Been sleeping with my friends father. What do you think I should do?
Q. Hi cupid, I am in a really hard situation. ok my best friend and I are really close we do everything together. I am 16 and she is 17. I really don't have much of a family of my own my dad left us and my mum spends more time at the pub getting ...
A. 17 September 2014: My advice to you, would be to concentrate on your English skills. Get tutoring if you must. ... (read in full...)
My friend uses guys for sex and sperm to have their kids. She then purposefully drives them away!
Q. Please forgive me for the length of this letter. I have been friends with this girl for almost 6 years. She used to be so awesone, sweet, positive, energetic and excited about life, and now she is the complete opposite of all that. Let me tell...
A. 16 November 2012: I would say find another friend. It is not good for your health to be around negative people. ... (read in full...)
His brother was heavily flirty with me and I don't know how to take this... help!
Q. Hey guys, just looking for a bit of advice. I met my boyfriend's brother for the first time 2 weeks ago and it was all going great. We played around a bit and joked how I met the wrong brother first... All in fun though, not serious. He started ...
A. 11 November 2012: I would leave both the brothers and try to find someone from a non-dysfunctional family. ... (read in full...)
Do you think a girl that sleeps with every boyfriend is a whore?
Q. Hi!! The other day I was talking to my mom, and somehow she ended up telling me how she thinks that a girl that sleeps with all of her boyfriends is a whore. She didn't say strangers, or guys you have only known for a week or so, she meant real rel...
A. 11 November 2012: With all due respect , your mother needs a vocabulary lesson. A whore is someone that compromises personal values for financial or material gain. Those values are usually sexual but can be other things as well. The word your mother is looking for is ... (read in full...)
I'm so sick of what my friend has become!
Q. ok so I have this friend. She's 20 and I'm 23... We met first day of college and we've been sort of best friends ever since. But lately our friendship has been a bit rocky ... From the begining it was obvious we were opposites. She's all smiles and ...
A. 10 November 2012: I do not think you are overreacting. You may not believe this but I think she is actually jealous of you and the fact you have things real. You can communicate why you do not want to hang with her anymore but my guess is that she wont change who she ... (read in full...)
How do you kiss a girl?
Q. There is this girl that I have been going out with for a while and I haven't kissed her yet. It's not that I don't want to kiss her, it's just that I have never kissed a girl before. People say that it just comes to you, but things like this don't ...
A. 8 November 2012: Buy her a rose. They are usually like 2 or 3 bucks at a convenience store. Even at your age, it should be affordable. Go to the place you have in mind, giving her the rose. Compliment her and tell her you would like to kiss her. Believe me you will ... (read in full...)
Why does she always ditch me?
Q. I met this girl during the summer and we dated for a while, never official because she wasn't ready for a relationship. She liked me alot and she always told me, but I wasn't good at showing her how I felt because I was scared of getting hurt again. ...
A. 6 November 2012: You are too nice. Plain and simple. You will probably never recover enough to have this particular lady want you in a romantic way. The good news is that you are still very young and you can learn from this negative experience. It is ok to be nice, ... (read in full...)
B/f and I broke up got back together and he lied and told me that there had not been anyone else!
Q. Dear Cupid, My boyfriend and I broke up for a couple of months. We got back together and at the time I only let him back because he said he had not been with any other woman. I have since found out that he spent a week during our seperation with ...
A. 6 November 2012: To just give a sex partner 3000 bucks does not seem like a wise decision. Even if you were to work things out, that should be a huge red flag. Money is the main reason people break up. This guy is no good. Find someone else.... (read in full...)
Why does my boyfriend never spend the night?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. We were both in other relationships when we met meaning we were having an affair and broke up with them to be together. Its been 10 months since I moved into my apartment with my mum. My boyfriend spends ...
A. 6 November 2012: Your last line says it all. Those may only be 2 issues but they are big issues. There is a dynamic going with his living arrangement and his family that he is embarassed to tell you. Communicate always seems to be my answer and in this case no ... (read in full...)
I don't think he wants to be more than friends so am I doing the right thing by keeping my feelings to myself?
Q. Ive been BFF with this amazing guy! He may have his flaws but he is perfect to me. He calls me wifey n I call him my hubby bc we do everything together; grocery shopping, to weddings, to parties, etc. Hes a fun single guy who had had his heart ...
A. 6 November 2012: One word Communicate. ... (read in full...)
What would you consider early warning signs of a controlling man?
Q. Hi, What would you consider early warning signs if a controlling man? My boyfriend of 10 months as shown a few signs but I'm not sure if I'm over thinking. He doesn't like me wearing make up, accused me of wearing clear tights so other people wou...
A. 5 November 2012: I would seriously consider ending it. I have ended things right away with women with unprovoked putdowns. Negativity is never a good thing. One should feel good in a relationship not bad. ... (read in full...)
Already spent 1000 dollars to help the man I love to come to visit me and now he's asking me to take a big loan for him
Q. Hello to all, When I went to china recently for a training course, I met a guy. I thought that our relationship would be only brief but he told me that he wants me to know that it was not only about getting some fun for him but he has feelings...
A. 4 November 2012: Oh no. Why do women do this? Are you kidding? A real man would not ask for money. You should have seen this coming. Never give anyone money. It is a recipe for disaster. The best advice I can give you is to learn from this mistake and never do it ... (read in full...)
Beneficial friendships
Q. I prefer having sexual friendships with long time female friends over having a relationship with a woman say from a dating site or met through friends. I had a long time friend who's married to a drunk beg me for sex. I have to say it was some of ...
A. 3 November 2012: Assuming your story is true. I do not understand how a 'friend' would be as evil as you are to these men. I would like to give advice but you seem like someone who is a sociopath that does not have concern for fellow human beings. I truly hope your ... (read in full...)
Does my wife want me back?
Q. I was married to my wife for over 20 years. She walked out on me 4 years ago.We haven't divorced and we have 2 college daughters. After she walked out we didn't talk for over 2 years.I started forcing divorce on her, she's been a liar and a cheater ...
A. 3 November 2012: First of all, I really feel for your plight . That said, My suggestion would be to communicate how you feel and try to establish at the very least a cordial relationship, which you seem to have. Do this for the sake of your children. If you ... (read in full...)
Is this normal that my persistent 45 year old Ex is chasing after me after a month of silence?
Q. Dear all. Your thoughts please! In brief, My bf and i have had a rather hard work relationship. We were together for 16 months. Things got worse,and he kept ignoring me for up to 3 wks at a time. In the end he said it was ok. I was like,ok. Th...
A. 3 November 2012: I think he was with another woman and for whatever reason things did not work out and now he is trying to fall back on you. It is just my opinion. I would move on. ... (read in full...)
My friend/partner took advantage of us while they were housesitting!
Q. My husband, son and I went on holiday last month for 2 weeks to a family wedding abroad. Usually when we go away my mum has a spare set of keys and comes to check on the house etc... However this time she was coming with us so my friend and her ...
A. 28 October 2012: Sad to say you can not trust anyone. I had a gf once and I left her in my house alone and money was stolen and other things , like books and stamps etc. Needless to say this killed our relationship. I have also had a cleaning lady steal from me . ... (read in full...)
I have the hots for my sister's husband!
Q. I am 36 F. I know what I think is wrong. but it is difficult for me to stand this. I think it is due to I am Pisces and he is Scorpio by Sun sign. I am interested in my younger sister's husband. We flirts and he calls me to talk personally. I feel h...
A. 27 October 2012: The fact you base your life on horoscopes tells me all I need to know. You are not bounded in reality but in unproven external influences. You seem very selfish that does not have a logical bone in your body. My suggestion would be to find yourself ... (read in full...)
He's been an idiot to me. And now he's asking me what I'll name my children? is he just messing with me?
Q. I have history with a guy I've known since I was three. He's the same age as me, (15/16) and he's been a bit of a pain to me. He's messed with my feeling, said he liked me when he didn't, kissed me and used me. I've loved him for three years ...
A. 26 October 2012: Move on. People that abuse others verbally unprovoked , have psychological problems. Learn from this and avoid negative people and you will live a much happier life. ... (read in full...)
What can I do? I feel embarrassed about how to approach a guy I used when we went on holidays together
Q. I've done something so terrible and feeling bad about it. I went on a trip with a guy in summer and there i was mourning and crying about my ex all the time and he comforted me and was there for me instead of being mad at me he was being a good...
A. 26 October 2012: Offer to take him out to dinner as a thank you for all he did for you. ... (read in full...)
For the last 2 years my husband doesn't touch me
Q. I've been with my husbend for 12 years now but it's been in the last 2 or 3 years he dont want to touch me or have sex with me anymore I know he's not cheating so pleas help me under stand why or if thare is something Wong with me...
A. 24 October 2012: Men sometimes disrespect a huge weight gain. I do not know if that is the case but it could be. Weight gain could be telling your man that you do not care about him enough to at least be in somewhat good shape. A few lbs might be ok, but a big ... (read in full...)
I'm jealous that his 16 year old daughter is pregnant!
Q. Ok I know this is going to generate negative responses but here goes. My longtime baby daddy just informed me that his 16 yr old is 5 months pregnant. One, I can't shake off that he waited 5 months to tell me and second, I can't help but to feel ...
A. 23 October 2012: This is a very dysfunctional family. You have allowed yourself to be disrespected and tolerated and even harbored a guy who is really just using you as a convenient sex object. You need to recollect some self esteem and move onto a differen... (read in full...)
After a month of pursuing me he suddenly just disappears?
Q. Hey if anyone could just give a bit of insight that would be great. Sorry this is probably gonna be long but bare with :) I met this guy very casual he saw me where i worked, never talked just looks this went on for about three month he even...
A. 23 October 2012: You are a woman. You should not be giving it away so easy. I would suggest you work on your self esteem issues and you will be in a much better position to handle situations with men. Good luck. ... (read in full...)
We have been secretly dating for 6 months and our anniversary is coming up?
Q. He and I have been a couple for 6 months now, none of our friends, family members, acquaintances, teachers or anybody knowing. We have kept it a secret between the two of us because his friends would NEVER approve of me and our relationship. If you ...
A. 19 October 2012: It is 2012. You guys must just not care what others think and evolve this relationship to outisde quarters. ... (read in full...)
I get on really well with my boss. Why doesn't he make a move? Should I make the move?
Q. I get on with my boss ridiculously well, we are completely on the same wavelength, both in our twenties and both single. For around 6 months we have been flirty in work (I usually only work with him on a weekend) and he often remarks that he think...
A. 17 October 2012: You are subconsciously enamored with his power over you, being he is your boss. It is not a good idea that an employee subordinate gets involved with their superior. Your boss is very wise.... (read in full...)
I think my younger friend is trying to let me down gently. How can I expand my circle of friends?
Q. Hi I am 61 and had a crush on a fellow half my age -and we became platonic friends and e mailed occasionally and WHEN he came to the city we met for a coffee or lunch which I always paid for-he did offer though. He is a singer and no qualms abou...
A. 16 October 2012: If there is ever a time to try and meet people, this is it. Go to meetup.com and find groups of things you like to do. Groups can range from singles of any specific age type or none at all to restaurants, fishing, reading , whatever. I would suggest ... (read in full...)
Is my Gf into a new guy? I'm not a jealous guy, but something is not right. Any suggestions to resolve this please?
Q. I know this may sound bad but I think that my girlfriend is into some other guy. They always seem to be laughing and having the time of their lives (which I do not mind) but it seems like there is something else between them. She has recently been ...
A. 16 October 2012: Communicate your feelings and intuition to your gf. ... (read in full...)
I got too sexual with my flirty texts, now she doesn't want to know me.
Q. hi, I really like this beautiful young lady that goes to my church and she has told me that she likes me also .The problem that I have is we have been talking to each other and texting other for the 4 or 5 months and everything has ...
A. 15 October 2012: Helllllllllo. Has the ritual of asking this lady on a date , ever come to mind. Common sense? You text and text and text some more, and it does not occur to you , to ask her on a date. ... (read in full...)
Is be making fun of me by calling me sexy? He's making me feel insecure
Q. I like this guy and we've known each other for two years, but we've only been friends for a month. Anyway, he keeps calling me sexy. And it makes me feel insecure since I know I'm not hot. Like, I'm not skinny and I don't have big boobs. I'm n...
A. 14 October 2012: I am going to give you my answer and you probably wont like it. Many men are not so nice. They prey on people with low self esteem , to try and get a score. Be wary of this. ... (read in full...)
Found a 'sext' on my wife's phone
Q. My wife and I have a wonderful relationship...but I do work a lot and she wishes she had more attention. Anyway a friend of mine recently friend requested her on facebook and I guess began chatting with her. I came home the other night and wa...
A. 12 October 2012: One word... Communicate. ... (read in full...)
Should I stick with this guy who gave me an STD and who has another girlfriend? I want a husband and family!
Q. I started dating a guy I knew for a while after two years of losing my fiance' to cancer. I'm 35 years old and he died when I was 32 going on 33. I didn't become intimate with him until about 4 months into our dating. Anyway, this guy a lot has gone ...
A. 11 October 2012: Leave this guy if you have any pride. Even if you 'win' him, he is a serial cheater . You have to wonder what kind of women he is desperate to bed when he gets herpes. I feel for you and understand that the Herpes thing will limit your choices. I do ... (read in full...)
He's too "nice" for me and it's a turn off.
Q. I have been seeing this really nice guy for the past 4 months. His "niceness" is starting to bother me, in that I find him to be not as masculine as I'd like him to be. He is the type who always has a smile on his face, who is always polite, ...
A. 9 October 2012: I consider myself nice but not phony nice. Seems to me you are describing phony nice. Men and women are turned off to that sort of thing. ... (read in full...)
I am not interested in this 50 year old married man at work. So how do I discourage him effectively? And before he gets any more ideas please.
Q. Recently a married man at work has been flirting with me and jokingly we bantered, but nothing serious to start with as I am 22 and he 50, but in the past 3 months he's started heavily flirting to the point people have started commenting on it! F...
A. 8 October 2012: Tell the POS , that if he makes suggestive comments to you again you will tell your boss and that it is sexual harassment. ... (read in full...)
I don't want to be with cheating b/f let alone have sex with him!
Q. My bf has stepped out on me, more than once, and engaged in sexual activity with these women. I’ve attempted to leave the relationship, but he refuses to let me go, telling me that I am the one he really loves and wants to be with and wants a ...
A. 7 October 2012: Leave and tell him you will call the police if he stalks you. Sounds like a real insecure contrl freak that thinks he can have it all. ... (read in full...)
We have to "like" everything posted in the company Facebook group or get our paycheck deducted. But I was deleted from the group!
Q. I posted here last week. I'm quitting a part time job that requires a one month notice and I have about 2.5 weeks left at this job. We recently signed a notice that says we have to "like" all notices posted on the employee Facebook group or we will ...
A. 27 September 2012: I would see an attorney. There are minimum wage laws. By the way, what if you are not on FB, what can they do? ... (read in full...)
My married lover has moved on to another girl and I am so hurt, what should I do now?
Q. I have been cheated by my married Lover, he has moved on to a "new girl"(another victim).he has completely removed me from his life,We both are in the same office, spend 8 hrs together, sitting besides each other, but we dont speak at all. he cut ...
A. 27 September 2012: I have no sympathy for you lady. How dare you sleep with a married man and then play the victim card. You reap what you sow . You are a poor excuse for a human being and what about the mans kids. If I were you , I would tell the guys wife. That ... (read in full...)
My Co-worker has a Gf but keeps on winking at me. I'm interested, but how should I indicate that? Or could I be mistaking his intentions?
Q. I have a coworker that has been winking at me for sometime. I didnt really pay it any attention at first because I thought that he was just friendly. However,I really noticed it this last time when he winked really slow and pointed his finger at me ...
A. 12 September 2012: My advice is to stay away. Not just for moral reasons but to protect yourself emotionally. At your age you should know what people like this are about. Obviously , he is deceiving his gf and if he is just flirting You can embarass yourself. Fu... (read in full...)
Why can my boyfriend only go about 2" inside of me?
Q. My boyfriend and I had sex the second time last week. We have done it before but he has never penetrated my vagina. Well last week we tried it for the first time. First time he went in about 2 inches but it hurt me really badly like there was ...
A. 11 September 2012: Try using vaseline or vaginal jelly. ... (read in full...)
B/f cheated, got her pregnant but says he loves me more. What do I do?
Q. my boyfriend of 3years cheated on me for 3monthes with a girl much younger than me and even got her pregnant. i found out recently from the girl her self. i asked him but at first he was denying later on he told me the truth but he says he loves me ...
A. 5 September 2012: You are not going to believe this but you are lucky. Think about it. If you got married and worse yet had a family with this scumbag and he impregnated another lady; you would be pretty much in a worse situation, not just emotionally but financially ... (read in full...)
My Friend Is Obsessed with Copying everything I do!
Q. i feel like my best friend is envious of me. she copies everything i do. for example i decided to redo my room i painted it and got some new decorations for my room. she goes and paints her room and puts the exact same decoration. everything i have ...
A. 28 August 2012: Imitation is the best form of flattery. ... (read in full...)
Booty is one thing. But were this man's actions disrespectful and selfish?
Q. I met a guy who I slept with the first night. I regreted it the next day and didn't think I'd hear from him again. He works 2 weeks on 1 week off and has been texting me, asking me how I am etc and whether I wanted to catch up when he came back. W...
A. 25 August 2012: I think you need to work on your self esteem. ... (read in full...)
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