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writes:I live with my bf and we make love almost everyday,very often.Right now I am thinking on how bad it could be for me as a girl,I don't really think it good to do it everyday.I spoke to him about it and he explain how much he loves making love to me,I love it too.But some times, I do it just for him, don't know if I have to control his sexual feelings for me and reduce how often we do it or to learn how to like it often too. Reply to this Question
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reader, Silius Sodimus  +, writes (12 February 2013):
You don't need to limit how often you have sex, what matters is, are you happy doing it? If your happy then thats fine, if you feel like you HAVE to do it to make him happy then you need to talk about it.
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reader, R1 +, writes (9 February 2013):
 A lot of people have sex with their partners to keep them happy, I think as long as you enjoy it 80% of the time it's kind of ok.
It can be hard to reduce the amount you have sex without annoying your bf. but if he truly cares he should understand.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (9 February 2013):
 Making love every day is neither bad nor unhealthy, if you want it too. If you don't- don't do it. It's not only his sexual feelings and needs that counts, but yours too. If you have a lower sex drive, it surely should be possible to reach a reasonable compromise, and focus on quality more than quantity.
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reader, C. Grant  +, writes (9 February 2013):
 You don't need to do it for him - not to "control his sexual feelings". It should happen when you both want it. If you don't want to do it at a particular time, it's perfectly reasonable to say 'no'. You did not become his girlfriend solely to satisfy his urges. You entered into a relationship that would work for both of you. You have the right to say 'no', and you have the right to suggest sex to him if you're so inclined. And he has the right to say 'no'.
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reader, CMMP  +, writes (9 February 2013):
It's a great form of exercise. It's only unhealthy if you get pregnant or an STD.
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