I love the attention of my BFF and feel bad when he has a girlfriend. What does this mean?
Q. How can i know if i'm in a emotionnal affair with my male bff (i've known him for one year)? I adore my boyfriend but i like the attention i get from my bff he listens to me and notices me more than my bf it seems. I'm addicted to it I think like a ...
A. 27 August 2011: I've been the bff. He probably likes you. I would just be open to your bf and your bff. You don't want there to be more drama where more than 3 people get hurt.... (read in full...)
I've fallen in love online. He's a college drop-out, an aspiring writer and musician, he never finishes his work
Q. I have...a very odd situation, but I guess everyone thinks that. I've fallen in love online. With someone about 6 and a half years older than me. The reality of the situation is that he's a college drop out who wants to make it as a writer and...
A. 21 August 2011: if you think he is worth it. you should keep on with him. You could tell him you aren't going to be with him until he finishes whatever he is writing or something like that.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend has aftershave that ex gave him and I don't like it
Q. I know this sounds ridiculous, but my boyfriend has this aftershave that his ex-gf bought him and when he wears it it makes me really angry inside. He obviously doesn't know this because I would look like a joke. He's wearing it more and more and it ...
A. 29 July 2011: Tell him it and if he loves you he will use another brand.... (read in full...)
Husband caught playing "sexual chicken" now what?
Q. I've been married to my husband for over a year. Two months ago I found a sexually explicit text on his phone (I wasn't snooping, it displayed the text when I plugged his phone in the charger. You can bet I snooped after that, though). It was from a ...
A. 29 July 2011: Confront him and then divorce him and NEVER EVER accept him back. He ruined his chances with you twice. You deserve better.... (read in full...)
Why did he move on so fast after he said he wanted to be single?
Q. I was dating this guy for a little while not that long then he broke up with me saying i became too clingy and that he doesn't want to be with anyone for a while but it has been two days i called him and he had someone over and he hung up in my ...
A. 29 July 2011: she is probably his rebound. She will probably go once you pay either one no attention.... (read in full...)
I was mad and cheated on her, but now her family and friends hate me.
Q. My ex and I got into a fight while we were still dating and I was mad and cheated on her. I felt horrible and told her about it the very next day. She was mad and we broke up. A few weeks later we got back together and I cheated again. This all ...
A. 27 July 2011: Just leave. you learned your lesson and just move on. If she wants you back, you have to give her space and time. As long as you know, she may never want to see you again.... (read in full...)
How can I tell him he's too rough during sex?
Q. I'm very sore after having sex with my boyfriend and I don't know how to tell him. Not just in my private parts, but all over my body. My upper and lower back hurts so much! I'm 26 years old and he's 48 years old. He's a heavy and muscularly type of ...
A. 27 July 2011: just tell him. He might appreciate your honesty and thats how you know he really loves you.... (read in full...)
Is he worth fighting for? He said he doesn't want a relationship.
Q. So. Hey everyone. Here's my story. I know this guy since about three years and I've had a number of crushed on him since about a year and a half ago. I never acted on them because I had a boyfriend at the time but no matter how strong I fought t...
A. 27 July 2011: try to not contacting him at all. As well find a new man as soon as possible. ... (read in full...)
How can I stop my 13-year-old brother from starting to have sex?
Q. I need some advice on what to tell my brother. He is thirteen and i have recently discovered that is thinking about having sex. His mates are apparently doing it and I've told him i am sickened by this and all the other usual blah like you're ...
A. 26 July 2011: talk to your mom. im sure that even if she is "in her own world" she will listen if she found her 13 year old son is thinking about having sex. if she doesn't, she is a terrible parent.... (read in full...)
My family dislikes my bf, I love him, they do crazy things to break us up, should I move out?
Q. Dear cupid, my sister and my mother hate my boyfriend!and i feel like its creating a gap between us and this makes no sense!when i ask them why they dont like him their only reasons are because he doesnt have much money all the time to take me to ...
A. 26 July 2011: I think your sister wants your boyfriend. She just doesn't want to say it honestly to you. Tell her to get over herself and maybe help her find a man.... (read in full...)
BF is married and lied to me about being separated from his wife, having sex with her and having another kid that I didnt know of. Does he deserve another chance?
Q. Five months ago I met this guy who seemed like a good guy and was fun to hang around. From the first moment we met he admitted to me that he had a son who was in the first grade, and showed me pictures like any proud father. Even though I myself ...
A. 12 July 2011: No, he is taking you for granted.... (read in full...)
Help me out of the 'friend zone'!
Q. The guy I like I have known for around eight years, our parents are best friends and I have practically grown up with him. I have really strong feelings for him but i'm worried that he only thinks of me as a friend, help me get out of the friend ...
A. 6 July 2011: Just tell him how you feel. He might feel the same way about you. You never know unless you try. Best of luck.... (read in full...)
Is asking her out on a date the right thing to do or should I ask her for a coffee or something?
Q. Hello, I am 23 but never had a girlfriend. I met this girl at a friend's house; we have a mutual friend. She gave me compliments about some of my facial features. I like this girl and want to know her more. what should I do? Is asking her out on a...
A. 5 July 2011: You can start slow by just talking to her.I know it might be scary but it's what life is all about overcoming your fears and what not. I would ask her just that. I want to get to know you better, can I have coffee with you? If she says no, then she ... (read in full...)
Is asking her out on a date the right thing to do or should I ask her for a coffee or something?
Q. Hello, I am 23 but never had a girlfriend. I met this girl at a friend's house; we have a mutual friend. She gave me compliments about some of my facial features. I like this girl and want to know her more. what should I do? Is asking her out on a...
A. 27 June 2011: just do it. take the risk.... (read in full...)
Does my boyfriend's friend have a crush on me??
Q. Well basically I have a boyfriend who I've been with for a long time. I get on fine with his friends. One friend in particular who has liked me previously (although he didn't tell me this) seems to talk to me a hell of a lot. Mostly online. We talk ...
A. 21 June 2011: I think he likes you. I would talk with him about it in person. Then depending on how well that goes talk to your boyfriend about it. But if you have dreams about another man kissing you and then confessing his feelings. It sounds like you like him ... (read in full...)
I don't mind my BF having friends but I don't want him being friends with girls.
Q. Me and my current boyfrined have been togather over a year... in our first 4 months of datuing... he was cheating on me... We are over that now... but i dont let him talk and hang out with girls because i done want him to do it again, today he was ...
A. 21 June 2011: I don't think you should be with him. If he cheated on you already, he's most likely going to do it again. It's nice that you gave him a second chance but you have to let him go. it might be best for him as well because he said he is depressed.... (read in full...)
Pot Head GF choosing weed over me. What can I do?
Q. ok so ive been going out with my girlfriend for about 5 months now. she has a problem with smoking weed. it is to the point of addiction and don't tell me otherwise because ive seen it ruin peoples lives. i have talked to her three times about this ...
A. 21 June 2011: I don't think this girl is right for you, If you have to make an ultimatum, that's when you know. Honestly, I think it's hot if a girl smokes weed all the time, but that's just my opinion.... (read in full...)
Why do I fall in love with every woman who shows me the least bit of attention?
Q. Hi im a 19y.o male. I have a question that may seem odd, but this has been on my mind for a while. to quote "eternal sunshine of the spotless mind" why do i fall in love with every woman who shows me the LEAST bit attention? I find this happening ...
A. 14 June 2011: I do that alot as well. But you just have to live life.... (read in full...)
What do you think turned her off? Is there any way I can make this right?
Q. I've been out of high school for a year and I had a huge crush on this girl. I never asked her out because she had a boyfriend for the first two years, she also flirts with everyone (how could I trust her) and I had low self confidence. The funny ...
A. 14 June 2011: thanks. I figured as such. I just needed an outside opinion.... (read in full...)
Husband cheated. We seperated. I took him back. Now he cheated again. Now what???
Q. I just found out my husband cheated on me for the second time. We had been married for 13 yrs and had our ups and downs, then I found out about a affair he was having and we split up, but never got divorced. It was like that for about 6 yrs, in ...
A. 13 June 2011: don't get back with him. Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me. There are no third chances.... (read in full...)
We are such good friends but should we try to date?
Q. I am a girl and my best friend is a boy. A few years ago me and him never used to get on, we used to hate each other. But it's become in the last few years that we've gotten on so well! I've never really found him strongly attractive, and I still ...
A. 9 June 2011: talk to him.... (read in full...)
How do you keep a past relationship from ruining a present relationship?
Q. how do you not let a past relationship affect a relationship you want to actually turn out right? I've had bad experiances from guys who have broke my heart, and What I've been doing is trying to realize that every guy isn't necesarily the same, so ...
A. 9 June 2011: I'm not sure if your emotionally stable. Try being single for awhile and when you ready to love again, get back in the dating scene.... (read in full...)
After three years it's a lot more than a 'crush' but she doesn't feel the same way
Q. Hi, im a 19 y.o guy. I met this girl about 3 years ago in college, we were best friends in college and i slowly but surely began to fall deeply in love with her. Lemme clarify one thing, she is amazing. She is possibly the hottest girl ive ever met, ...
A. 9 June 2011: been in the same boat. Although I never had sex with her, I still know that feeling of loving someone who doesn't love you back and there is not much you can do. Just forget her and find someone else. Hopefully, in time she will miss you and ... (read in full...)
Guys, would a girl's past FWB relationship put you off her?
Q. I'm currently in somewhat of a friends with benefits situation with a guy I know. What I want is opinions on how this may make future potential guys look at me in the future. Guys, would you keep yourself away from a girl who had previous...
A. 9 June 2011: It would depend on if she is still seeing the guy when we are dating. It just shows that she thinks and wants sex just as much as us guys do. ... (read in full...)
I'm a girl with a guy best friend and he now has a girlfriend
Q. Dear Cupid, My best friend and I are really close. We tell each other our fears, secrets, hopes, likes, and dislikes. We even share with each other the unnecessary. We text/talk from the moment we wake up to the time we fall asleep. We can hold sev...
A. 9 June 2011: It sounds like he isn't that great of a friend. He pities you. He doesn't want to be the overly mean guy and reject you because he doesn't feel the same way about you as you do to him. He says that he is helping you with your weight issues and you ... (read in full...)
We're both happy with the FWB scene, but not knowing wen he'll drop me, is scary...
Q. This relationship tbegan by sms chat nd 2 months later...we became friends with benefits. The arrangement is no expectations. Either of us can opt out anytime. Its a year now nd the uncertainty is becoming harder to bear.... Wen we 2gether im in a ...
A. 26 May 2011: I would talk to him about your feelings. If he doesn't feel the same, then quit cold turkey. but if he does, figure out a balance that works for both of you. It started out being unhealthy so it's hard to make it healthy. It is possible if you want ... (read in full...)
With 2 weeks left of Senior year should I finally make a move or just let it go?
Q. So there’s this guy who has liked during High school and possibly middle school too, the typical staring, trying to walk close by me in the hall and hair fixing. He’d always been someone I was attracted to but somehow we were friends with the others ...
A. 26 May 2011: pursue it. It's better than agonizing for it for the rest of your life for not doing that.... (read in full...)
My soul mate wants times for "disconnection" and I don't know how to deal with it!
Q. I dont really know where to start. I have recently lost the love of my life. We were together for nearly 3years and perfect for eachother so happy and never made eachother mad or upset for that long. Never any trust issues were always true to ...
A. 25 May 2011: There's a saying, "If you love somebody, let them go. If they come back, than it will last forever. but if they don't than it was never meant to be." If you respect her space, then hopefully if it's true love than she will come back. It's going... (read in full...)
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