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writes:Although I'm only young, I know I have strong feelings for someone I've become very close to over the past few months. Unfortunately for me, they're a girl and, ignoring the fact I myself haven't 'come out' yet, I'm not sure whether shes bi or gay - she hints at it but has never made it explictly clear. My sense is that she isn't. Anyway, I would typically try and get over these feelings over time, however we're both moving away in a couple of weeks, and I know that this will be the last time I could tell her how I feel. At the same time, because we're close, I don't want to ruin our friendship by telling her. I haven't felt this way about anyone and, I know I'm young, but I feel like I'm not going to feel like this about anyone for a long time. Would it be wise to tell her, even if she says no so I can try and move on quicker, or ignore it and attempt to move on, knowing that any day she could find someone else?
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (25 August 2011):
 The smartest thing you could do is say: "... I like you, (her name).... and will miss you.... and hope that we stay in touch...."
Why feel that you have to reach some sort of cresendo in a "relationship" that you don't even know if it exists... AND - at the same time - RISK that friendship??????
Good luck....
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reader, tash mendiz  +, writes (25 August 2011):
 just give a try and hope for the best :)
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