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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (27 September 2010):
 I would never have had that sex change operation...
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reader, misfitschik66 +, writes (27 September 2010):
 My relationship is the way i want it to be i wouldn't change it my fiance is perfect and i'm blessed he is in my life and i wouldn't bugger it up by going back in time
maybe if i could relive when i met him and be in that dating someone new bliss
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reader, Fatherly Advice  +, writes (26 September 2010):
 Ah well,
Relationship only replies. Well, I've been in this relationship for some 26 years now. Aside from finding a way to avoid aging, (just kidding). I think some times that If I had fully understood what was coming in the future I would have chosen a healthier partner. That is very sad to think at this age. Of course now I'm not so healthy myself, so perhaps she would say the same. I think I would have held out for one more daughter. I think I would have been more patient, If I knew that the future would bring more and more acceptance. I should feel guilty for all the nights I spent up chatting books online but frankly I would have been reading otherwise, so no loss to the relationship. Mostly we should have used credit cards less and saved money more. Money is a big thing in relationships.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi ALL,
Thanks for your inputs.
I was really looking at this from a RELATIONSHIP/couple point of view for those who didnt quiet understand the q
Cheers
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reader, SweetindianGirl +, writes (26 September 2010):
i would change the fact that i was insecure for no reason which caused me such a horrible heartbreak!
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reader, Punaguy +, writes (26 September 2010):
Invest in Microsoft! Finish collage quickly. I would learn more languages...much more difficult now that I'm older. I would travel more. I would know the kind of woman I like. I would date with more boldness. Take exercise more seriously. Surf more. Sail around the world. Do more backpacking. I would do more things for me.
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reader, Duckyhelp  +, writes (25 September 2010):
 Im young so i have much to learn! But i would have never have lost my virginity so young and never have gone out with my ex. I would have cherished my friends better and not let them go purely because i thought they would have never left me. Buut i guess i have many more to make!
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reader, Fatherly Advice +, writes (25 September 2010):
There was this pack of bullies in one of my grade schools. . . .
It wasn't until much later in my life that I stopped putting up with that. Knowing what I know now, I'd have stopped them.
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reader, SillyB +, writes (25 September 2010):
 I would have dumped that guy I dated for 8 years after the first 4, worked one year and gone straight into a masters program and been halfway done through my PhD now. I'd also have learned a third/fourth language. Oh, and learned to drive - when my parents said NO I would have forced them to teach me...and then by my early 20's made sure I had a car.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2010): I wouldn't marry at the age of 18, despite the fact that my husband is a wonderfull man. I wouldn't have a child so early, so i became an empty nester at the age of 38. I would be a better mother, and a better wife if it all happened later in my life. I would cherished friends that i had and lost, as a result of not communicating well, i would learn how not to waste my time on those who ment very little in my life.
I would be kinder and more understanding of other people weaknesses.
I would learn 8 languages and travel the world.I would not take things personaly and myself too seriously. I would be smart enough to enjoy every little moment that was good and not pay that much attention to every little moment that wasn't that great.
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reader, misfitschik66 +, writes (25 September 2010):
absolutly nothing! i have the life i have now because of all the past stuff that happened in my life good and bad..i would do it over again in a second
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2010): I would not have wasted 7 years of my life being led on by a married man who had no intentions of leaving his wife.
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