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*weetLipsX0
writes:So the guy i liked, happens to like me back. So after like two weeks of flirting and talking. We kissed. Later on that day i asked him, where we were heading? So he asked me out...and i asked him if thats what he wanted? He didn't really answer me. But he did however ask me How i felt about FWB. I was upset by the question. I told him how i did not like that, because I'm not that kind of girl. So then i asked him if he didn't want to be in a relationship...turns out that he doesn't. I was so bummed and sad, that i almost cried in front of him. He said to please not cry so i didnt. I told him, that it was just stupid, the fact that i liked him and all. He said he liked me to and that we could just remain friends for now...and just take things slow. What do you think about this? BTW he does care about me, he waits for me to go to my classes, txts me all the time, askes how my class is going? etc
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reader, SweetLipsX0 +, writes (26 August 2011):
SweetLipsX0 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks to all of you guys =)
I'm still talking to him, because we are still friends. I understand however that it is dangerous to continue talking to him, because of me being a female....Getting feelings and just liking him even more lol. My friends have suggested to me to just STOP talking to him, because me & him aren't going to head anywhere.( At least not anywhere i want to end up at.) I'm thinking how hard it would be though, because i feel like i need some other kind of distraction on my mind. This cute guy, whose funny and cool..stays on my mind. And i need try not to like him. Also we're supposed to hang out tomorrow, but i'm not even sure if i want to anymore though. =(
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reader, idoneitagain  +, writes (26 August 2011):
If you want a relationship with this guy, don't have sex with him. If you have sex with him, he will bolt, he has at least been honest enough to tell you that he likes you but has made it clear that he doesn't want a relationship. Just stay friends with him, and if you want to risk it, you can spend time getting closer as friends. The two of you might form a strong connection, and he might find his feelings change and that he does want a relationship, if he develops the maturity and courage to have one which he may be lacking, but be warned. It is also possible that the two of you become close, you fall in love with him, and he does not, which can be a difficult experience for you. You also run a greater risk of then having sex with him because you are in love, and him not returning your feelings.
If you like him, feel free to be close, but you would be wise to leave sex out of the relationship.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (25 August 2011):
 LIsten to bunnyblueeyes.... She is telling you the truth...
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reader, Milo117  +, writes (25 August 2011):
 To the left to the left! If this isnt what you want tell him No and walk away simple as.
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reader, bunnyblueeyes +, writes (25 August 2011):
 Don't hope for too much with this boy, He has already told you what he wants and I fear that you are seeing too much into his friendly actions.
If you know you would not be happy with a FWB relationship then stick to that, no matter how sweet he is, as you will only get hurt.
Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2011): If you really "aren't that kind of girl" then you won't get into a FWB. Everything else is excuses and rationalizations.
I give you major props for not being that kind of girl. A girl having a FWB in the past is a HUGE turnoff for me ever taking her seriously as a GF. I don't like FWBs, I won't do them, and I don't like dating people who have done them. It means your sexual values are different from mine.
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