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writes:hey guys, hope you can help me in my situation.??Basically me and this guy have known each other for 4 years, we always liked each other, but knew we couldnt do anything about our feelings. We were always very very close mates and always there for each other.??once we had known each other for a while and admitted our feelings for each other, we didnt do anything as i was already in a long term relationship and found it difficult, it affected our friendship because we felt so strong about each other, but we were both young and i regret it now. We stopped talkin and i later went on to break up with my boyfriend at the time. Me and my friend started talkin again recently, but now it is him with the long term relationship, he has told me he still feels the same and loves me so much but i hurt him and now he loves his gf.. Im really confused because when he rings and texts me its just like the old times and i love it because that connection is still there.. But then the next minute he says he cant talk to me cos its not fair on his girlfriend etc, he keeps changin his mind and im so confused! ??When he goes through periods of not talkin to me my heart aches as i miss him soo much.. And he knows how i feel, iv asked him where i stand but he can never give me a straigt answer. ?What should i do, i love him more than anythin so should i wait for him or should i try get over him (really dont think i can)??Guys could you give me advice on what to do and how to cope please :( .. Btw i am aries and he is a leo.. And we live 3 hours away but i occasionally see him as i have family where he lives.. Thanks
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reader, karen1989 +, writes (10 July 2010):
 Leave him be. If he loves you as much as he says he does then he would of let her for you by now. i doubt hes planning on leaving her anytime soon aswell?
Find someone new. Plenty of fish in the sea and all that!
Your young and you think your in love truth is i too am around your age and sometimes i think to myself that i really love a guy-truth is i havent had enough life experience yet to of experienced true love. You'll find someone else,it will be hard (very hard) but you have to be strong about these things. Good luck.
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reader, a113yx8  +, writes (10 July 2010):
wow, I hvae pretty much the same situation. We've know eachother for 4 years, always liked eachother, he has a girlfriend, I just got out of a long relationship, and he lives 4 hours away. When I saw your story I was amazed on how similar our situations were. I so sorry but I really don't have advice except move on but I know thats not easy (I can't either) :( But just know your not alone
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks guys for your answers, how do you get over somebody you love though? I have no idea where to start..
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reader, sunnycomet  +, writes (10 July 2010):
 He is in a relationship...time to move on. He's right, it isn't fair to his girlfriend or you that you two continue like this. The best thing to do is move on. It will be hard but in the long run it will be better.
Good Luck!
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (10 July 2010):
He has a girlfriend. As long as he has a girlfriend, you don't stand a chance. You need to let him go and start getting over him. You couldn't trust him if something happened while he was with her, and even if he left, you'd probably find that he was still untrustworthy as he seems to have no idea about what he wants. You deserve a good guy in your life. What you don't deserve is a guy who doesn't know how he feels and keeps changing his mind. As long as you wait, he will not come. You need to let him go, and move forward with your own life.
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