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*issie4450
writes:so im due to get marrid the end of this year ,whice i realy realy love him so but the problem is i have to be a virgin when i marry but i told the man im marrying that i ant a virgin i told him i had sex twice with an exboyfriend and that was too year ago ...he was not fine at first but he accepts this so thats okay ..but he also told me that haveing sex with him would be like me being a virgin again because i only did it twice and i will still be tight!but the problem is i had sex with my ex alott more than twice !! so thats aproblem will i be tight with my new partner on my wedding night ,will my vigina go back to being tight like befor ? i havent had sex in too year (also i dont insert object in there or use tampons or put my fingers anywhere near there) so i realy need honest girls/women that knows from experience to answer this question .....this might ruin everything with me and him so plzz plzzz help me out im realy worrid ,also i heard there is some sort of cream or liquid i could use to make me feel as tight as virgin any one no???
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2011): You can do keggal exercises to strengthen your pelvic muscles and it makes u tighter.
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reader, RedAthena  +, writes (9 July 2011):
 I sense a bigger problem than tightness.
Have you told your future husband that you have had sex more than twice? Talk to him about your future concerns with your sex life/pleasing him.
He is marring YOU, not your parts.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2011): I suppose you aren't even considering telling him the truth and letting him make up his own mind about who he marries? I could understand if you were living in a country where you stand to get executed or some other terrible punishment for lying. But you aren't in a place like that, you are just lying for your own benefit.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2011): The creams and gels etc to make you tighter have no scientific proof.I have never used them, but ive heard that they dont work at all, sorry!
Other than that, the real question is, was your old BF much better endowed than your husband to be? If so, you may be a bit looser, but if not then you will be fine!
Also it mostly depends on genetics/your anatomy and everyone is different, so dont worry too much!
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reader, sammy1986 +, writes (9 July 2011):
you will probably still be tight but i would do my pelvic floor exercises the muscles that you use to stop your self from weeing halfway through that will make you feel a bit tighter
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