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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:me and my girl has been together for 2-3 months. we had the same class in school and started talking when we saw each other. at that time she had a boyfriend and talked to me about her relationship with him. we also talked about anything else and ended up getting close. we always hung out everyday and had fun. one week we hung out the whole week and started talking about deeper things between me and her. one day on that same week she told me that she really liked me and even broke up with the other guy jus to be with me. thats when i asked her to be my girl and she said yes.everything was good until school let out then she started getting more distant and cold towards me. she will still hug and kiss me but now only when we are separating. i would try to put my arm around her, try to hold her hand, and even try to get closer to her but she gives me this "get away from me" feeling. everytime i try talking to her bout it she would say she had to leave or some dumb excuse. i finally got her to say something bout it and she said she had a lot going on and is kind of messed up from her previous boyfriend. i tell her all the time that she can talk to me and she knows it cause we both know each others secrets. she said she will try to show more affection but she really hasnt. i dont know what to do anymore cause i really really like her a lot. i dont know wether i should end it or give it a little bit more time. please help me as soon as possible
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reader, Ritasanyal +, writes (10 July 2010):
In a relationship there is always two sides like a contract.
Sometimes by our action we may annoy someone like having a bad habit - smoking or not showering etc etc
Often, we can attract someone with our winning smile and charm but not enough to keep then attracted forever - you know what I mean??
So you are super young - there will be plenty of other opportunities which will not make you sour or sad.
God bless
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2010): I think there is a good chance that this girl has a personality different than what you need. You cannot change who 'she is' and I honestly think you'd just get more hurt, because the way people express their feelings does not change over time. Sad but true. I think you better end it with her and move on. Easier said than done I know, but I think this is best for you.
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reader, sunnycomet  +, writes (10 July 2010):
 I think you should sit down and have a talk with her. Ask her how she feels about you. Talk to her about ending it. Tell her everything...
Then decide from there...
Don't forget to update! :)
Good Luck!
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