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female
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51-59,
*erena13
writes:I'm 43 years old and I have been married for15 years.I feel like my husband is just not attractive to me anymore.We have sex once a month if I'm lucky and I'm serious,it's usually quick as well.No petting,cuddling-nothing.I get a peck when he goes to work and when he gets home.I say I love you -he says it back but doesn't show it.I feel unloved and unattractive.I have tried to talk to him but as soon as I start out he gets aggravated so I stop and shut down so I can even ask why on any of it cause I don't get that far. He comes home and starts playing games on the computer and I'm basically ignored.He laughs and cuts up with his gamer friends online but I get noting.This hasn't always been a problem we use to have sex a few times a week but over the last two years it has change.I'm lost,what do I do?
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reader, SweetindianGirl +, writes (26 September 2010):
you know when we keep saying our partner doesnt give us affection, its really us not giving our partner affection! ..................................and listen, everyone gets ugly and unattractive eventually...its like dating...when a guy breaks your heart hes the ugliest person you ahve ever met...right now bc of what he is doing he is 'unattractive'...i think you need to have sex with yourself...if he doesnt want to do it have him walk in on you masturbating or something?! im young, i mean those are things iw ould do...and buy a silicone friend!!! and then when he sees you are sexy and wild he willc ome back :D
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reader, paulomiller  +, writes (26 September 2010):
start go the gym , work out your look and start feel good about yourself, buy new cothes and change your way...I'm man and I'm telling for sure if your husband doesn't a lover ..he is getting addicted in porn and in chats .. put a watcher program in his computer and you will know the true..but if you want save your marriage don't try know if he has someone but make yourself pretty and let him come to ask sex but you have to be in control . learn new positions. try new things on bed ..make him beg for sex... doesn't matter how you look like ..fat ,skinny old ....feel good about yourself and he will see the difference... Do you work? if do not..start do something to build yourself up and don't forget to pray to God and to Jesus for save your marriage
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