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anonymous
writes:my husband and i have had our ups and downs and so on may 30th 2010 i left him and during the 3wks i was go he met someone else and they had ben having sex and i coame back so we could work things out and things were going fine and then i find out the day after that he got his ex girlfriend pregnant and she had an abortion... and now he sayin that he still wants 2 be her friend but wants us 2 work out what should i do????
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reader, liebe +, writes (11 July 2010):
No matter what or how long you two had split he is still married to you. How would he like it if you had been the one? I tell you he would of dumped your A... You will always wonder what he will do when he is out and that's not how to live your life
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reader, SweetSS21  +, writes (11 July 2010):
I think only you can decide what to do but first you should have a proper calm talk with your husband about everything that is happening and the reasons for wanting to be friends with this lady. Explain how you feel about this whole situation and see what he says. If he looks like his starting to make excuses and is not being completley honest then just move on.
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reader, xanthic +, writes (11 July 2010):
 Dump him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2010): Oh my goodness, I'm sorry. (hugs)
I'm sorry if it hurts to hear this but if you and your husband were only separated for three weeks and in that short time he jumped into bed with another woman, he's a loser and not worth your time.
He wasn't that upset over you and didn't even have the brains to use protection. And he cannot be "friends" with the girl he cheated with. The only reason for that is he no doubt wants to keep seeing her and sleeping with her.
Only you can decide what's right for you but PLEASE don't fall for that we-are-just-friends routine.
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reader, sunnycomet  +, writes (10 July 2010):
 Wow, yea my advice is to move on. You don't need this kind of drama. Especially where he still wants to be her friend. He is playing the both of you. You don't deserve this.
You will never be at peace if you stay with him.
Let go and move on. Cut contact and enjoy your life.
Good Luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2010): Tell him he can't have you as his wife and her as a friend. He probably wants to be her friend because he feels guilty about getting her pregnant and then ending things to be with you, but your marriage will not work if she's still in the picture. He should apologize to her for hurting her and then leave her alone.
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reader, Tasty +, writes (10 July 2010):
Hi, i can't help feel sorry for you becuase your husband must not LOVE you because you leave him then during the three weeks you were gone he met another girl and got her pregnant talk about moving on.... this was wrong for him to do to you come on when you took those vows on your wedding day they were just a joke to him (thats how it sounds). i think you should leave him and move on and find someone better,and show him that you can do better. in my oppinion you deserve a whole lot better.
Sorry xxxxx
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