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writes:hey.urm, well here goes.. me and my boyfriend have been together now for 7 months, im 16 and he is 19, we decided today to have sex for the first time, my parents are out until sunday so we had a free house, and it went pretty well, exept ive heard first times are meant to be the most memerable yet the most uncomfortable and ive heard its painfull and you bleed, but i didnt bleed, and i didnt find it uncomfortable, we used a condom and lube and i took some advice from this site and there was a fair bit of foreplay, but it was great.. does it mean theres something wrong with me if i didnt bleed or suffer any pain? he told me if there was anything at all bothering me, we could stop, he was so nice and caring, really conciderate and it was a great experience, he went home at like half 10 for work tomorrow and i got in the bath but now i feel fab. should i? thankssorry if this question isnt appropriate for this site.. just wondering? :) xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionawww thankyou guys so much! im glad hes such an amazin guy tooo (: i feeel loads better knowin not everyone feels pain though. i said in my post, i felt no discomfort, but i didnt mean to, i did feel slightly uncomfortable, it was all new. but there was no pain :D it was greeaat. thanksss again guys! (: xxxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2008): Yes you should! I'm glad your first experience was so good and that you've met someone so considerate. Enjoy yourselves!
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reader, Fairy_Lu +, writes (14 November 2008):
 Everyone is diffrent and as you used protection lube and lots of forplay maybe you where more relaxed then most girls. Congratulations on losing your virginity and doing it safely sounds like your boyfirend is a lovely fella dont let him go!
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reader, hannah76 +, writes (14 November 2008):
 Hello, Sounds perfect to me! A super guy to treasure and a beautiful way to lose your virginity. xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2008): I was 14 when I lost mine, and compared to the rest of the guys i have been with, this guy seemed pretty big in circumfrence. (*sp). I didn't bleed at all. I didn't feel any pain. I didn't use any lube, either.
It's a person by person thing. No worries :) And quite frankly, some women don't even have hymens!
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reader, myp  +, writes (14 November 2008):
 dont worry the question is perfectly appropriate for this site.
all girls are different when it comes to their first time. its perfectly normal to feel pain and perfectly normal not too. some girls bleed like a stuck pig and some have a great experience, no pain, no blood, no problem. so youre perfectly normal. you bshould/b feel fabulous, be happy! cuz it sounds like your boyfriend is a great guy.
have fun, be safe, dont stress!
-Myesha
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