What's the best way to ask her dad's permission to date her?
Q. Quick question... Going to ask my hopefully soon to be girlfriends parents for permission to date her. Her mom likes me a lot, and so even though she's not *technically* allowed to date until shes 16 in a few months, considering the circumst...
A. 15 August 2011: No relationship is perfect..EVER. But you can be happy and supportive of each other while being understanding that in many ways she IS still a "kid" in her Dad's eyes.
Keep showing her parents that you are a man of honor.
By the way, it is n... (read in full...)
Do women really enjoy having fingers in their mouths?
Q. A common thing in porn is for the man to put his fingers in the mouth of the woman during foreplay. I have never done this in my sex life. Is this something women enjoy? ...
A. 11 July 2011: Porn gives the illusion that all women like certain acts and are happy to participate in them all the time without hesitiation or refusal.
Finger sucking, or worse, TOE sucking absolutely turns me off on the giving or receiving end.
... (read in full...)
I am 24 and planning to lose my virginity to a prostitute. Any tips for a first-timer?
Q. Well I'm 24 and still a virgin and really tired of waiting. So I'm looking into losing my virginity to a prostitute in a few weeks. It's legal where I live and weekly STD testing are mandatory for prostitutes. I've given up on finding a girlfr...
A. 11 July 2011: I still think its a shame that you view sex as something "to get over with".
Hope it all works out and meets your needs.... (read in full...)
Wouldn't it be lovely if an STD/STI protocol operated? How does one confirm if a new partner does not have an STD or a STI?
Q. So,I just got out a long term relationship. So long that we were both virgins before we met and never had to worry about stds/stis. My question is, when I'm ready to get back into the dating world, how does sex work, in terms of, do most couples get ...
A. 11 July 2011: Repeat that chant! No Glove, no love.
My last bf was offended I asked him to wear condoms and get tested.
I would rather that HE be offended that ME get a disease.
... (read in full...)
Could there be a reason why everyone around me is blonde?
Q. I know this may seem like the stupidest question every asked. and im really in no need of any dyer advice here but can some one tell me why every one and i mean every one out side of my family that i know is blond? i have brown hair for one thing ...
A. 11 July 2011: You live in Southern California?... (read in full...)
There's something wrong when my fiance isn't coming home until dawn is breaking
Q. I have been with my fiancee for over 5 years. I love her, and couldn't imagine my life without her. That isn't to say we aren't without our problems. Our most pressing issue is that we work different schedules. I'm an attorney, and she's in the ...
A. 11 July 2011: Maybe you have a lifestyle incompatibility.
Think about how long this life pattern will last BEFORE you get married.
My thought is if she REALLY wanted to be home right away..she would be.... (read in full...)
Will I ever get over my fiance's death? Will I ever find someone who I can love as much as I love my heart and soul? Will I even want to?
Q. My late fiance and I were together for three years; engaged for one. He died six months ago in a huge car accident that took three other lives as well... and I'm still having a hard time coping with the loss. I've received an insane amount of love ...
A. 11 July 2011: First of all, my condolences on your loss of your beloved fiance.
Losing anyone we love is tragic and leaves this huge hole in our hearts that seems unable to be filled ever again.
It has been 6 mos, and you are still in pain. Have you spoken ... (read in full...)
Mom gave me two weeks to move out! Is it wrong that I don't want to talk to her again?
Q. I'm usually the one giving advice but right now,I need the advice.ok about a month ago,I moved n with my fiance..before then,I was still staying with my mom (im 18) now one morning,I woke up with a txt from her sayin I had 2wks to move..this really ...
A. 11 July 2011: Did she tell you WHY she was asking to move out?
How was your relationship with your Mom before this notice.
She was not kicking you out (that would have been immediate) she was telling you to make other arrangments.
"she rodent evn cla... (read in full...)
What does it mean if a man stops making love to you half way through??
Q. Hi What does it mean if a man stops making love to you half way through??...
A. 11 July 2011: "He bought around a plant for me its call a Bleeding Heart, what do you guys reckon that's about."
That he thought you would like the plant? They are quite pretty, with the flowers looking like little hearts. I believe they are related to fusch... (read in full...)
Ex BF harrassing the hell out of me - why?
Q. Hi all, my ex boyfriend of 6 months ago (whom I dated for a year) treated me horribly during our relationship. Eventually he dumped me over the phone because according to him "he didn't love me, he was just with me because his mum thought I would ...
A. 11 July 2011: Only he really knows why. Do not waste time trying to figure it out.... (read in full...)
I am 24 and planning to lose my virginity to a prostitute. Any tips for a first-timer?
Q. Well I'm 24 and still a virgin and really tired of waiting. So I'm looking into losing my virginity to a prostitute in a few weeks. It's legal where I live and weekly STD testing are mandatory for prostitutes. I've given up on finding a girlfr...
A. 10 July 2011: """To the hypocrites and virginity collectors out there..."
Virginity Collecting? This is a new hobby? That sure beats collecting stamps.
I think if you feel you do not want to wait for a relationship for this experience at your age...thats... (read in full...)
I don't wan't to leave my wife, but I have very strong feelings for this other woman. Is it possible to love two women and not hurt anyone?
Q. Hi everyone, I'm new to this site, but appreciate everyone's candor and returns on their experience. I am and have been happily married for 20 years now with my french wife in Paris. I love my wife, we are close and loving and I am proud ...
A. 10 July 2011: OP, I was being sarcastic.
If it is TOO FAR to talk to her about it...then choosing an affair, even a flirtation that she would not be ok with...
MERE TALKING!!! Then, no she is not going to be ok with you acting on it.
RedAthena, wr... (read in full...)
Why did she kiss me?
Q. Me and my ex [both 18] go out clubbing together a lot because we have the same friends. Last night we were out and were both quite tipsy, and I bought her a drink. She said 'thank you, sexy' and quickly made out with me, not too ferociously, ...
A. 9 July 2011: Because kissing is nice and you were kissable.
Its not a declaration of feelings. It's a kiss.... (read in full...)
Moving on. Is two montha long enough to wait before I start dating again?
Q. I have just broke up from my girldfriend of 1 year, but to be honest the last 2 months I may as well have been single. The first few months went well, but then I started to get very judegmental about her past, and I was nasty to her about it and aske...
A. 9 July 2011: I think it is good to take a break between a break up and dating. It gives you time to gather yourself, sort anything out, reinforce your own identity, etc. The idea is to not rebound or give your heart to someone new when you dont have it put ... (read in full...)
Are there any tips to help improve our situation? My GF and I have attitude issues.
Q. Ok, so my girlfriend always makes me so mad. She makes fun of me by calling me names like: freak and dork - all because i don't like harry potter? It gets annoying. I try not to but i always give her an attitude about that. Also she's always m...
A. 9 July 2011: You may make better friends than lovers.
Some friends just do not make good couples.... (read in full...)
Can I make it through life without learning how to drive?
Q. every one i know including my family thinks i am unintelligent just because i can not drive a car. Ive tried and tried and just cant grasp it. i have not even made it past the permit part yet because the test to me is so confusing and the answers ...
A. 9 July 2011: Driving is a useful skill not just for YOURSELF but for others.
What if someday there is an emergency and you need to get somewhere fast?
What if you are riding with a friend and they become ill?
What if you are on a roadtrip with friends,... (read in full...)
What does it mean if a man stops making love to you half way through??
Q. Hi What does it mean if a man stops making love to you half way through??...
A. 9 July 2011: Brainstorming...
*He's done.
*He can't come.
*He had something else to do.
*He died.
*His wife told him to stop.
*The little blue pill wore off
*The batteries need charging
*He fell asleep... (read in full...)
Ex BF harrassing the hell out of me - why?
Q. Hi all, my ex boyfriend of 6 months ago (whom I dated for a year) treated me horribly during our relationship. Eventually he dumped me over the phone because according to him "he didn't love me, he was just with me because his mum thought I would ...
A. 9 July 2011: You need to detach from him in ALL ways. Stop giving him so much power over YOU.
The best revenge is the well-lived life.
YOU determine the value of YOU. Not him.... (read in full...)
B/f lied about porn plus he watches really violent pornography!
Q. why would a man randomly need skype? When I asked him about it he did not really give me an answer as to why he needs it. Also I just had a talk with my man about how I don't feel comfortable being with a man who watches or is addicted to porn and ...
A. 9 July 2011: Lots of people have skype, but that is not your big issue.
You do not trust your bf. Unfortunately, some people with an addiction to porn can not have a normal sex life.
I do not have a problem with my guy watching porn, but I would be disturb... (read in full...)
I never have wet dreams. Is that unusual?
Q. I have never in my entire life had a "wet dream." Sometimes, I have dreamed about having sex, but it's not a common dream for me. I once told a friend that I never have these nocturnal emissions and he said I must just wank off too much. Well, I ...
A. 9 July 2011: Nope. Not all boys or men have them.
Grant is correct, that wet dreams, or nocturnal emissions (medical term) are common in the early teen years.
Basically, some young men as they sexually mature, have hormonal and seminal "surges" and the... (read in full...)
I'm scared to hold hands or kiss with my boyfriend
Q. Okay , so me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost a month now and we've already kissed and made out. He's 15 and I'm 13. And we don't see each other all the time, we see each other about every other week. And every time we hang out i get ...
A. 9 July 2011: My daughter is 13 and I will tell you the same thing I told her.
You do not have to ever do anything you do not want to.
It is OK to say no.
When you are comfortable, you will be reaching for HIS hand.
Any boy who does not understand that... (read in full...)
I don't wan't to leave my wife, but I have very strong feelings for this other woman. Is it possible to love two women and not hurt anyone?
Q. Hi everyone, I'm new to this site, but appreciate everyone's candor and returns on their experience. I am and have been happily married for 20 years now with my french wife in Paris. I love my wife, we are close and loving and I am proud ...
A. 9 July 2011: Ask your wife for permission. If she gives you her blessing, feel free to have a mistress.... (read in full...)
Is it ok to stop seeing someone when they put pressure on me?
Q. I've never dated nor had any real relationship before. Is it ok to stop seeing someone when they insist on trying to put pressure on me to let them touch me?...
A. 9 July 2011: Sure it is ok to stop seeing someone. But, let them know WHY.
If you feel uncomfortable with physical touch, you may find it harder to have a relationship. Men DO like to hug, kiss, caress, etc.
You never have to do anything you are not comf... (read in full...)
Husband has panties that aren't mine!
Q. i found a jelly vagina on my husband jacket and some pair of panties and the panties are not mine i ask hem why he had that plus some blue pills too and he dint answer my question he toll me that i was making a big deal but i think that the panties ...
A. 9 July 2011: How long has it been since we wore that jacket? Since you have been married?
You can find out when those pills were last filled too. That would be interesting to know.... (read in full...)
No sex in 2 years, will I be tight?
Q. so im due to get marrid the end of this year ,whice i realy realy love him so but the problem is i have to be a virgin when i marry but i told the man im marrying that i ant a virgin i told him i had sex twice with an exboyfriend and that was too...
A. 9 July 2011: I sense a bigger problem than tightness.
Have you told your future husband that you have had sex more than twice? Talk to him about your future concerns with your sex life/pleasing him.
He is marring YOU, not your parts.... (read in full...)
How do I help my bf through his divorce from his former wife?
Q. I am in a relationship and my boyfriend is still married. He is separated for over a year and going through with his divorce. I just need to know what I can do to help him with all this and should I be at all. We together as a team at everything we ...
A. 9 July 2011: It is HIS divorce, let him handle the drama and stay out of it. Even if he is over it, he may have feelings he still has to process through.
Just live your life and be yourself.... (read in full...)
Why do I feel so badly when I should be excited?
Q. My question is more of a concern. I've been with my boyfriend 3 years and we are very much inlove. We've talked about marriage/kids etc and at the moment were looking to buy a house. However I am so nervous, I'm on complete eggshells every ...
A. 9 July 2011: Because buying a house is a huge deal and a huge sign of commitment.
He has also be unreliable, so you are concerned he will not follow thru.
Those are called nerves.
Psst, since you are not married before buying a house, make SURE your na... (read in full...)
Why does my husband insist he still loves me though he has left me?
Q. My husband of 10 years left me suddenly without ever having told me he was unhappy. In fact, he always told me he was happy and even now says he still "loves me." I have no idea what he means by that. He initially was in love or lust with a woma...
A. 8 July 2011: I know that I have healed enough to carry on to be a strong Mother, a great employee, and strong enough to date again.
It took a lot of time, therapy, emotional support from family and friends and deciding that either I would let this experien... (read in full...)
Why does my husband insist he still loves me though he has left me?
Q. My husband of 10 years left me suddenly without ever having told me he was unhappy. In fact, he always told me he was happy and even now says he still "loves me." I have no idea what he means by that. He initially was in love or lust with a woma...
A. 8 July 2011: My deepest condolences as a former wife of a true Narcissist.
Often Narcissitic partners will chuch their partner aside once they no longer meet their needs or if someone ELSE meets their needs more. They often make the new partner deeply u... (read in full...)
Spotting but still no period, am I pregnant ?
Q. hey i need some help urgently and i would really appreciate if someone answered this. okay so im 17 and i had sex a week ago(28th june). i was supposed to get my periods around the 4th to 7th july (my last period was on the 4th june). On the 7th of ...
A. 8 July 2011: Additional info:
It sounds like you and bf used the "withdrawl" method?
Yes, you can still get pregnant even IF he did not finish inside.
See a doctor. You need a test and an exam.... (read in full...)
Why doesn't he share his fetishes with me? Why is he hiding them?
Q. my bf watches asian soft porn when im not with him have never discussed this and i found out by accident . im not asian by any means . he also has a pantyhose fetish and shoe fetish why dont he share this with me ....
A. 8 July 2011: Have you asked him if he wants to explore more kinky stuff with you? I bet he will come up with some suggestions!... (read in full...)
Opinions on beards please!!
Q. Hiyaaaaa, Well this isn't really a problem more off a personal opinion and preference! I don't do art as a subject anymore but I recently bumped into my art teacher and saw him with a beard!!!!! So guys why would you guys grow a beard or ...
A. 8 July 2011: Facial hair is as personal as how you style your hair on TOP of your head.
My personal preference is to keep it as neat and groomed as possible. Anything shaggy is a turn off and reminds me of my Dad:)
I prefer NO facial hair at all, but some... (read in full...)
Should I let him see his son if he's clean ?
Q. _bout a year ago me and my husband separated for about four months. I dated a guy and he dated alot of girls. Well i feel in love and got pregnent. I already had a son with my husband. We turned out after i found out i was pregnant my bf had a meth ...
A. 8 July 2011: I would not rely on his word alone. Insist he get into an addiction program that requires regular blood tests.
If he complains about his legal right to his son, he can file with a court to obtain those rights. YOU can then state his drug pro... (read in full...)
Why does he treat me like this, I'm carrying his baby !
Q. I have a big problem im 7 months pregnant from a guy who is now disrespecting me, hes very abusive emotionally and physically. He calls me names the after day he told me he made out in a park with a girl he met on blackberry messager group. he keeps ...
A. 8 July 2011: You are better off without him.
Draw close to your family and your friends right now.
You need and deserve support.
Get a lawyer anyway. File for paternity and financial support. Even if he can not pay up right now, you want on court record... (read in full...)
Why do some guys date pregnant women?
Q. I've heard a few stories of guys dating pregnant women, who are pregnant with someone else's baby. Meaning she got pregnant and then they met/ got back together after she got pregnant. Why would a guy want so much baggage? You would always be put ...
A. 8 July 2011: Well, it is dating a pregnant woman, not necessarily more.
I have read a little about the psychology of why some men like to date pregnant women.
Well, first she's ALREADY pregnant and someone else is responsible. No chance of an unplanned pre... (read in full...)
I am married but this other woman will not leave me alone!! Help!
Q. Hi, I'm 35 and married. In March this year, I started flirting with my female colleague. After few weeks, we realised that we both had a lot of things in common and we're sexually attracted to each other. She told me that she wanted commitment, so I ...
A. 8 July 2011: Oh get over YOURSELF and GROW UP!
Buddy, you initiated this affair and WITH a coworker to boot. (While you do not state if the flirtation became physical, you chose to play with fire with another woman)
Are you familiar with the saying, "You... (read in full...)
I love her but I keep catching her in lies, and she insists she's telling the truth even when lying right to my face!
Q. Sorry for the length of this one. Im in love with a girl I have been friends for 5yrs and lovers for 5 months. We were co-workers/friends about 5yrs ago, parted ways, kept in tough and now in love and happy for the most part. Only problem are the ...
A. 8 July 2011: A simple response.
People who have NOTHING to hide...hide nothing.
Your gf is a liar, you know this. She could be telling others that you two sleep together, but nothing happens.
Sorry, not buying it. Your gf is a golddigger AND a slut.
... (read in full...)
I feel completely alienated at my new job. How can I break through?
Q. Why are the girls at my workplace so horrible:( i feel upset? i got a new job 3weeks ago. i work with 5 other girls on my department. none of them have made ny attempt to speak to me. all they do is stand there and talk among themselves. and ...
A. 8 July 2011: First of all, do not let them see that they have upset you.
Females in the workplace can be a vicious lot. They remind me of chickens in a henhouse. When you bring a new hen into the coop, the older hens will generally peck on the newest addition... (read in full...)
Why does my husband insist he still loves me though he has left me?
Q. My husband of 10 years left me suddenly without ever having told me he was unhappy. In fact, he always told me he was happy and even now says he still "loves me." I have no idea what he means by that. He initially was in love or lust with a woma...
A. 8 July 2011: I think it is his piss-poor way of saying he cares about your well-being, but it might just be something he is saying to make himself feel less like a villian for your split.
So sorry about the hard time you are going through. You are doing th... (read in full...)
He says he doesn't want to get married again, but then will talk about "our wedding" all the time. What does he want?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together just around 2 years now. Of that two years we have lived together over a year. He is only a few years older than I; we each have a child from previous relationships. However, he has been married and divorced ...
A. 8 July 2011: There is one VERY important piece of information you have not stated. DO YOU WANT TO BE MARRIED someday?
Your bf is sending you mixed messages with hot and cold running feelings about marriage.
You have already committed your life, your famil... (read in full...)
How can I make her believe in me and in us ?
Q. hey,am well im 36 and my girlfriend is 25.She already a single mother of a boy.she was betrayed in the last relationship and the father wanted nothing to do with her son.She is 10 weeks pregnant,and she knew for a few weeks and was afraid to tell me ...
A. 8 July 2011: Adding to the above,
Just take her by the hand and look her square in the eye.
Say, "I am new at this, but I am going to be here for you, your son, and our child. I am not going anywhere. Let's figure it out, one day at at time. Ok?"
Ex... (read in full...)
What's the best way to ask her dad's permission to date her?
Q. Quick question... Going to ask my hopefully soon to be girlfriends parents for permission to date her. Her mom likes me a lot, and so even though she's not *technically* allowed to date until shes 16 in a few months, considering the circumst...
A. 7 July 2011: Is is the parents decision. If it is meant to be then it WILL happen, but NOW is probably not the time.
These are years for both of you to tackle your educations and become well-rounded people. There is still growing for both of you to do, and ... (read in full...)
What's the best way to ask her dad's permission to date her?
Q. Quick question... Going to ask my hopefully soon to be girlfriends parents for permission to date her. Her mom likes me a lot, and so even though she's not *technically* allowed to date until shes 16 in a few months, considering the circumst...
A. 7 July 2011: A Mothers response-I have teenagers, so I will tell you what I would do in this situation.
If a lovely 18 year old boy (you have a lot of great qualities) asked ME to date my 15, soon to be 16 yo daughter. I would say no.
Even if there is a gl... (read in full...)
What's the best way to ask her dad's permission to date her?
Q. Quick question... Going to ask my hopefully soon to be girlfriends parents for permission to date her. Her mom likes me a lot, and so even though she's not *technically* allowed to date until shes 16 in a few months, considering the circumst...
A. 7 July 2011: Correction F.A., she is FIFTEEN right now.
Nick, I think it is VERY smart to ask her Father for permssion. Since you are 18+ and she is a minor.
STILL, check the laws of your state, because as a minor you could be breaking a law called Statu... (read in full...)
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