Worried my weight will be a turn off
Q. Im a 24 y/o female and recently got into a relationship with a 32 y/o guy. I really like him alot and want this to work out really bad. Problem is I'm worried that my weight will be a turn off, plus I've only ever been with one other guy and I ...
A. 21 March 2011: listen, hes older he wwants to settle down i dont think hes looking to fool around, so dont worry. he clearly chose you as a great person to spend his time with and so you are. dont feel insecure. ... (read in full...)
Am I dealing with a sociopath?
Q. First, to anyone who may read this I hope your holidays are going great...also want to thank everyone who answered my question last week regarding the same person...it was very very helpful. My question now is am I dealing with a true sociopath...
A. 26 December 2010: well do not label her as a sociopath. Does it ever occur to you that you barely know her, and she has already met your mother!!! thats just too much, no matter how old you are. So do i think she's a sociopath, from studying psychology, NO. i think ... (read in full...)
Should we break up or get hitched?
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been dating a while now about a year and we were both obese and I got really fit and joined the army, now im back on leave and she wants to get married in the next week but I dont feel attracted to her anymore, she doesnt ...
A. 26 December 2010: youre 21....you have another 3-4 yrs to find the one. take it easy. ... (read in full...)
First Christmas without my ex here and I am about to lose it.. how can I stop this depression?
Q. It's my first Christmas since my boyfriend and I broke up and I am just about to lose it. This has been the worst break-up I have ever had. I have lost myself and feel like I have nothing left and all these holidays are making it so much worse... ...
A. 25 December 2010: you know, holidays are holidays, who cares who is doing what with whom. You enjoy the day for yourself, you are beautiful and LOVELY! nobody and i repeat NOBODY can make youf eel depressed but yourself. watch a movie get on the phone make coffeee do ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to bleed after rough intercourse?
Q. A few days ago i had what you could call "rough" sex. As in penetration was hard and fast. After i noticed quite a lot of blood on the bed sheets and it shocked me because i didn't realise how rough we must have been. I have never bled before that...
A. 25 December 2010: im glad you know NOW he is a jerk than find out later! good for you girl! proud of you!... (read in full...)
Is it normal to bleed after rough intercourse?
Q. A few days ago i had what you could call "rough" sex. As in penetration was hard and fast. After i noticed quite a lot of blood on the bed sheets and it shocked me because i didn't realise how rough we must have been. I have never bled before that...
A. 25 December 2010: yes.... (read in full...)
Should I tell him I'm willing to wait?
Q. So I have been dating this guy for 4 months, things were great. We hang out on an average of 2 times a week or so. he really like me but i think i am in love with him already. i want to get into the relationship with him, but he said he is not ready ...
A. 11 December 2010: total honesty, im 24 and if a guy told me "if hes willing for a relationship itll be with me" that is telling me to "wait". but idk thats just me...i dont think you should come b/w him and his ex also. bc put yourself in that girls shoes fora ... (read in full...)
We got back together. Why is he still not speaking to me?
Q. Me and my ex have gotten back together. We were together for a year and half and broke up for a week. We agreed to make things another go. We set a date to see eachother and talk things through properly. He hasn't text me or spoken to me and im ...
A. 5 December 2010: aw i feel the same way! my ex didnt literally say the words lets get back he said lets try go with the flow, im worried as well that he will change his mind, but at that point i think you and i will both realize someone who is unsure now will always ... (read in full...)
Am I setting myself up for heartbreak?
Q. I am a 28 year old male and I have been dating a 24 year old girl for about a month and a half. I am trying to figure out if I am the right kind of guy that this girl needs in her life or if I am setting myself up for heartbreak. I have very st...
A. 5 December 2010: you keep her interested by appreciating her and letting her feel appreciated. you find yourself jealous of her stories because you have NONE to tell, sounds like you have no friends and or hang out unless its with her, seems like you too are busy ... (read in full...)
I can't orgasm. Never have. Why?
Q. I have never had an orgasm. Is this normal? I have tried everything. Tried pleasing my self in many different ways, Ive tried different positions with my boyfriend. He even suggested role play and nothing works. Foreplay never works either. It's ...
A. 5 December 2010: try name calling, ask him to call you bad names it usually helps and some kind of stimulatory response. ... (read in full...)
Dating for five months, but he still won't call me his girlfriend!
Q. I have been dating this guy for five months, and the relationship is progressing slowly but nicely. He's four yrs older. 20-24. Him and I see each other around twice a week, sleep together, et cetera. He's very honest, sweet and respectfull. We have ...
A. 5 December 2010: well youre friends with benefit relationship is not going to progress. he will end up back twith the girl who moved away because distance makes the hearts grow 3 now aside from that, you wont be his girfriend and if he does clal u his gf, then he ... (read in full...)
Are baby steps the right way to go about this?
Q. I am in love with my ex still, its been 3 months till our horrible break up and well, he called me (i was strong) and he said he wanted to work things out, things were okay and kinda flirty, but if hes working things out or trying to work things out ...
A. 1 November 2010: I clled him and I said hey HIM this isnt working for me he said he had a logn day n called me pookie n shit, I tld him look I don’t lik ebeing worried like I was today and one thing I need from you is honesty. He goes who do u think imw ith? What do ... (read in full...)
Ex says she's missed talking to me?
Q. For the past two days, I've been able to talk with my Ex after a breakup. During the breakup, we talked some, and then it just stopped. We've talked about the situation and she says that "if we are meant to be, it'll happen. Just not right now". ...
A. 12 October 2010: who broke up first? it matters because if you did which it seems like you did, she is rtetracting herself from disappointment again. when u saw she is moving on u became more drawn to he bc the one thing u possessed was now someone elses. I am goign ... (read in full...)
Why does she have to have the same name as my ex?!?
Q. Dear agony aunts and uncles, I am currently friends with a girl who has the same name as my ex. Me and this girl have been spending so much time together in the summer and getting closer. We are not exclusively goin out but we have kissed once...
A. 12 October 2010: well, its normal to pick someone with a similar name or a name with a similar nickname as the one we dated before, its to keep a part of the past with our present . ... (read in full...)
Should I disclose a past prostitute visit to my girlfriend?
Q. I am in a committed relationship now. However, a few years before, I lost my virginity to a prostitute. I did so because I was feeling depressed, things were looking bleak, and thought I wouldn't be in a relationship. I don't have any desire to ...
A. 12 October 2010: uhm i dont mean to sound mean b ut you made sure you got tested right? because if your current committed relationship is with a girl who is a 1 man woman then i suggest u get tested thoroughly. she will find it 'disgusting' that you did that and ... (read in full...)
He's sneaking around, how is it my fault?
Q. After being with my boyfriend for eleven months, we were on the computer together. He was going through emails and I happened to catch a glance at something. Knowing he would flip out if I brought it up that exact second, I wanted to do a little ...
A. 8 October 2010: porn= im shocked you dont watch it and ummm the email...so what? you are seriously telling me you didnt ever flirt back with anyone while they flirted with you first AND voluntarily told them you are taken if you werent asked?!
If yes, then you... (read in full...)
Is there any point in holding on to him hoping he will change his mind?
Q. my bf of 2 years has walked out on me and our 1yr old son, he says not to take it personally he just doesnt want to be in a relationship with me or anyone else, 10 days later we ended up having sex and are still having sex every week, he says that ...
A. 8 October 2010: a man who doesn't know responsibility after a kid is born, will never know responsibility.
i say find a guy who can take care of you and the baby while this guy who treats you like a doormat realizes what he lost. ... (read in full...)
Oral sex question for the ladies... workin' on technique!
Q. So, I have a short goatee... not 5 o clock shadow just a tad bit longer that can create a nice maybe sandpaper feel lol.... do ladies like this if im goin' down on one? Like if I rub my trimmed beard against their clitorus? I'm workin on technique ...
A. 8 October 2010: i like a stubby wubby guy! kinda shows he works hard but is sexy but sometimes it makes guys look very weird... (read in full...)
Why can he even think of hanging out with another girl so soon???
Q. OK me and my ex split up 2 weeks ago this sat. He knew if i ever seen him with this one girl it was gonna kill me. So smacked right in my face are pics of him and her in a bar together. They have been hangin out a lot more now. I had to go get a ...
A. 7 October 2010: going through the same bs! dont pay him mind, if you want the guy for the long run, you have to let him PLAY right now. NO CONTACT tell him, when he feels he can continue wher eyoug uys left off to give you a CALL. make it seem like you are waiting ... (read in full...)
Help.. broke up with bf and miss him desperately
Q. hi. i had been dating someone for 2 1/2 years - let's call him jim. jim and i met online, both in relationships we were tired of. so we broke up with our respective others to get together. a week later, we had our first date. it was perfect. in the ...
A. 7 October 2010: i can honestly tell you girl, i literally had the same situation except my guy was for 3 years anyway, dont contact him, i know you want to but if you are the type of person who is relieved once she knows she has tried then by all means go ahea, but ... (read in full...)
My ex who dumped me is now drinking excessively! what can I do?
Q. My ex has started going out drinking since our breakup, she very rarely drank alcohol before we broke up and now she's out doing it a lot. I care about her still, as much as I want to move on, I kinda don't want her out doing stupid things, she's ...
A. 2 October 2010: everyone learns on their own!... (read in full...)
No erection during sex.
Q. I began dating a boy about three months ago, he's 18 and I'm 19, and during this time we've fooled around and he was never able to ejaculate with me, but could through masturbation. Clearly, this threw me off, but as we continued to work at it, he ...
A. 2 October 2010: ya dont worry about it....try to show him you are a freak! it worked for me!... (read in full...)
Doubting our relationship, but I'm afraid to break up
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 8 months now and things were great. But lately I've been doubting our relationship. It's just not fun anymore, and he's starting to just annoy me. I would break up with him but some things are holding me back: 1) We ...
A. 2 October 2010: your reaosns are so nice shows you have a great personality, but think about it this way, 5 years down the line when hes on one knee, what wuold you say to him if he asked?! thats your answer now!... (read in full...)
He cheated and got her pregnant; do I give him another chance?
Q. Okay. So me and my boyfriend been together for 8 months. We are very much in love and are the best things that ever happened to each other. The whole 8months of our relationship so far we've been keeping everything faithful and we trust each other. ...
A. 2 October 2010: Dont. not worth it. ... (read in full...)
I think I would be better off on my own
Q. i was married for 29yrs my partner left me i then met my current partner within a few months. he is very controlling i have been with him for over ten years but it is very difficult . he is verbally abusive and very aggressive and in the past has ...
A. 2 October 2010: talkt o your 29 yr old relationship guy, once he sees what you pushed yourself into he will help you, ten go to the family byt hen hopefully* (i hope and pray) you guys find your way back into one anothers hearts and then can return to your ... (read in full...)
Why would a man stay with his girlfriend when he wants to come home to his family?
Q. What are some of the reasons a man would stay with his girlfriend he left his family for when all other signs point to him wanting to come back home? He knows hes welcome to anytime. I just really want some perspective on how a man might be feeling ...
A. 2 October 2010: you cant stop anyone from anything, if and when you do, you wont be satisfied. ... (read in full...)
I've reeled her back in but how do I talk to her again?
Q. me and my ex recently broke up on good terms. i saw online that when u stop communicating with her u cud draw her back in...i tried and its working...but now wat? i want us to start back talking regularly but i dont know how to initiate ...
A. 2 October 2010: be yourself be honest! you cannot go wrong if you are honest! but tell her, i miss what we had and not now, but i do plan to eventually get to the place we were before our fall out, i dont want to be kept int he dark or to keep you in the dark, so ... (read in full...)
Is it realistic for me to hold out for the day that he isn't selfish?
Q. My boyfriend has always been quite selfish. Not in a terrible way. But he does continue to put himself first. Even when I really really need him. I asked him to come over the other day as I had had an awful day and just needed comforting. He had ...
A. 27 September 2010: i learned the hardway, when a guy is selfish it usually comes with being an A#@hole so please d yourself a favor and either do one of two things 1) leave him or 2) become on his level with the selfishness take his candy away from HIM for a change.... (read in full...)
Is there any way I can keep the space I love and keep a guy interested?
Q. I'm a 26 year old female, and I've never had a boyfriend. I've barely been on a date! I've had guys interested in me, but usually I'm never interested in them. There are only 2 guys that I regret dismissing before we really started anything, and now ...
A. 27 September 2010: i am just like you except i always wanted someone in my space w/o really wanting them in my space i know it sounds weird but i would lve to be home andspend hours on th ephone....but i lik to do my own thing by nO means do i go out and get drunk, i ... (read in full...)
The language of love, is this flirting or just making friends?
Q. Hi, I have a culture-related question about flirting versus making friends. My boyfriend gave out his phone number to 3 girls he said were flirting with him. When I told him I didn't like it he claimed that this is how he makes new friends. Now,...
A. 27 September 2010: yeah hes keeping his options open, i say you tell him "i made friends tooooooooo with people from MY CULTURE SUCKER!"... (read in full...)
Is this boy normal, and should he date my daughter?
Q. I am worried about my daughters new relatonship. My daughter is 17, she is a great kid , we are very lucky that we have never really had any trouble with her. Normally I don"t judge the people she chooses to date but I am a little concerned with her ...
A. 27 September 2010: yeah hes normal! you are just not used to someone so quiet when you are actually inviting him in your home! givehim tme, hell get comfortable and thennnnnnnn youll be annoyed!... (read in full...)
I need to "man up" I don't feel like a man!
Q. Dear all, I'm feeling love sick and blue. I don't feel like a man. I don't know where to start. On friday night, after I had a couple of drinks with my work colleagues, a friend of mine called saying she was in my area with her friends and invi...
A. 26 September 2010: i hate it when girls like HER play with good guys like YOU. its not fair.... (read in full...)
Online guy wants to meet and I'm not sure how I feel about it?
Q. hi everyone I joined a website plenty of fish(dating website) anyway found a guy havent met yet, only spoken on the phone but he wants 2 meet Basically we do txt but when hes texts me he says things like my hunni bunnie lover of mine, ...
A. 26 September 2010: how long do you know him!?!!?!!! and why dont you webcam? alwayssssss do that stuff than meeting up right away!... (read in full...)
I want the baby but I don't think he does??
Q. Ok I'm 24 with a 3 yr olds daughter I just found out this morning I'm pregnant again....I'm head over heels in love with her father but he left me almost 2 yrs ago to date another girl......but all along he still had me to help bring him to doctors ...
A. 26 September 2010: i think you should be in an official relationship, when he feels that heavy responsibility that he is a "husband/fiance/REAL father" he will come around. and airports and universities always hire for security...you should tell himt o look there, and ... (read in full...)
I know she's not ready to date but I like her
Q. A couple of nights ago I was visiting the workplace of this girl that I'm friends with and a couple sitting across from the table I was at asked her if I was her boyfriend. This was kind of a awkward moment for us because while we do really enjoy ...
A. 26 September 2010: aww give her time , but not too much time...if you keep her in this knot where she feels YOU are waiting for her to come around, she will keep you as a safety net and meet others. let her see you like he rbut also are metting others...!... (read in full...)
What would you change if you had a time machine?
Q. Hi, Just a general question. What would you change if you had a Time Machine? Hypothetically, if you could go back in time armed with this knowledge and understanding of mistakes you both made in a relationship and start all over, what would...
A. 26 September 2010: i would change the fact that i was insecure for no reason which caused me such a horrible heartbreak! ... (read in full...)
Blessed by knowing you?
Q. just a quick question what does it mean when someone you know says they are blessed by knowing you is that a good thing....
A. 26 September 2010: yes? bc you make a difference in their lives.... (read in full...)
Husband gives me no affection
Q. I'm 43 years old and I have been married for15 years.I feel like my husband is just not attractive to me anymore.We have sex once a month if I'm lucky and I'm serious,it's usually quick as well.No petting,cuddling-nothing.I get a peck when he goes ...
A. 26 September 2010: you know when we keep saying our partner doesnt give us affection, its really us not giving our partner affection! ..................................and listen, everyone gets ugly and unattractive eventually...its like dating...when a guy breaks ... (read in full...)
Husband says I'm the reason we fight and I should just be quiet
Q. Should I leave my husband? My husband and I have been married for 4 years and we have one daughter. First of all I love him very much but it has been getting increasingly difficult to stay. About a year ago he lost his job which made our already...
A. 26 September 2010: i dont know if you have a job, but that surely will help! if you dont have a job, begin to babysit, dogsit something! HELP HIM OUT. he is frustrated, he thinks of himself as a loser, dont leave? for what? if you want just whisper to him and say i ... (read in full...)
I cheated on my husband, if he finds out he will divorce me
Q. hi all, i am 46 years asian lady and married with 3 children and nice husband. last year i fell in love to asian man and we kissed many time and he asked me for sex but i refused. now he stoped to see me and phoned me and that relation is over now ...
A. 26 September 2010: if you only kissed its OKAY forget it nothing happened dont bring it up. if you had sex ask God for forgiveness and dont do it again! your husband is NOT god... I KNOW as an indian woman you think he is your "teerth" and you have to ask him for ... (read in full...)
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