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writes: Dear Cupid,I have a problem figuring out this guy. I can't figure him out at all! When we first met we clicked so quickly. Slowly we started going out together as friends doing various things together. I could not help myself waiting for him to become more intimate so I took the initiative and told him I liked him (not as a friend. (he did not give me any clear answer to that) There was no obvious reaction we kept on getting closer. But we re still JUST friends. I m sure he likes me I turn him on but I don't know why doesn't he want us to hook up?? I m so fond of him and don't want to waste our time playing games. And if I confront him he has a way of not answering. Any suggestions ... Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2006): Since you have told him i think you should just try being his freind for now. He will show you if he has changed his mind I'm sure. It's never a good situation, but it sounds like there is hope still for the two of you. Don't pin all your hopes on this guy though as there is the possibility he just wants freindship. Can you just be his freind? because if not it wouldn't be a very stable base for a relationship anyway. If I were you I'd show you are still interested in him but perhaps let other people in too. All the best
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2006): dats happnin 2 me iv told her how i feel and it blew up in my face she was rely annoyed with me and now she aint talkn 2 me i think u should tell him though then you will know how he feels gd luck
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reader, Virginiaac +, writes (29 January 2006):
I wonder how old you are? Maybe he isn't interested in anything more. He could also be gay. If you want more, then go for someone with more spirit and who really appreciates a real woman.
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reader, Virginiaac +, writes (29 January 2006):
I wonder how old you are? Maybe he isn't interested in anything more. He could also be gay. If you want more, then go for someone with more spirit and who really appreciates a real woman.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2006): I guess i could be classed as the same as him. He is shy, i know it might be a drag but you might have to wait out a little longer than you thought. But if he is anything like me then it will be worth it. If he really likes you then you will not have to worry about him going behind your back, becuase mabie he is not good with girls and dosen't know much. And trust me if things go well between you two he will look after you and treat you right, you are with the right type of guy here. Good luck.
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reader, shania  +, writes (28 January 2006):
 It might be a number of things.He might just want to be good friends and nothing more although i am puzzled that he didnt answer you when you told him how you felt...could be he is shy.Saying that....you said that you two are getting closer so the signs are promising.Personally i would sit down and talk to him again and this time,ask him if he wants to take things another step further,if you still dont get a proper response then im afraid you have your answer all ready.Good luck.
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