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writes: I'm a girl and my best friend is a girl. She is bi-sexual but is in a relationship with some really horrible boy. Me and my other friends all know that he is just using her. She really likes me and has recently in the past has flirted with me a few times, but I am really in love with her and I want to know how to get her to fall for me instead of her ending up getting hurt!
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reader, Virginiaac +, writes (5 February 2006):
I wonder how young you both are? What makes you think either one of you are bi-sexual? Many youngsters have crushes on their same sex friends, I would take a guess that this is the case here. Let your friend go, she is enjoying this chap whether or not you approve. Time for you both to move on.
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reader, mommyofthree +, writes (5 February 2006):
 I know it is tough to watch a friend go through a really bad relationship, everyone knows they will get hurt except the person that really needs to know it. It is even harder to accept that though your intentions are good trying to break them up will only make her want to be with him more. When she keeps having to defend him to all her friends, she will start to believe all of the posotive things she says about him and start forgetting all of his negatives. Unfortunately, there is no sure fire way to make someone love you, but the best relationships often start off as really strong friendships, so your already on your way with her. Let her know that you are there for her, and if this guy breaks her heart be her shoulder to cry on. If she knows now that she can count on you, she will remember that in the future. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2006): if you have really fallen in love with her you should express your thoughts and feelings with her tell her that you really care for her and you don't want her to get her
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