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writes:Hola. Okay, so I've liked this guy for a while now, and he finally started texting me a few weeks ago. At first his texts were really sweet and funny, and blah blah blah, and after we'd texted for a week or so he said that he would go out with me. He didn't ask, but he said he would, so I was kinda confused there. Anyway, a few days ago he started talking dirty over text, and said that he really wanted to have sex. I would have said yes, but he dated this other girl for a really long time and I think he still might have some feelings for her. I'm just afraid that him being nice to me was a way of getting me to have sex with him, but I don't know. I really do like him, and even though I want him, I don't want to have sex with someone if they just want to be friends with benefits, especially when I really like them. He acts like he really does want to go out at school though, and always talks to me, so I don't know. Advice? Much appreciated.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (25 August 2011):
 Listen to your instincts. He's planning to use you... and you'll have to sell your soul to provide yourself to him. Is it worth it????
Good luck...
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2011): You have good instincts to question this.
If you don't want to get used for sex then just don't ever sleep with any guy before they will commit to an exclusive relationship with you.
Always resist the temptation to make any excuses with yourself that "this time it's different." It is never really different.
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