
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reader, Virginiaac +, writes (3 February 2006):
Oh come on. You are a woman. You have a brain. Just let him know how you just ADORE tall men with big biceps. Or if he has them, how you ADORE short skinny blokes with no hair. Whatever he has, ADORE the opposite.
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