No matter what I do, girls still don"t like me!
Q. What am i doing wrong , girls still dont like me ? Im a junior in hs and alot of girls dont like me . Idk y though , i tried be confident, an asshole, ect. pretty much everything Nothing works !!!! And all my female friends say im real attr...
A. 2 September 2013: if your "trying" to be the shizniz you won't get squat, anyone can see through that.... (read in full...)
I'm falling for my boyfriends father!
Q. I'm 15 years old about to be 16 and I used to date this boy that is now 19. We broke up because he wasn't in a stable environment at the moment. We still remain extremely good friends, though. We talk almost everyday. Now, I don't know what has ...
A. 16 April 2013: How is your relationship with your father?... (read in full...)
I've been waiting 8 years for him to ask me out. How do I get him to do so?
Q. There is a guy on my swim team that i really like and he's really cute, we barely ever talk and i'm not sure if he even notices me even though we have been on the same team since i was eight and he was ten. I wan't to get him to notice me more and ...
A. 16 April 2013: You waited 8 years?? So you were 8 years old at the time you liked him and found him cute? I'm hoping this is a typo. Anyway why not ask him out? Maybe he's shy too? Or maybe he doesn't even think you like him so hasn't bothered? Just go up to him ... (read in full...)
Girls: Do you say no sex to your boyfriend often?
Q. Hi Just like to know if this is normal behaviour for men or in relationships. Last night in bed with my boyfriend I wasn't feeling too well (have a bad headcold) and told him I didn't want to have sex with him, to just cuddle and sleep. He kep...
A. 16 April 2013: I think he needs to calm down and stop jumping you and learn to control himself. If he keeps doing that I'd say get rid of him. Iv'e had a relationship once where we hardly had sex and as frustrating as it was I never forced myself on to her. Not ... (read in full...)
When is a woman at her sexual peak?
Q. When is a women's sexial prime...
A. 13 April 2013: Apparently it is between 30-40 but it is such an open ended question. I'm only 28 and my gf the same age so can't comment on personal experience. But the survey's suggest 30-40, why do you ask?... (read in full...)
What makes a good relationship good?
Q. I need tips on what makes a good relationship good... And I need to know how can you prove to someone that your trustworthy. I know actions speaks louder than words I have tried both but is there any other ways? Help? Please!...
A. 18 February 2013: This is what is needed for a good relationship, remember this is MR conductor talking here, I know my stuff In order of importance: 1. Communication: Absolutly vital, if you can't speak with her/him and speak comfortably about anything you alrea... (read in full...)
I'm so depressed about the size of my penis. I'm very depressed
Q. Hello i have a really big problem with myself im so self councious i cant live in peace this started 4 months ago when i started going out with my girlfriend she is a really nice person i love her so much but i have an issue. not long ago we start...
A. 18 February 2013: From a statistical point of view, your SLIGHTLY smaller than average. I'm not saying that to hurt you so hear me out. Statistically, I'm below average for male height, didn't stop me getting plenty of great women. Secondly it's not the size it'... (read in full...)
Do good looking girls get put on a pedastal?
Q. Are men more likely to put you on a pedastal at the beginning of a relationship if they find you very good looking? ...
A. 18 February 2013: Nope not for me, I see women as my equal, she can be WHO'S sexiest woman alive and I still won't put her on a pedestal at least not for looks. If we "click" really well then maybe. If a girl is "out of my league" why should I put her on a pedastal, ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to lose interest in sex after having a baby?
Q. hey, i need to know if it's normal to lose all interest in sex when you have a baby, as it's becoming an issue btwn me and my fiancee. We've been together 2yrs, very happy, engaged and live together. Usually sex was fun, satisfying spontane...
A. 18 February 2013: I'm not a woman so I can only answer annecdotaly (sorry about spelling). From my hearings, sex is the LAST thing on a womans mind after kids.
I think as time passes you will return somewhat to your "normal" self.
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I haven't given my b/f oral sex. Is that a bad thing?
Q. The guy I am seeing is really great and patient because I have only ever had sex with one other guy so I am still a bit new to all of this. My best friend was so shocked because he has gone down on me and I haven't on him. She made it sound like a ...
A. 18 February 2013: Nope not a bad thing, if you are curious and he is too but just never had the nerve to try it, just take it really really slow. One point to make, ANY kind of oral stimulation on a guy makes him feel good, unless you start biting or chewing on it he ... (read in full...)
I need to buy some pills that help me last longer sexually. I don't know what to buy!
Q. hey i need help..everytime i have sex i only last 3min! sometimes even less! i always had this problem there been a couple of times i really last 30 minutes but that was a long time ago. im thinking of buying some pills but i dont know which on...
A. 18 February 2013: Porn and male orgasm has been studied extensivley and shown that watching more porn desensitizes a mans brain to sex. NOT the opposite. Watch it daily and masturbate frequently if you're aroused enough to, trust me that'l get your orgasm to calm d... (read in full...)
Should girls make the first move?
Q. curious as about today society. How do guys feel, when the girls make first move? if yes then how a - eye flirtations maybe or wink b- flat approach you with a 'hi' if not how are let know to make a move on us? ...
A. 18 February 2013: YES! and I'm suprised feminists don't push this too. Some guys think it's not manly if they don't make the move but ironically they are the ones who are not men as they are intimidated by it. Most guys I think would have no problem and if their ... (read in full...)
Should I be upset that he wants to go out for our Valentines dinner at the weekend?
Q. my boyfriend and i have been together for about 6 months. Now its valentines day..i know he is trying to save money for a house and i am not materialistic in the sense where i expect us to go out to dinners all the time..i even contribute towar...
A. 18 February 2013: Stay away from the hype that is Valentines day. Why should one day be dedicated to treating your loved one when in reality EVERY DAY should be about treating your loved one. I mean you wouldn't expect a dozen roses every day but you know what I ... (read in full...)
I had a fantasy about another girl and now I feel so guilty
Q. Bit embarrased about this, but i just need to tell this little thing somehow. I'm together with a girl wich i love with all my heart. We're together since a year now and things go well. Now, this is a long distance relationship so we only see each...
A. 18 February 2013: I fantasized about a porn star last night, does not mean I have any wish to ever meet or have sex with her. It was just that, a fantasy. I don't think you cheated. You just did what you needed to, to get off in a long distance relationship. Now if ... (read in full...)
What am I doing wrong? Am I the only 18 year old who has never been kissed?
Q. I am 18 and i have never had a stable boyfriend. i am really nice and fairly pretty. Im a little over weight (170lbs) andd i feel like that holds me back a bit. I have had a lot of guys interested in me over the years but they are creepy and no ...
A. 12 February 2013: Man I know people who didn't have sex until 27. And there was nothing wrong with them physically or mentally. I also know plenty women who had to have at least 3-4 bf's before they found someone stable. It's more just statistics and dumb luck than ... (read in full...)
Is it unhealthy or bad to make love every day?
Q. I live with my bf and we make love almost everyday,very often. Right now I am thinking on how bad it could be for me as a girl,I don't really think it good to do it everyday. I spoke to him about it and he explain how much he loves making lov...
A. 12 February 2013: You don't need to limit how often you have sex, what matters is, are you happy doing it? If your happy then thats fine, if you feel like you HAVE to do it to make him happy then you need to talk about it.... (read in full...)
How do others cope with similar? My family gatherings bother me. There is just small talk. And my grandfather's eating habits appall me.
Q. hey all,I love my family but when we all join each other around the dinner table i literally feel as depressed and hateful as ever (i know this may sound stupid) but my grandad (who i have no real relationship with due to family circumst...
A. 12 February 2013: You don't like it? Don't deal with it. They may be "family" but in the end they are still human beings and you need to look at it that way, if these human beings are pissing you off and affecting your well being then don't hang around them, you owe ... (read in full...)
I don't want kids!
Q. I'm a 23 year old male with a 23 year old girlfriend. We have been together since we were 17ish, had 1 or 2 breaks, but now were serious and committed. I live with her mum dad and sis, and have done for a couple of years now. We are happy and ha...
A. 12 February 2013: If you don't want kids, even if it's just for now you need to tell her, if she's at the age she want's kids she will harp on until she gets them, either you need an ultimatum or break up with her.... (read in full...)
My depressed Gf won't have sex with me. If I say I'm leaving she hurts herself. Should we breakup?
Q. Hello all, I have been with my girlfriend for one year and a half and we live together. The problem I have is she won't have sex with me. The last time we had sex was 7 months ago and I confessed to her that I am considering sleeping with other ...
A. 12 February 2013: She's not your gf, your wife or your mother. You do not owe her anything. Leave h er.... (read in full...)
My wife watches porn when I'm away!
Q. Im in desperate need of help and advice, i checked our pcs history the other day for wedding venue sites that i was interested in. I stumbled onto a porn site and one of the viewed searches was "f***ing while on the phone with your husband"!!! I was ...
A. 12 February 2013: There's nothing wrong with your wife watching porn, if anything it can be liberating for the relationship. But if she's watching cuckold porn or something like that I'd be questioning whats going on, it'd be the same if a guy looked up "cheatin... (read in full...)
What do men like to hear from their women during sex?
Q. Hi everyone, I'm just looking for a few personal opinions on what men would like most from their women during sex, i.e. what do you like to hear, what do you want her to do, etc. Any tips are appreciated! Thank you!...
A. 12 February 2013: It depends, most guys I think are happy with things like, "that feels so good", or "oh (insert name)", another thing which def turns men on are when they hit the spot and you wan't them to continue e.g "keep doing that". Just say what you feel at ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend held me while I cried...I'm embarassed, How do I show her I appreciate what she did?
Q. To start off I'm using my girlfriend's account. Here goes: yesterday my girlfriend and I were really bored and looking for something to do. We started looking around. I opened my drawer and then I saw a photo of my father (he died in 9/11) an...
A. 12 February 2013: You lost your father man. Even if I were your guy friend I'd be comforting you and would never see you as weak or a loser. It's a big deal and she knows it. Tell you appreciate it alot. She prob does not feel you should be embarassed and if anything ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is offering to take me on an all expenses paid trip but I'm feeling bad because my Valentine's day present can never match his because of my money problems
Q. My boyfriend invited me for a weekend on a small city 70 miles away. Nothing fancy, just something different for a change. Basically, I just went through some hard family situations. Therefore I'm living with my father and we're both very, VERY ...
A. 12 February 2013: You don't need money to show your apprecitation or to impress him. Like anonymous, wrote (8 February 2013) make a scrap book of your time together, give him a sincre love poem/letter. HE will appreciate it.
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Does anyone have any tips to help me "shine" at the interview day and secure this dream job?
Q. Hi! I have been given the opportunity to attend an interview day for my dream job and it is in the same city as this guy I like. I really really want this job but I seem to be a very anxious person and mess up interviews. The last interview d...
A. 12 February 2013: I've given tips on how to do well in interviews and without boasting everyone who spoke to me got their job. Firstly when it comes to the 1 on 1 interview always have an answer for everything, never say "I don't know", even a "wrong" answer i... (read in full...)
Always been attracted to girls. But also like watching gay porn. Could my porn use be affecting the fantasies I masterbate to and think about?
Q. I am very confused at the moment. Since I was younger I have always been attracted to girls. When I see girls in the street, I'm instantly checking them out. Never in real life have I ever looked at a make and though hmm they're attracti...
A. 12 February 2013: Lot's of men have watched gay porn or fantasized even if they don't like to admit it. It's probably just a fantasy because it "taboo" and outside of what is conventional. Iv'e watched gay porn and to be honest I got turned on too. But when thinkin... (read in full...)
How can I increase my boyfriend's sex drive?
Q. My bf and I havent had sex in roughly two weeks. I noticed when it started getting spaced out, every other day turned to twice a week then once and now, I dont know. We both work, I would say he works works almost five days a week but shorter shifts ...
A. 11 February 2013: Iv'e worked in the supplements industry. Foods/Herbs e.t.c help but they are never a magic bullet. Caffeine, Ginseng, Yohimbe, these herbs can help but I think alot of it is mental.If he's got alot on his mind it's very hard even for a guy to get ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has been so supportive that I worry I'm becoming dependant on him.
Q. I've been through a rough time recently, with depression and self harming. I've promised myself though that I won't ever hurt myself again and am currently not as depressed or low in mood as I have been compared to last week. The thing is, I've been ...
A. 11 February 2013: In the end you always need to look out for number 1 because no one else ever will. Having said that don't just toss him away, it sounds like he cares deeply and prob has more patience than alot of guys I know. I don't think you should get rid of ... (read in full...)
I feel very self conscious about sex and don't want it to become a big problem that could potentially ruin our relationship...
Q. My husband and I usually really great sex, but usually he's the one taking the lead. I've felt bad several times because I still feel shy and embarrassed to even talk about how I feel. I had hoped he was okay with that because in a way, I'm too ...
A. 11 February 2013: My ex was like that, and she had more experience than me, maybe he just needs to slow down alot and do things gradually, e.g if your starting off with kissing get him to be real slow and gentle around your lips, neck e.t.c until you feel comfortable ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend wont get engaged to me unless I get her a 20 000 euro engagement ring
Q. Hi, I ve posted on this website before and I ve found the answere really helpful so I am hoping for some more advice please. I ve been agonizing over this for some time, would be really interested to hear what others think.. My girlfriend w...
A. 7 February 2013: "GUESS I just need to get used to being on my own again", if that's what makes you happy but if you are looking for a relationship there are plenty of women who don't demand you get her a 20k euro ring.... (read in full...)
We're waiting until we're married -- but what if he doesn't have enough to satisfy me?
Q. Dear Cupid I am a 30 year old female due to get married in a few months. My fiancé and I are both virgins, we decided to wait till marriage. It's never something I regretted. We have spoken about sex and I have friends who are sexually active ...
A. 5 February 2013: Virginity has no bearing on how close you will be together or how meaningful your relationship will be. The short answer is to have sex and find out. ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend wont get engaged to me unless I get her a 20 000 euro engagement ring
Q. Hi, I ve posted on this website before and I ve found the answere really helpful so I am hoping for some more advice please. I ve been agonizing over this for some time, would be really interested to hear what others think.. My girlfriend w...
A. 5 February 2013: You know it's a bad idea when even the females are saying your nuts lol. She's obviously grown being told she's a princess and deserves to wallow in luxury. Are you being a man? Dude your definately NOT a man if you succumb to her ridiculous demand, ... (read in full...)
What does it mean if a guy calls you "high maintenance"?
Q. What exactly does it mean by 'high maintenace'.. The guy I'm dating now its been a few weeks and the reason he dint ask me out earlier is because he thought I would be 'high maintenance'..what did that mean:( ?...
A. 4 February 2013: High maintainence means, expensive taste in everything, expecting alot especially financially i.e you wan't him to buy you shoes, cosmetics, take you out to dinner and you never pay e.t.c If thats what you expect from him then your high ... (read in full...)
My wife wants to get a house, but she won't help pay!
Q. I have questoin my wife want to get a house and ther is only one income i take care of all the bills as it IS. I tell her she need to helppáy for a house but she dont wont to help ...
A. 4 February 2013: Was she always like this? If she was you shouldn't have married her. Either way tell her to pull her head out of the sand. Getting a house is usually a two man/woman job if your paying bills as well then thats even worse. If she's done this ... (read in full...)
Confused about masturbation and things related.
Q. Right some questions, masturbation when in a relationship - isn't the whole point of masturbating because you can choose who you want to look at as in porn/think about and not many people think of their own girlfriend because there is no point? ...
A. 4 February 2013: I like Janiepegs answer. Firstly when is he masturbating, is it when he's at home? When he's with you and your asleep, when he's with you and your happy to have sex but he just want's to masturbate. The thing to remember as well is that it's not... (read in full...)
Should I be worried about the lack of sex in our relationship?
Q. i have been in a relationship for more that five years and during this time our sex life was great. we made sure we saw eachother all the time so we could have sex since we dont live in the same house. But lately all we do is chat and hang out. We ...
A. 4 February 2013: IT's possible he's found other interests i.e another woman, it could also be boredom? Perhaps your not adventurous enough? You'd have to explain further.... (read in full...)
I want my boyfriend to be more of a man. How do I do this?
Q. Well, me and my bf had been together for 4 years and he's so good to me. We are 23.Problem is, sometimes I feel down when seeing him talking and acting like a girl. When he's talking, he often uses the voice like how a girl laugh. Oh I don't know ...
A. 4 February 2013: Hnoestly I think your being unfair changing him. He's good to you but you wan't him to be more of a "man". How would you like it if he said he wanted you to be more of a woman by having bigger breasts and an hourglass figure? Wouldn't you be ... (read in full...)
Please, somebody help me. I found out about my boyfriend's affairs and I don't know what to do.
Q. Hey... well, I couldn't be in worse shape right now. My "boyfriend" and I are in a very dark place. At first, I would defend him whenever people would talk bad of him. And I would just like to say now that my friends have always said that my ...
A. 4 February 2013: Get rid of him.... (read in full...)
If I'm pregnant how do I tell my boyfriend its not his?
Q. Hey Cupids, got my self in a little bit of trouble and need some Help and advice. I had a one night stand January 26th early morning January 27th. The guy i had the one night stand was without a condom. We were both having a few social drink...
A. 4 February 2013: I'm not a female but based on the ones I have been with it seems like you just might be getting your period. Every girl Iv'e been with has sore boobs and moodiness just before her period. It's very difficult though not impossible to get pregnant ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend drunk said "you are too good to me" What did he mean?
Q. I went drinking with my boyfriend (of nearly 2 months) and his friends. He got drunk and I had to take care of him and get him home safe and tuck him in bed. Before he passed out he said "You are too good to me. You know what that means?" I said ...
A. 27 January 2013: Alcohol makes you lose your inhibitions and generally let's people know whats on your mind, it could have been just a mindless brainfart but I think there is nothing to look into, he was drunk and perhaps he was happy that you took the ... (read in full...)
Why does she keep on asking me about my Gf?
Q. This girl I work with continuously asks me about my relationship. She (and I) were a little bit flirty with each other for a while but I know she has a husband so I never persued anything. Any way I started dated another girl about a few months ago ...
A. 24 January 2013: Girls are often attracted to guys in a relationship or are married. It's not that they do it on purpose but it's an indicator that if you are in a stable relationship then you must be a decent guy. It's an indicator that you are relationship ... (read in full...)
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