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writes:curious as about today society.How do guys feel, when the girls make first move? if yes then how a - eye flirtations maybe or wink b- flat approach you with a 'hi' if not how are let know to make a move on us?
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reader, Silius Sodimus +, writes (18 February 2013):
YES! and I'm suprised feminists don't push this too. Some guys think it's not manly if they don't make the move but ironically they are the ones who are not men as they are intimidated by it. Most guys I think would have no problem and if their single would be happy to give it a go. No winks and ass grabbing though, that would just make them think you wan't to bang them. So go for "B".
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (14 February 2013):
 Well let me tell you how I got my hubby… I went after him. BIG TIME.
I saw him and wanted him. End. Of. Conversation. We were at a huge gaming convention and I’m outrageous… so I smacked him on his adorable tush… he didn’t take the hint too well.. I even said stuff to him… CLUELESS… he was CLUELESS
I saw him 4 months later and said “what do I have to do to get your attention hit you over the head with a brick??????” basically the answer was YES you do…
So my response is YES girls can and should make the first move…
But eye flirtations or winking… that’s baby childish BS…
Go up to him and say “hi how are you I’m Betty Lou what’s your name?”
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (14 February 2013):
 I think a girl CAN make the first move. I am particularly attentive if she removes her top and says to me: "Are you feeling amorous? ... then looky here and HAVE AT IT, boy... (and) ....there's more, down below...."
Good luck.....
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2013): It's fine and flattering even if we're not interested. Just don't be over the top flirtatious straight away if you're interested in more than just sex. Come on too strong and some will be frightened off and others will just want to bone you.
A simple 'Hi, I'm Fender are you enjoying your evening" etc. is perfect.
OP the best way to let a guy know you're open to him making a move is to look over at him and if he looks back then just smile warmly, that's the signal. Winking is over the top.
Don't be afraid to make the first move if you like a guy.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (14 February 2013):
 I am not a guy, but I made the first move and asked out my boyfriend, he said yes and we're still together.
I will say I think winking looks weird on just about everyone, so I wouldn't go that approach. But yes it's completely OK to make the first move.
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