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Spotting, uncomfortable feeling, what could be the problem??

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Question - (10 July 2010) 10 Answers - (Newest, 11 July 2010)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I am fourteen years old. I have only had oral sex ( recieving . ) but it was three months ago. Since then I have been masturbating . Recently, I've felt the urge to pee a lot more and it comes without warning . When I go to use the restroom almost nothing comes out . I am not diabetic. When I wipe I see some blood even though I am nowhere close to having my period. After I wipe I put my shorts back on and it seems to make me feel very uncomfortable down there . I do not understand what is going on . Someone please help me .

Can you please tell me what is going on .. what may have caused this ... what I can do to make it stop ... and what I can do to prevent this in the future ?

PLEASE !! Thank you , all . If even for reading this question , thank yu .

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A female reader, Myrrh United Kingdom +, writes (11 July 2010):

Myrrh agony auntHello. You are becoming a young woman, so you will have to get used to taking control of your own health and looking after yourself properly. And that will mean going to the doctor from time to time. If you feel shy you can always ask to see a lady doctor. What youve got sounds very common, even babies can get it. So no one is going to think badly of you for having it. No one need even know if you take yourself off to the doctor in private. Because your doctor isnt allowed to discuss you with anyone without your permission. And nobody will know you had oral sex a few months ago. So if thats putting you off going, dont let it. What you have, can make you feel very uncomfortable and quite miserable. Ive had it twice, so i know what its like. But if you dont get it treated it can hang around and get worse. So have a chat with your mum, an aunt/older cousin maybe and say you think youve got a problem because it hurts when you wee. They will understand and help you arrange a doctors visit. When you go, nothing scary will happen. The doctor will just ask you some questions about how you are feeling healthwise and he/she will ask you to go to the loo and do a wee in a pot to make sure its an infection. Then you will be given some antibiotics and after a few days you will feel better. The doctor will tell you ways to avoid getting it again. So please dont be scared. Just have a chat with someone sensible or make an appointment yourself. All the best x

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A female reader, CindyCares Italy +, writes (11 July 2010):

CindyCares agony auntYou have the symptoms of an urinary tract infection. Nothing to panic about, since is very common in women, but also nothing to neglect, because if untreated it may become recurrent or cronic. Do go see a doctor- not necessarily an ob/gyn , just your regular doctor. In the meantime you can drink plenty of cranberry juice to alleviate the symptoms, or go to a herbal shop and ask for natural remedies like uva ursina or equisetum, - but also do go see your doctor.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2010):

I don't really want to see a doctor ! Is there anything else I can do ?

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A female reader, SweetSS21 United Kingdom +, writes (11 July 2010):

Hi babes am not a DR but it does sound like a Pee (urine) infection. Women often get that from some kind of bacteria in the vagina, but MAKE SURE you go and see your doctor for some medication because it can get pretty painful. good luck

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A female reader, inquisitivequiet United States +, writes (11 July 2010):

You could very well have a UTI (urinary tract infection), go see a doctor, immediately.

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A female reader, Tasty United Kingdom +, writes (10 July 2010):

OMG!!! go to the doctor and expalain and also ask for some STD tests. you may have and STD....

Get it checked as soon as possible ......

GOODLUCK!!!!! xxxxxx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2010):

hey...as far as I know from the symtons ur telling me, I think its a urine infection...go to the doctor ASAP

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A female reader, MiscellaneousG United States +, writes (10 July 2010):

You can have a urinary tract infection. This is commonly termed "Honeymoon-itis" because after engaging in sexual activities for the first time, many girls get infections easily from the new exposure. Please see a doctor soon because this could lead to a bigger problem. You don't have to worry about your parents knowing. Figure out a way to have your parents bring you to the doctors and discreetly your doctor you'd like to talk to them privately so that your mom/dad would leave the room.

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A female reader, sunnycomet Canada +, writes (10 July 2010):

sunnycomet agony auntGo to the doctor now!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2010):

Sweetheart, is it possible for you to visit a Gynecology?

Just for a routine checkup

I am sure you are fine

Receiving Oral sex doesn't make you sick nor can you get a sexually transmitted disease

Its absolutely normal feelings

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