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female
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51-59,
anonymous
writes: my husband doesnt want to make love to me or even me touching him do you think that their is someone else i use to wake him up with love making before and now he says he doesnt like it whats really going on this past october he told me that he had sex with a stripper durning a lap dance in texas and im just not sure if i wanna stay with him if he doesnt want me sexually anymore its not all about sex but i think we have sex like 2-3 times a month if im lucky i feel ugly and very depressed please help me
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2010): Are you sure he had sex with stripper. Some times Men ego forces them to tell lies just to get their wife support them more in sex.?
how ever, if that is true, then this is not good. you need to talk to him and ask what he needs, why it is so?
communicate....
i am sure it is temporary issue and you and he will get over this.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2010): You're too young for this sh*t. Tell him to piss or get off the pot, he'll know what you mean.He may have a psychological problem and you are better off without him...I bet there is a lot more to this story than the stripper isn't there? Is he a substance abuser? Does he play a lot of manipulative mind games with you? Does he never take any responsibility for his bad behavior or mistakes or things that just "happen" to him all of the time? Does he get verbally abusive with you? Does he blame you for everthing?Someone like that will no longer like sex with the wife after marriage, it isn't you or your attractiveness it is his way of controlling you and your relationship.You can't fix this if any of this is ringing a bell for you...Leave.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2010): Why do you want to take second place all the time? Its time you worked on your self worth and faced the reality. I would not want sex with a man that had slept with a woman like that - my sexual health would be under threat for starters. Where is your personal pride? Your marriage is over. What he did is unforgivable
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2010): And you're still with him why?
honey its obvious you're marriage is over and he's not in love with you anymore.
Its time to let him go so that you can both move on and be happy!
I'm sorry this has happened to you. Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2010): I think you deserve better than your husband, he sounds like a twat, If i were you then I wouldn't want to be with him anymore, but of course I am not you.
It sounds like you just let him get away with this, stand your ground
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reader, sunnycomet  +, writes (10 July 2010):
 Leave him!
He cheated on you and your relationship is falling apart.
You don't deserve him!
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